How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[_Cathy_]

Never heard of its use referring to one's looks
Hilatsa nang mukha I can relate.
Hibla - yes sa buhok.

Mali tagalog grammar ata ng friend ko

Yung hilatsa ng mukha ang negative ng dating [emoji23]

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[dreamur]

Mali tagalog grammar ata ng friend ko

Yung hilatsa ng mukha ang negative ng dating [emoji23]

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Actually, I like your friend's attitude. Hindi plastic and just being herself. Hindi mahirap pakisamahan yan. Feeling ko she wont demand a lot from her partner and not so high maintenance.

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[_Cathy_]

that's correct she is NOT demanding at all and very low maintenance. In fact, I was the one who told her to have some standards. Her first and only ex of 10 yrs really neglected her. I think she deserves so much better

Anyway, there's a guy that expressed interest in her in Bumble. The guy is half Spanish daw but when I saw the photo, I can't find any trace of Spanish in his looks The guy caught his fiance in the middle of s3x with another guy! I think that's BS. What are the odds that you catch your partner right in the middle of s3x? Don't people lock their doors anymore? I told my friend to be wary of this guy, but since he's the only single and no kid(s) guy she's chatting with then I told her to meet him if he asks but be very very careful. I find the guy dubious e.

[uls]

low maintenance, hindi plastic, etc

but guys have to get past the bakla speak and the boring muna... hoping hindi mawalan ng interest

it takes time to discover character

when someone isn't interesting at the beginning palang, people won't take time to discover what's underneath

nabanggit ko na dati sa online dating people make quick decisions about a person whether to pursue or not

konting chat lang people make up their minds about a person

kung interesting or not, kung itutuloy or move on to the next one

coz the quantity potential mates online is practically infinite

[_Cathy_]

My friend went on a night out at a hotel bar wearing a polo shirt dress and sneakers 😳 That's her favorite outfit. Pagkakataon na sana maka meet ng guy, dapat nag night out dress

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My friend went on a night out at a hotel bar wearing a polo shirt dress and sneakers [emoji15] That's her favorite outfit. Pagkakataon na sana maka meet ng guy, dapat nag night out dress

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Kahit anong suot pa ng friend mo, kung maganda siya, may dating, at mukhang approachable, makakakilala ng lalake yan, lalapitan at lalapitan siya


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[viper888]

Clothes dont matter too much as long as its appropriate. This is not a job interview

[_Cathy_]

Kahit anong suot pa ng friend mo, kung maganda siya, may dating, at mukhang approachable, makakakilala ng lalake yan, lalapitan at lalapitan siya


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But according to the Tsikot guys and my friends, she's not that attractive so she needs to bawi with clothes. Doppelganger sila nung comedian He Huang

Clothes dont matter too much as long as its appropriate. This is not a job interview

She's extremely under dressed. My parents are kinda strict when it comes to those things kasi. And as my Aunt would say, better over dressed than under dressed It's like going to a formal event in a casual outfit. Shirt dress and sneakers in a bar (or as young ones call it club) is on the same level

Like this [emoji15]



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[_Cathy_]

So I was telling my friend this resto we tried and her reply really made me LOL. She said naman to excuse her innocence. Pag ganyan siya funny and cute naman diba?





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[_Cathy_]

What do you guys think? I have a hunch that the guy my friend is meeting up with is very much married

My friend will finally have her first meet up since joining bumble almost 3 years ago. They matched or started chatting 5 months ago. The guy said he is married but his annulment is in process. I think that's the oldest excuse in the book LOL! Anyway, I told her napakalaking sakit ng ulo to get involved with a married man (even if his annulment if TRULY in process) I know it too well! Anyway, let's give the man the benefit of the doubt. BUT here is why I think he is still married

1. His annulment is still "in process"
2. They never moved out of Bumble chat (no exchange of mobile number or any other messaging up)
3. My friend doesn't know his FB or any other social media account
4. They both only know each other's FIRST NAME

How the meet up happened (friend showed me SS of the conversation)

1. Asked my friend to meet on the day itself (I will never agree to that - I need at least ONE week notice)

2. Prefers to just meet somewhere na "may mauupuan" or park the car and stay in the back seat

3. Doesn't want to go to the office of my friend because he doesn't wanna "disturb" her work

4. BUT when he asked where to park and when my friend said na P300 ang parking sa condo nila after 10 pm (since my friend gets off work late). He made a comment na mahal so my friend just said she will leave work earlier. WTF! He is like in his 40s and he complains about P300 parking to meet a girl?!?!? So okay lang sa kanya umuwi friend ko maaga so he can save P225 pesos?

EDIT: My friend found cheaper parking but he plans to meet her after midnight (GALAWAN MAY ASAWA LOL)

5. Guy does NOT even know where to take my friend. He got married and had children and doesn't know the "protocols" of dating? Number One, ask the girl ano convenient location and give her OPTIONS on where to go. I dated a guy thoughtful enough to ask I have food allergies! I am not expecting that level of detail pero yung friend ko na nagsabi na he could park at her condo and they can walk to High Street. Nagreklamo pa malayo high street

What do I think? He wants "umakyat sa condo" or "tambay sa car" because he can't be seen in public with another woman!

I don't know if I am just being a negative Nancy but I would not have agreed to a meet up with the guy kasi walang saving grace (well I guess except na dadayo siya sa BGC) but the rest, complaining about parking, not knowing where to take my friend out and making her get off work early are a NO NO for me. I think my friend kasi masyado din mabait e! I told her she should OFFER to pay and if he accepts XXX na yan (when he is annulled) I mean definitely not BF material pero kasi people go on bumble to date so ang premise talaga romantic yan and not friendly.

BTW turn off sakin yung guy na ang hina ng diskarte, there's google and waze! Bakit yung friend ko pa naghanap ng parking for him There's this guy na on our first date, I chose the resto in Legazpi Village (he insisted), since I was confident with my timing I thought I would arrive on time, nagulat ako nauna sakin! I was shocked and he said he worked in Makati for a few years and I told him but I've been in Makati ALL MY LIFE. Impressive navigation skills!