How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[_Cathy_]

I have a single mom friend (mentioned her here before) I cut ties with her for years when she became a mistress but since she changed already, so we're friends again. She is in her 40s now and has not been with a man for 5 yrs siguro. Recently she started chatting with a client (?) for a week or two ata. The usual, hiwalay but still married. Anyway, they met personally when the guy came to her office and the day after he became cold na. She keeps on analyzing but I don't have the heart to tell her na most likely he didn't like what he saw. Then she asks me bakit daw lapitin siya ng may asawa. I couldn't tell her also na because she became a single Mom is her early 20s. Why would a single eligible 20s guy go for a single Mom, and daming magaganda na dalaga in that age bracket. Then she asks me where I met my boys, so I said I went out a lot in my youth. Nung teens and 20s naman punta ka lang mall, bar or restaurant, even in traffic may makikilala ka because everyone was searching at that time. Then you reach your mid 20s, biglang nag shrink yung pool of great guys LOL. Ang liit ng window!

I keep on telling her he just wanted to pump and dump her. It was clingy or desperate (?) of her to ask din on the FIRST week if he would be her GF if they sleep together. I told her a guy that sleeps around would run for the hills sa ginawa niya. hehehe.

[dr. d]

I have a single mom friend (mentioned her here before) I cut ties with her for years when she became a mistress but since she changed already, so we're friends again. She is in her 40s now and has not been with a man for 5 yrs siguro. Recently she started chatting with a client (?) for a week or two ata. The usual, hiwalay but still married. Anyway, they met personally when the guy came to her office and the day after he became cold na. She keeps on analyzing but I don't have the heart to tell her na most likely he didn't like what he saw. Then she asks me bakit daw lapitin siya ng may asawa. I couldn't tell her also na because she became a single Mom is her early 20s. Why would a single eligible 20s guy go for a single Mom, and daming magaganda na dalaga in that age bracket. Then she asks me where I met my boys, so I said I went out a lot in my youth. Nung teens and 20s naman punta ka lang mall, bar or restaurant, even in traffic may makikilala ka because everyone was searching at that time. Then you reach your mid 20s, biglang nag shrink yung pool of great guys LOL. Ang liit ng window!

I keep on telling her he just wanted to pump and dump her. It was clingy or desperate (?) of her to ask din on the FIRST week if he would be her GF if they sleep together. I told her a guy that sleeps around would run for the hills sa ginawa niya. hehehe.

kags would have loved this.