how do you get over a broken heart?

[uls]

of course not!
C4U's a proven survivor!

baka po kasi isipin niya siya ang tinutukoy ko sa mga post ko at mag violent reaction

Nilalaro ko lang ung "what doesn't kill you...."

[ninjababez]

baka po kasi isipin niya siya ang tinutukoy ko sa mga post ko at mag violent reaction

Nilalaro ko lang ung "what doesn't kill you...."

alam naman ni cathy yan bro

[uls]

feeling ko bro si cathy gusto nya may challenge
stronger sya pag nakalimutan nya si crush

Ah so all along ginusto niya itong di sya maka get over

Ginawa niyang ensayo si crush para maging mas matibay emotionally sarili niya

Emotional weightlifting

Far out bro

[sean-archer]

Ah so all along ginusto niya itong di sya maka get over

Ginawa niyang ensayo si crush para maging mas matibay emotionally sarili niya

Emotional weightlifting

Far out bro

And time has been wasted, lots of fish in the ocean.

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[StockEngine]

feeling ko bro si cathy gusto nya may challenge
stronger sya pag nakalimutan nya si crush

Cathy in Wonderland

hehehe joke.

[_Cathy_]

anong women can only wait? ikaw lng ata nag hihintay ng halos 3 years. why bask in misery?

Women cannot pursue. Even if I am dying to call crush, I can't do that because it will never work if a woman initiates.

Why am I waiting for the 3 years. The answer is simple. He is my dream man and true love. Not everyone is lucky to meet the person of their dreams.

feeling ko bro si cathy gusto nya may challenge
stronger sya pag nakalimutan nya si crush

I don't get it. Do you mean I like men who make me feel challenged? I guess. Crush made me feel like a winner because so many women are after him and he chose me.

of course not!
C4U's a proven survivor!

Thank you doctor

Ah so all along ginusto niya itong di sya maka get over

Ginawa niyang ensayo si crush para maging mas matibay emotionally sarili niya

Emotional weightlifting

Far out bro

Definitely won't wish even my enemies the pain that I felt during the first few months I lost crush. I barely functioned and I was dead inside .

And time has been wasted, lots of fish in the ocean.

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True. There are a lot of fish in the sea pero puro tilapia, bangus at dory Crush is blue fin tuna - he is rare, expensive and tastes exquisite LOL

I think ULS already explained why I can't ever forget about crush. What we had was an emotional, intellectual and physical connection. He made me feel like no other guy has ever made me felt before. I don't need to spell it out naman siguro kung anong ginawa niya sakin para mabaliw ako ng ganito.

Kung gusto ng lalaki mabaliw ang babae sa kanila, take pointers from crush I'm not proud of it, but I used to be a serial dater and nobody came close to crush. He's the sh1t I just discussed this with my Spanish group, these girls are sophisticated and high standard, and they now understand why patay na patay ako kay crush (and my reason was very simple - he is selfless )

[uls]

don't get it. Do you mean I like men who make me feel challenged? I guess. Crush made me feel like a winner because so many women are after him and he chose me.

he meant you wanted to go thru all that pain to train yourself to become emotionally stronger

Definitely won't wish even my enemies the pain that I felt during the first few months I lost crush. I barely functioned and I was dead inside .

[_Cathy_]

he meant you wanted to go thru all that pain to train yourself to become emotionally stronger

Oh. Hindi pa naman nawawala katinuan ko to inflict pain on myself. Hehe. And yes I don't agree that more pain = strength. Some people stay permanently damaged.

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[StockEngine]

Seeing your casual responses, I sense no brokenness. I think you got over him. You just want to bring him up everytime.

early warning signs of -------

[_Cathy_]

Seeing your casual responses, I sense no brokenness. I think you got over him. You just want to bring him up everytime.

early warning signs of -------

Don't analyse me. You don't even know me. And I'm not stupid to keep on bringing him up because I know that it makes people here hate me posting about crush all the time. Even ALL my friends told me to get over him already but it is not that easy!

Please do me a favor and put me on your ignore list. Stop reading and responding to my posts.

I am appalled by your audacity to tell someone has a mental problem.

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[uls]

Oh. Hindi pa naman nawawala katinuan ko to inflict pain on myself. Hehe. And yes I don't agree that more pain = strength. Some people stay permanently damaged.

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yep

What doesn't kill you can permanently disable you

Hehe

What doesn't kill you can be so traumatic that you'd be scarred for life physically and/or mentally

What doesn't kill you just didn't succeed at first but it will keep trying until it kills you

___________________________

[_Cathy_]

A life altering experience 2 decades ago caused me massive psychological damage. It will never heal. And that is probably the reason why I have so many issues in life. Other people may think it shouldn't have that much effect on but we all cope differently.

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[_Cathy_]

Told my Spanish group when someone told me "some people have bigger problems" and they all said that's not good to say because what's small for you may be big for others. And I really felt dead inside when I first lost crush. Sakit sakit talaga and that one Saturday when I knew he wasn't coming back. I woke up with such a heavy feeling on my chest it's like my heart was literally broken

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[uls]

heartbreak can really cause physical symptoms

Broken Heart Syndrome | Cleveland Clinic

[madball]

Fill the void created by that person's loss with positive activities. The hardest part of a break up isn’t really the sadness of losing someone, but the constantly unfulfilled hope of getting them back. It often sends an individual into a pit of depression. I believe one has to accept the fact that relationships can end and that he/she was never yours, it's just your turn.

[_Cathy_]

It has been increasingly difficult for me to keep myself from going back to crush these past few days. I am afraid I am going to break my control soon I find it hard to function because all I think about is him. Even if I am physically present with other people, my mind is with him. He is my ultimate ST I really miss the feeling he gave me. I couldn't find it from other people.

[StockEngine]

heartbreak can really cause physical symptoms

Broken Heart Syndrome | Cleveland Clinic

interesting risk factors....for takotisubo

[thenightcrawler]

It has been increasingly difficult for me to keep myself from going back to crush these past few days. I am afraid I am going to break my control soon I find it hard to function because all I think about is him. Even if I am physically present with other people, my mind is with him. He is my ultimate ST I really miss the feeling he gave me. I couldn't find it from other people.

You've put yourself in a very difficult situation for a long time na.. Don't be too harsh on yourself.

Would you know if he's still single? Or kung anu update sa kanya?

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[StockEngine]

You've put yourself in a very difficult situation for a long time na.. Don't be too harsh on yourself.

Would you know if he's still single? Or kung anu update sa kanya?

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ive been wrong sometimes. but the question should be. is he single? married? separated? living in with awoman?

[_Cathy_]

You've put yourself in a very difficult situation for a long time na.. Don't be too harsh on yourself.

Would you know if he's still single? Or kung anu update sa kanya?

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Thanks for being so kind to me always. I absolutely have no idea how he is right now. Had zero contact since we broke up in April 2017.

There's a possibility he has not replaced me yet because of the combination na is quite picky and he has a deal breaker that not a lot of women by his standards will compromise on (but I changed my rules for him and I don't want to expound on that)

Nahihirapan na rin ako because I tried my best to forget about him, tried to move on, tried to date other men. I had superficial crushes like I did with Dr Cutie and a new crush, but I always go back to him. Kaya naisip ko true love ko talaga siya. Everyday in my rosary, I still pray for him. I love him that much...

Saka physically, it's only him I want. I can't imagine myself getting intimate with any other guy, nagui guilty ako na it feels dirty. I want him to be my first and only.