how do you get over a broken heart?

[StockEngine]

just a differing pov. the other guys are playing it safe and being "somewhat" sensitive and maybe realists. no kurot to the butt kinda guys.

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[_Cathy_]

Ah first things first, cry it out. (Yes, even us men.) Support group is important. It maybe your family or friends, but important thing is someone to be with you during this time. Amount of time to get over is relative. It took me a maybe a month to get over one ex, & a year to get over another ex. Just think that your past relationships are preparing you for the next one.

Why is it taking so long for me to over him? I'm so tired of hurting. I'm just going through the motions of life but I am dead inside.

I'm contemplating of doing something drastic in my life but I'm afraid that it might hurt the people who love me.

But I am really thankful to the people of Tsikot who showed concern towards me. There are still a lot of good people in this world.

[dr. d]

Why is it taking so long for me to over him? I'm so tired of hurting. I'm just going through the motions of life but I am dead inside.

I'm contemplating of doing something drastic in my life but I'm afraid that it might hurt the people who love me.

But I am really thankful to the people of Tsikot who showed concern towards me. There are still a lot of good people in this world.

seek professional help.
go see a shrink.

[Egan101]

Stop the drama and move on. Life is too short to worry about things in the past.

As Master Oogway said, "You are too concerned with what was and what will be. There is a saying: Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present."

[dr. d]

and i thought today is called "present", because it is not absent. it hasn't left yet, nor is it arriving soon.
heh heh.

[falken]

As dr.d said, see a shrink. Then maybe lifestyle change. Get a hobby, start a business. Anything that will keep your mind occupied. And see your friends more often.

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[MR_BIG18]

Why is it taking so long for me to over him?

is there a creampie(s) involve? did he promise you the world? if not...why the big fuss? been there also 20years back..playing hero.


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[kai s.]

Ganun na nga. I can't help it. I can't control my mind to stop thinking about him. Hindi ko naman gusto magkaganito. Longing for a person who does not even think of me anymore. He probably has a GF now. Just like what CVT said, men move on quickly.

This idle time is exactly what we want to avoid because your mind will wander...and will lead you to thinking of him again. Kaya lahat kami "keep yourself busy" ang inaadvise. The good thing here is by getting yourself a new hobby, or getting fit, or going out more, you'd be making yourself a more well-rounded person already. Plus expanding your social circles wouldn't hurt also. Baka doon ka pa makakilala ng new guy.

youre not broken hearted. you cant even call him an exbf. its something else.

Hmm this I disagree with completely. You can be completely broken even without the labels.

[uls]

nahirapan si Cathy mag get over coz she had an overdose of happy hormones with the guy

hanggang ngayon hinahanap hanap parin niya ung feeling

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withdrawal symptoms

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nahirapan si Cathy mag get over coz she had an overdose of happy hormones with the guy

hanggang ngayon hinahanap hanap parin niya ung feeling

withdrawal symptoms

Bakit naman kasi ayaw mo ibigay sa kanya yun Happy hormones?


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[uls]

Bakit naman kasi ayaw mo ibigay sa kanya yun Happy hormones?


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haha



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haha



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Puro ka mga models mo. Andyan naman si cathy.


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[sean-archer]

"Hindi ba’t ikaw din ang nagsabi sa akin na kaya tayo iniiwan ng mga taong mahal natin kasi baka may bagong darating na mas okay, na masmamahalin tayo. Yung taong di tayo sasaktan at paaasahin. Yung nagiisang taong magtatama ng mali sa buhay natin, ng lahat ng mali sa buhay mo.” - popoy


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[kagalingan]

ito cathy girl gawa ka mtv tapos gayahin mo ito kanta...

[minicarph]

"Hindi ba’t ikaw din ang nagsabi sa akin na kaya tayo iniiwan ng mga taong mahal natin kasi baka may bagong darating na mas okay, na masmamahalin tayo. Yung taong di tayo sasaktan at paaasahin. Yung nagiisang taong magtatama ng mali sa buhay natin, ng lahat ng mali sa buhay mo.” - popoy


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Parang yun ganto ba keep your crush close, but your door closer. close the door and another one opens

[sean-archer]

Why is it taking so long for me to over him? .

Acceptance. Don't be afraid to move on. Life is damn short to not to experience other things. Happiness is always a choice.

Ps Having no closure is also closure.

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[_Cathy_]

Acceptance. Don't be afraid to move on. Life is damn short to not to experience other things. Happiness is always a choice.

Ps Having no closure is also closure.

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I have accepted that he is not coming back anymore. I want to move on na rin.

During this time last year I was in cloud 9 because of him.

[stayhungry]

It would help if you don't spend so much time thinking about the person. Engage your mind in other ways. Keep busy. Hang with others.

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[brushless]

what if your beloved other seems to be falling (or has fallen already) for someone? ano gagawin mo?

Nothing. I hate to be entangled with so much emotional drama. If we're not meant to be, then, I move on. I'll help her pack her things. I'm not the type to be fighting and begging. I'll just have to deal with the emotional attachment which is difficult to get rid of, but not impossible.

In my situation, she keeps coming back for the nth time. Maybe, she did not expect the blank reaction. I simply moved on and had some fun time. Maybe, I should beg and cry like a b!tch. Maybe, that will work, Hahaha! She loves posting on Instagram showing off her hot new guy. I just send her a video with someone laughing. LOL! After a long while if she misses me, she'll send me a video serenading me with a love song. I thought she's done with me and dating her new guy. This is so insane!! She's been doing this for so many times.

Now, I have completely ignored her after giving her a long hot kiss. I think we're done, finished, and the end. She's one weird girl, but very special to me. Just can't be with her no more.

[dr. d]

1. i'd think of the children, and see if the blow can be lessened.
2. i'd think of the moneys and properties.