how do you get over a broken heart?

[uls]

iba kasi wavelength ng mga utak

a girl may want the guy to be straightforward... pag ayaw na sabihin ayaw na

but the guy may want to lessen the pain (well that's what he thinks) so gagawa siya ng way para ung breakup galing sa girl

or he may just avoid the girl and hope the girl gets it

[thenightcrawler]

iba kasi wavelength ng mga utak

a girl may want the guy to be straightforward... pag ayaw na sabihin ayaw na

but the guy may want to lessen the pain (well that's what he thinks) so gagawa siya ng way para ung breakup galing sa girl

or he may just avoid the girl and hope the girl gets it

I choose to believe wala naman taong deliberately gustong manakit ng walang reason or dahil trip lang.. Walang ganun kasama na tao.

Unless he has mental disorder like being a sociopath na no emphathy, no guilt feelings talaga. Though this is a different issue.

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[uls]

I choose to believe wala naman taong deliberately gustong manakit ng walang reason or dahil trip lang.. Walang ganun kasama na tao.

Unless he has mental disorder like being a sociopath na no emphathy, no guilt feelings talaga. Though this is a different issue.

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but there are really many psychopaths in the dating pool

[sean-archer]

^^^

???

huh?

guys and girls dump each other all the time

meron ba rule hindi pwede makipag break ang lalake?

A guy can quit to a relationship without actually dumping the girl. This way, the fall will be more gentle.

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[uls]

A guy can quit to a relationship without actually dumping the girl. This way, the fall will be more gentle.

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which is exactly what thenightcrawler is against

[thenightcrawler]

A guy can quit to a relationship without actually dumping the girl. This way, the fall will be more gentle.

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How can a guy do this? A scenario would be helpful.

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[c_cube]

How can a guy do this? A scenario would be helpful.

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Kapag may GF ka pero may dumating at nakilalang iba na pakoramdam mo na "siya pala"

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[thenightcrawler]

Kapag may GF ka pero may dumating at nakilalang iba na pakoramdam mo na "siya pala"

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Then how can this be more gentle for your gf?

I was asking how guys can get out of the relationship without dumping the gf because sean_archer said this way its more gentle daw.

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[StockEngine]

Kapag may GF ka pero may dumating at nakilalang iba na pakoramdam mo na "siya pala"

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temptress entering a relationship. some women can be manipulative.

[uls]

Kapag may GF ka pero may dumating at nakilalang iba na pakoramdam mo na "siya pala"

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masakit parin sa gf

ung meron ka nagustuhan iba

ang hinihinging example ni thenightcrawler is ung breakup na gentle

[c_cube]

masakit parin sa gf

ung meron ka nagustuhan iba

ang hinihinging example ni thenightcrawler is ung breakup na gentle

Then how can this be more gentle for your gf?

I was asking how guys can get out of the relationship without dumping the gf because sean_archer said this way its more gentle daw.

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Apologies, didnt read the tread.

Para maminimize, no choice but to tell a white lie. Like what i did. Sinabi ko mag concetrate ako sa work at career pero may nakita akong iba hehe

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[thenightcrawler]

masakit parin sa gf

ung meron ka nagustuhan iba

ang hinihinging example ni thenightcrawler is ung breakup na gentle

Oo nga e.

Thanks uls! Interesting kase sa akin mga ganyan.. When I thought I knew it all, now I realized inexperienced pala ako. Gullible who watches too many romantic movies with happy endings.

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[thenightcrawler]

meron mga outright sasabihin "break na tayo"

ganun lang

Nothing is going to make it any easier e.

Important thing for me, it's concrete- Ayoko false hopes and giving me something to hold onto.

No cowards - be considerate enough to give a woman answers to her questions for closure and this is important to move forward. Accept responsibility and not hope or wait for the girl to break up with him.. to the point na you'll treat her shitty.. You'll make her suffer pa.

We shouldn't avoid feeling guilty.. It will keep you up for awhile but It is something to be thankful for din because that means you still have your moral compass working.


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[travajante]

Monogamy is a paradox. Ownership is selfish while Love is selfless.
Open relationships the answer? Think leased cars, one has none of those ownership, maintenance & parting woes. Simple. All gain, no pain.[emoji4]

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[uls]

guy: we should have an open relationship... we should date other people

girl: ok

guy: great!

Next day....

girl: John, this is Jim

guy: <jelly>

[sean-archer]

guy: we should have an open relationship... we should date other people

girl: ok

guy: great!

Next day....

girl: John, this is Jim

guy: <jelly>

Sometimes reason is not entirely because the guy still loves the girl, but because of testosterone issue or masculine ego.

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[uls]

point is guys think open relationships are great until they realize their gf can also f#ck around too

thing is guys wanna f#ck around but don't want their women to f#ck around

[thenightcrawler]

Sometimes reason is not entirely because the guy still loves the girl, but because of testosterone issue or masculine ego.

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Masculine ego, fine I get it.

But Testosterone issue? Does it mean that the gf is not enough to satisfy these particular need that some guys look for others?

Hmm.. You are aware that women have the same "appetite " too , you'll be surprised how much that is that guys might not be able to keep up. Difference is, most women will not look for other guys to get it.

Point is, why consider doing it with other women when you can actually get satisfied (both your ego and testosterone) with the gf alone?



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[thenightcrawler]

point is guys think open relationships are great until they realize their gf can also f#ck around too

thing is guys wanna f#ck around but don't want their women to f#ck around

This will be a long discussion but I guess it all boils down to respect.



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[uls]

Masculine ego, fine I get it.

But Testosterone issue? Does it mean that the gf is not enough to satisfy these particular need that some guys look for others?

guys still look at other women and think about *** kahit may gf/wife na

It all depends on the guy's moral values to give in to his carnal desires or not