ako i immerse myself in tennis.how do you get over a broken heart?
it has got a never ending learning process to play the game competitively kaya medyo mataas ang learning curve....kaya t*ngnang tennis iyan...sakit sa ulo!
Don't be. Everyone goes through that same phase at some point in their life.
As someone famous said, when you fall in love, don't let 100% of you revolve around that person. Leave something for other things, like family, friends, and for yourself. This way, when this special someone leaves, you still have remaining part of you to pick you up. If you let 100% of you revolve around him, and he leaves you, there's nothing left for you.
"Live today as the first day of the rest of your life."
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Ah first things first, cry it out. (Yes, even us men.) Support group is important. It maybe your family or friends, but important thing is someone to be with you during this time. Amount of time to get over is relative. It took me a maybe a month to get over one ex, & a year to get over another ex. Just think that your past relationships are preparing you for the next one.
collect as many shock absorbers you can get until you stabilize. it's tried and tested.
In the past? Took off and drove. No destination. Picked a direction and kept going for hours, sometimes, a full day. When I have a lot on my mind, I don't get sleepy. The solitude allowed me to think clearly. Once, I've thought things over, I turned around and headed back. If I got sleepy, I knew I was going to be fine and pulled into a motel.
It didn't happen too often. I can count with one hand the times I needed to recover. All of them were here though. I never had a GF in the PH besides the wife.
Going to strip bars helped too.
Last edited by Jun aka Pekto; June 5th, 2017 at 03:55 PM.