Do you believe in second chances?

[_Cathy_]

You’re welcome.

I just want you to see things in a different perspective. And like I said, I wish you happiness.

But it seems to me that your happiness depends or hinges on whether your crush gives you his time.

That’s not sustainable in the long run.

One day, you’re happy; another, unhappy. Overtime, it will take a toll on your health, both physical and mental.

You put your crush on a high pedestal.

That’s the big problem.

How could you get past him?

Think about this.

Even if he is top 10 highest paid executive, if he doesn’t own the company he’s working for, he is just like anybody else- an employee, a paid worker, who is always accountable to the company owner, who is the alpha, and who he will defer “yes sir, yes ma’am” to.

And how long do you have to wait for him knocking on your door?

I’m sorry to be brutally honest, but you sound like you are begging for his attention.

You deserve your own happiness.

You deserve somebody else who who can give you his undivided attention, his time, and who will love you for all eternity and for whoever you are.

Wealthy, powerful men do not settle for less.

Most of them are looking for a trophy wife or girlfriend.

The trophy is most likely very young, very pretty, who they display like a Bugatti or a yacht or a Gulfstream.

Or a statuesque beauty who is also successful in her own right, a somebody who owns a company or a daughter of a wealthy powerful man.

If you can’t change circumstances, change your attitude towards them. Or change your mindset altogether.

Stay safe and be happy always.


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Lol para mo naman sinabi na I'm not good enough for a successful man. I'm no beauty queen but my looks and achievements are good enough for crush. In fact, he said he is proud of my educational attainment and my career. He's not a shallow man.

BTW he does own a company on top of his corporate job. He's as alpha as one can get and nobody can convince me otherwise, actually ikaw lang naman ang contra

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[EQAddict]

Cathy...you have a fatal attraction. And its killing you inside. You are acting extremely bipolar and unsteady already here. 1 moment happy the next moment you are in abject depression. Oh yeah and you snap alot at any perceived disagreement with you.

And i have tried ad infinitum to help you. I tried the " kind " approach and i tried the "brutally frank" approach. We know where that ended up.

Seriously, You are beyond anyone's help .....but your own.

Thats not saying i dont wish you well. I wish he feels for you the same way you do for him.




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[uls]

You’re welcome.

I just want you to see things in a different perspective. And like I said, I wish you happiness.

But it seems to me that your happiness depends or hinges on whether your crush gives you his time.

That’s not sustainable in the long run.

One day, you’re happy; another, unhappy. Overtime, it will take a toll on your health, both physical and mental.

You put your crush on a high pedestal.

That’s the big problem.

finally napansin mo

Tagal nako nagpopost ng "rollercoaster" diba?

[uls]

Cathy...you have a fatal attraction. And its killing you inside. You are acting extremely bipolar and unsteady already here. 1 moment happy the next moment you are in abject depression. Oh yeah and you snap alot at any perceived disagreement with you.

And i have tried ad infinitum to help you. I tried the " kind " approach and i tried the "brutally frank" approach. We know where that ended up.

Seriously, You are beyond anyone's help .....but your own.

Thats not saying i dont wish you well. I wish he feels for you the same way you do for him.




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yep I did mention long ago that Cathy is manic depressive / bipolar

[Mr. Ri Crash]

Pang mayaman bipolar.

Pag mahirap ano tawag?

[jmc21420]

Lol para mo naman sinabi na I'm not good enough for a successful man. I'm no beauty queen but my looks and achievements are good enough for crush. In fact, he said he is proud of my educational attainment and my career. He's not a shallow man.

BTW he does own a company on top of his corporate job. He's as alpha as one can get and nobody can convince me otherwise, actually ikaw lang naman ang contra

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This will be my last post in this thread because I don’t want to quarrel with you.

I can understand that you’ll run to his defense because you worship him like a deity.

The same deity that you said you unceremoniously ditched before.

The best revenge is to move forward, to be happy, and to be massively successful.

If he’s an alpha, he must have moved on from the pain of rejection, he must be very happy by now with anyone else, and must be very successful.

Why would an alpha want anything from a person who caused his heart to break?

If he’s an alpha, He is not into you anymore.

This is the sad reality that you need to accept in order to move on.

That’s why I want to motivate you to be the best version of yourself.

If you drive the same car for the last decade or so; if you’re holding the same position in your company for the last five years or so; if you have the same lifestyle for the last five years or so, then you’re not growing.

Worse, you are not changing for the better. And only fools don’t change.

The change must start from and within you. Seek professional help if you must.

You hold the key.

Move forward. Be happy. And be successful.


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[travajante]

If you drive the same car for the last decade or so; if you’re holding the same position in your company for the last five years or so; if you have the same lifestyle for the last five years or so, then you’re not growing.
Worse, you are not changing for the better. And only fools don’t change.

Hmmmm....This got me thinking.[emoji848] Haven't really been growing in a loooong while...Guess I'm just fine foolish.[emoji16]...Thanks, coach. You do make a lot of sense![emoji120][emoji106]



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[EQAddict]

You give good advice indeed. The million dollar question is if it (like so many gazillion others given here) will be heeded.






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[sean-archer]

That’s why I want to motivate you to be the best version of yourself.

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IMHO, In love, it's never about upgrading, or being a levelled up version of yourself. You just do this for your gain, as fulfillment in life. But If we talk of getting someone to fall for you, that is another story. If someone fell for you just because of your achievements or what you have in life, there's that possibility of separating should one finds another person with much higher achievement in life.



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[thenightcrawler]

I am learning a lot from my relationship now. It’s the only relationship I consider after going through a lot and made me who I am now.

If there will be a need for someone to change, dun na yun sa loob ng relationship. It’s the best feeling when you’re willing do these changes that matters to your partner.. ndi na kase ito yung pang sarili nalang na upgrading, its doing something you know important for your partner.

If going for second chance, it is important na both parties are committed. It will not exist Kung isa tao lang may alam at may gusto itry ulit.

Love is hard work, a choice, decision and commitment.

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