Do you believe in second chances?

[misseksaherada]

magkatuluyan man kayo nyan ni crush cathy, wag mo ihaharap sa amin yan (tsikot family mo). konting mali lang nyan gugulpihin namin yan. kay egan nalang, baka hampasin ng m1 garand yan pagnagkataon lol

Hahahahahaha true.. Clouded na ako ng inis.. pero wala ehh mahal talaga ng pambato natin.. baka mas nasasaktan pa natin lalo si Ms. Cathy nyan.. Kapag mahal mo tapos inaaway ng iba masasaktan ka di ba..
Ms. Cathy wag ka lang umiyak at masaktan di ako mag kakaganito.. Kulang na lang awayin ko na talaga yang crush na yan.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23]

[ninjababez]

Sergio Mendes (Never Gonna Let You Go) - YouTube


Never Gonna Let You Go
Sérgio Mendes
I was as wrong as I could be
To let you get away from me
I'll regret that move
For as long as I'm livin'
But now that I've come to see the light
All I want to do is make things right
So just say the word
And tell me that I'm forgiven
You and me
We're gonna be better than we were before
I loved you then but now I intend
To open up and love you even more
This time you can be sure
I'm never gonna let you go
I'm gonna hold you in my arms forever
Gonna try and make up for all the times
I hurt you so
Gonna hold your body close to mine
From this day on we're gonna be together
Oh I swear this time
I'm never gonna let you go
Looking back now
It seems so clear
I had it all when you were here
Oh you gave it all
And I took it for granted
But if there's some feeling left in you…

[_Cathy_]

Wala naman akong sinasabi na hinde ka dapat tulungan, you asked for help.kaya dapat lang tumulong siya kung capable naman siya.

Kahit sinong tao na meron good moral eh pag hingin na tulong, tutulong. Hinde lang siya gumagawa niyan.

But to string you along knowing he's Greek God to you tapos deadma pag nag I miss you ka or more accurately awkward laugh siya but you call it cute laugh.

Hinde mature yun or alpha. Mahirap ba sabihin "cath, this is as far as we go, we had our chance and I think we are better off as friends"

Alpha diretso na magsabi wala na HS juvenile **** na tawag tawag telebabad, I feel good that I'm being worship by cath. Ooohhh my ego is swelling. I'm dominating an obviously head over heels woman.

Gising na cathy. He's not what you're touting him to be. Move on.


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Baka mag suicide ako pag dinerecho ako ng ganyan. That is so unimaginable for me and the most cruel thing a guy can do. I have abandonment issues kaya nga subconsciously I always end my relationships kasi takot ako masaktan. After this China virus is over, I will see a psychiatrist, kahit ako na magbayad and I will keep it from my Mom (she refuses to take me to a psychiatrist now)

If crush says that to me then it will definitely be over. Naniniwala ako na pag nang galing na sa bibig ng guy, wala ng pag asa

Sawang sawa na ko at ang tanda ko na for heartbreaks. Gusto ko lang ng stable and lasting relationship and I want that with crush. And I don't talk about it pero halos linggo linggo I have pressure from people on why I'm single. Imagine, pati caretaker ng kapitbahay namin ininterrogate ako. TODAY lang bago ako matulog, friend ko sa US pressuring me to have a baby. And I get that a LOT esp since isang anak lang ako. BF nga wala, anak pa?



Anyway, alam ko na naman friend zone ako ngayon pero gusto kong mabago yun.


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[_Cathy_]

Hahahahahaha true.. Clouded na ako ng inis.. pero wala ehh mahal talaga ng pambato natin.. baka mas nasasaktan pa natin lalo si Ms. Cathy nyan.. Kapag mahal mo tapos inaaway ng iba masasaktan ka di ba..
Ms. Cathy wag ka lang umiyak at masaktan di ako mag kakaganito.. Kulang na lang awayin ko na talaga yang crush na yan.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23]

Omg, I was about to post this nga, nasasaktan ako pag may negative posts about crush Kaya alam ko gaano ko siya kamahal.

missx, palagay ko talaga if we knew each other personally, we would be good friends [emoji4]

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[jut703]

Simplest explanation - gusto niyo isa't isa dati. Nakipagbreak ka. Gusto mo pa rin siya ngayon, eh siya ayaw na sayo. Friends nalang kasi may pinagsamahan kayo. Of course because you're his ex-girlfriend there's always a special spot, kaya nakikipagphonepal pa sayo. But that doesn't mean he still wants you romantically.

Hindi naman mixed signals dating niyan. That's your hope talking. Ilang beses na sinabi dito diba - alpha people don't do mixed signals.

Seems like ayaw mo namang tanggapin yung sinasabi ng lahat ng tao dito, so best you just find out for yourself. Napakasimple lang ng tanong to settle all this, just freakin' ask him - "ano ba talaga tayo?"

If you don't DTR then all this speculation is pointless. Beating around the bush kasi pwede naman deretsahang tanong at sagot.



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[thenightcrawler]

Kaya nga it was mature and alpha of him to still help me after I broke up with him and disappear for 3 years. Pero clear naman wala na siya romantic feelings. So ano ba dapat ginawa niya? Wag ako tulungan? Wag ako kausapin? Tell me straight out na "cathy friends lang tayo and nothing more" He doesn't need to say it because that is the signal I am getting. Kaya nga nagtatanong ako dito kung may pag asa pa ba ma rekindle feelings niya for me.

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Ask him na! Wag ka matakot masaktan.. Maging excited ka sa possibilities..

Haay, it seems you're still in the same spot since the last time I cheered you on nung nagreconnect kyo.. Haha nawalan ng momentum.. Tsk, I hate that feeling.. Everything feels so hard to do after e..

It should have fast tracked your situation sana if you asked him how he's been for the last 3 years.. Then perhaps start apologizing for what you did, that's natural thing to do when all this years sabi mo you hurt him badly.

Sorry, must have missed it. Did he tell you that he was hurt when you left?

Doing that you would have sensed or picked up something and validated among all your thoughts about him anu true or not.

Hirap ng feeling stuck with the same situation. Mas mahirap din yung we constantly complain about the situation but haven't done anything to change it. Kakapagod yun.









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[shadow]

wala na cath, saka yun mentality mo na ikaw swerte sa kanya, is maling mali na talaga, eh bakit hinde siya ang swerte saiyo? masyado mo na hyped lang kaya pati mga friends mo sinasabi na swerte ka, bak they are just being a real friend na sige support na lang si cath kung saan siya msaya kahit na on the back of their minds eh..wala rin silang ka bilib-bilib.

eh kahit ako na inlove na rin sa crush mo sa sobrang build up mo eh. kaso bec of lockdown i cant take it anymore, pag nababasa ko mga posts mo about him, wala nagbago na tingin ko sa kanya.. overhyped lang.

kaya nag psot na ako about questioning his alphaness, wala talaga

[EQAddict]

Napakasimple lang ng tanong to settle all this, just freakin' ask him - "ano ba talaga tayo?"



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+1000000

Listen to us and do this. Or else this saga will never end.

But can i be brutally frank with you? I dont want to sound cruel hearted....but this has been the best story ive read about in a long time. LIVE and unfolding...

May audience participation pa!

Parang choose your own adventure ....

Peace [emoji16]


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[EQAddict]

I wish for you a happy fairytale ending.

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[sean-archer]

Lalo masasaktan si mam cath dun sa mga tao dito na napaniwala sya na thru efforts lang solely ni mam cath, she could win the guy back. Yung mga nag push ng nag push sa kanya, meron dito na sila rin mismo ngayon sinasabi to give up na. She has been vulnerable. Mam Cath would only take kung ano gusto nya marinig sa board nato. Gagamitin nya fuel yun to fight for crush. Sadly, it has not been doing well.

Nonetheless, tama sinasabi ng iba naman,she should ask the guy what's the real score. And accept what he has to say.



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[shadow]

Lalo masasaktan si mam cath dun sa mga tao dito na napaniwala sya na thru efforts lang solely ni mam cath, she could win the guy back. Yung mga nag push ng nag push sa kanya, meron dito na sila rin mismo ngayon sinasabi to give up na. She has been vulnerable. Mam Cath would only take kung ano gusto nya marinig sa board nato. Gagamitin nya fuel yun to fight for crush. Sadly, it has not been doing well.

Nonetheless, tama sinasabi ng iba naman,she should ask the guy what's the real score. And accept what he has to say.



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Pero hinde alpha yun ganun diba? Timid. Antay pa tanungin siya? Bakit instead na intayin si cath magtanong eh siya na mismo magsabi kung ano ba talaga.

Ewan ko. Kahit mga hinde alpha of alphas eh kaya magtanong ng diretsohan eh.


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[misseksaherada]

Lalo masasaktan si mam cath dun sa mga tao dito na napaniwala sya na thru efforts lang solely ni mam cath, she could win the guy back. Yung mga nag push ng nag push sa kanya, meron dito na sila rin mismo ngayon sinasabi to give up na. She has been vulnerable.

Sino mag-aakala na aabot ng more than 3 months wala pa din.. May edad na ang guy I don't know kung saan yung disconnect pero dapat nag-progress na ang project sa next phase / status..
If the girl is giving 100% yes signal.. Why dragging it more than 3 months.. Ano pa ba kailangan i-confirm dun.. Obvious na gusto makipag balikan.. Why keeping it in a hanging status..
Baka I'm not the best person para intindihin yung guy.. Clouded na isip ko ng inis dahil sa delaying tactic na yan.. Insensitive ba sya? Mas tumatagal mas nakakasakit sya...

[misseksaherada]

And... Kahit ni push ko si Ms. Cathy that time kung yung guy naman nilinaw agad ng maaga kung ano man status.. Eh di sana hindi na nag invest ng feelings kung wala pag asa.. Kung meron man eh di sana both sila ngayon masaya na..
Ang tagal ng 3 months... Both parties may disconnect somewhere... may kulang.. di natin alam ang buong story, pati yung side nung guy..

[shadow]

Wala na hinde na ako in love kay crush. Expectation vs reality




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[misseksaherada]

Hahahahahaha [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] ikaw pa ba nag-edit niyan? Ang effort makapang-asar lang..

[sean-archer]

Pero hinde alpha yun ganun diba? Timid. Antay pa tanungin siya? Bakit instead na intayin si cath magtanong eh siya na mismo magsabi kung ano ba talaga.

Ewan ko. Kahit mga hinde alpha of alphas eh kaya magtanong ng diretsohan eh.


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Tama mga signs na sinasabi nyo about sa alpha. Power, money, sxx, importante sa alpha tatlong yan, goal nila is mag excel sila dyan. Power, nirerespeto sya pag nasa circle sya ng mga guys din, when the going gets tough, he'd be the one to deliver. Money, obviously, resources, mas gusto nya manlibre sa inuman kesa magpalibre hehe . Sxx, he made sure he's with awesome partner/s, yung kaiinggitan ng iba, and yes, he knows how to take care of women, the woman feels his power, hindi dominance na parang slave ang girl, but dominance na alam ng girl na protected sya inside the arms of the guy.

Now si crush , from what I heard, has power, money, yung third siguro ang wala pako nakikita signs sa pagka alpha nya.

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[_Cathy_]

Tama mga signs na sinasabi nyo about sa alpha. Power, money, sxx, importante sa alpha tatlong yan, goal nila is mag excel sila dyan. Power, nirerespeto sya pag nasa circle sya ng mga guys din, when the going gets tough, he'd be the one to deliver. Money, obviously, resources, mas gusto nya manlibre sa inuman kesa magpalibre hehe . Sxx, he made sure he's with awesome partner/s, yung kaiinggitan ng iba, and yes, he knows how to take care of women, the woman feels his power, hindi dominance na parang slave ang girl, but dominance na alam ng girl na protected sya inside the arms of the guy.

Now si crush , from what I heard, has power, money, yung third siguro ang wala pako nakikita signs sa pagka alpha nya.

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LOL hindi mo naman siya kilala to say he doesn't have all three because he definitely has it.

And do I really need to spell it out bakit baliw na baliw ako. Isipin niyo bakit maa attach ang isang babae sa isang lalaki. Uls has been hinting on it. At bakit I can't imagine myself being with any other man. Kung hindi pa naman yan proof ng pagka alpha, I don't know what is. He did what several BFs cannot. And I've been dating since my mid teens.

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[_Cathy_]

Wala na hinde na ako in love kay crush. Expectation vs reality




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Hahaha! Sablay yung before.

More like this pero clean shaven



Nung napanood mo revenge, naisip ko crush kasi same body structure and alpha stance

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[shadow]

LOL hindi mo naman siya kilala to say he doesn't have all three because he definitely has it.

And do I really need to spell it out bakit baliw na baliw ako. Isipin niyo bakit maa attach ang isang babae sa isang lalaki. Uls has been hinting on it. At bakit I can't imagine myself being with any other man. Kung hindi pa naman yan proof ng pagka alpha, I don't know what is. He did what several BFs cannot. And I've been dating since my mid teens.

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Analogy ko nga parwng mga HS girls na baliw na baliw sa syota nilang college dude siyempre meron kotse tapos he's the man compare sa mga classmates nilang HS boys.

Parwng ganyan na lang tingin ko kay crush mo.

Yun ego niya gusto gusto niya dahil baliw na baliw ka sa kanya.

Tanungin mo kasi kung nagka GF ba siya nun 3 years kung melrn eh bakit nag break din sila. Baka nagising rin yun babae na overhyped lang pag wala naman eh nakakapag taka naman since he's the alpha of alphas!


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Did he just imply you're a old as vicky