A message for the moderators

[shadow]

I don't know what is your problem super moderator mazda2? magpost ka something againts me, tapos ilolock mo? I'll just try to reply to you here, wala nga akong nagawa sa problema ni cargirl, ikaw meron ka ba nagawa? sana ikaw nagpahiram ng kotse, tutal your trying/projecting to be the knight in shining armor here in tsikot...

sorry to the other moderators kung nagpost ako sa public and not PM the "hero" dahil he also posted his replies againts me openly...

[mazdamazda]

You posted something against a MODERATOR of Tsikot.com by publicly questioning CarGirl's personal life and motivation in trying to solve her problem.

[shadow]

wht do you mean that I questioned her personal life? I never questioned here , I don;t know her personally too question her, I don't know what's her problem with the BF, she posted it on her own, If I knew that she was having a problem with him, then I won't asked about the BF's whereabouts?

should I repeat this again, nagkataon na nagpost siya doon sa other thread na about sa hatid ng BF niya na taga south, tapos nag start siya ng thread na she needs a fovor para mahatid sila sa family outing nila, na located sa south, so anong mali sa na post ko na kung bakit hinde na lang yun BF niya maghatid since taga south naman yun BF niya...while asking that I didn't know that they are having a problem...

alam mo mazda, you can PM me anytime if you think mali or offensive na ang mga post ko, that 's what a moderator is supposed to do, and not post a offensive comment then locked the thread,

[Karding]

tan-tanan...eto na ko mga kapatid.

[1D4LV]

mga bros.... iinom na lang natin yan.
baka dala lang ng init ng panahon yan.... :drunk:
relax lang...

[the_wildthing]

Oy oy oy mag PM na lang kayo. Tama na yan.

[spongee]

gentlemen...........you should'nt be arguing on something that is not worth it...i think "somebody " else should be learning on what "DISCRETION" is...from the start...well, i think the person is learning now...and hoping that that person is not laughing because of what is happening with you now....

afterall..WE...are entitled to our OWN opinions...

[GlennSter]

jezz....

pagbuhulin ko mga kilay niyo.herhehrerh

cool lang mga friends.

[Karding]

sorry, I have to asked this? is your thread address to only tsikoters and forumers that you persoanlly knew? or just to any forumers, even strangers

she has gotta be an idiot to accept offer from strangers. which mean, she posted the inquiry for the people whom she knew from this forum. having said that, this question should have never came up in the first place.

I know that therea re a lot of people with big heart, but do you really expect people to let you borrow their cars or to go with you even if they don;t know you personally?....It may be dangerous to your family if some crazed individula accepted your offer....

refer to my post above. we know her personally, so there could be members willing to lend a hand. Why dont I offer and be a HERO? I would if I could, I am currently thousands of miles away.

and btw, diba your BF works in laguna, just like you posted in the other thread, why don;t you asked him to go with you instead? anyways, if he can pick you up in makati and drive you to fairview and can still come home to las pinas then driving you to sta rosa is not a big deal with him...

if this was possible, CarGirl would have never posted this inquiry now, would she?!

you should know better not to attack a moderator. you made it even worst by creating your very own thread in retaliation. What would that make you?

members who are close to CG was offended by your consecutive posts from the other thread. (mazdamazda for example). I think you were asking too much question but had nothing to offer. thus, mazdamazda as a moderator that he is, got annoyed of your posts which offered nothing but offend CG. I know I would have been offended by your questions.

mga kapatid, sabay-sabay nating awiting ang "magkaisa..." kasabay ng pagkandirit :bwahaha:

[Karding]

jezz....

pagbuhulin ko mga kilay niyo.herhehrerh

cool lang mga friends.

oh yeah????? :grouphugg:

[1D4LV]

my personal and serious take on this telenovela ng tutoong buhay...

i think CG used this thread as an option only because she knows that she is well-known here in the thread. the forum is not just an online community but an actual circle and community of real people who know each other too outside of the internet.

and even though i only met CG twice pa lang, i would gladly lend her one kung meron akong ipahihiram.

and yes, some things are better left unsaid. an example is: can you say that your boss is an asshole straight in his face even though he is? you can't while you are still employed within the company. same here....there are certain rules that have to be followed, certain etiquettes that have to be observed. in every system, there are rules, if one can't live within the system, then go out of the system, that simple.

:war:

back to watching the thread.

[shadow]

she has gotta be an idiot to accept offer from strangers. which mean, she posted the inquiry for the people whom she knew from this forum. having said that, this question should have never came up in the first place.

---karding, I'm sure that 8/10 people who read the thread would assumed that the inquiry is for both people she knew and strangers, maybe I was just assuming too much, now I admit that was my mistake, I said that bec she posted her contact number, I again assumed that if that thread was for people she new just like what you said, then she could just say text/call me and not post any numbers..

refer to my post above. we know her personally, so there could be members willing to lend a hand. Why dont I offer and be a HERO? I would if I could, I am currently thousands of miles away.

---I don't have a problem with people she knew that would help her, but I was just surprise if she's really indeed acccepting offer from strangers,


if this was possible, CarGirl would have never posted this inquiry now, would she?!

---yes your right, but as I've said on my earlier post, it was just a question that I asked since she posted regrding the BF...

you should know better not to attack a moderator. you made it even worst by creating your very own thread in retaliation. What would that make you?

---then what would that make to a moderator who posted an offensive reply to a member and locked the thread afterwards, it's like hitting you then run away..just like what I've said he can send me PM, and warned me...end of story...anyway if he had the time to reply and locked ta thread then why not just used it to send me PM

members who are close to CG was offended by your consecutive posts from the other thread. (mazdamazda for example). I think you were asking too much question but had nothing to offer. thus, mazdamazda as a moderator that he is, got annoyed of your posts which offered nothing but offend CG. I know I would have been offended by your questions.

---she was offended bec she was having a problem with the BF, and unfortunately I asked the wrong questions, I don;t see anything wrong in asking questions in a public forum, anyways I'm really sorry if she was offended, it also goes out to people closed to her, like you who were also offended..

[fireblade]

To the thread starter,

I actually offered my ride to CG but she opted not to accept it. The three of them just wont fit in my ride (Honda Super 4! ) and she politely said no.

Chief,

On a more serious note, it is the moderator's prerogative to lock or unlock a particular thread. If you cant hack it, you have two options : 1. be a moderator or 2. just keep quiet

With all due respect, the moderators were selected based on their reputation and familiarity with the tsikot community. They are doing this for free to help tsikot attain world peace

To CG,

Pssst, promise kasya tayo and I will bring 3 extra helmets. Huy, long time no see. Regards to you

[shadow]

my personal and serious take on this telenovela ng tutoong buhay...

i think CG used this thread as an option only because she knows that she is well-known here in the thread. the forum is not just an online community but an actual circle and community of real people who know each other too outside of the internet.

and even though i only met CG twice pa lang, i would gladly lend her one kung meron akong ipahihiram.

and yes, some things are better left unsaid. an example is: can you say that your boss is an asshole straight in his face even though he is? you can't while you are still employed within the company. same here....there are certain rules that have to be followed, certain etiquettes that have to be observed. in every system, there are rules, if one can't live within the system, then go out of the system, that simple.

:war:

back to watching the thread.

HG, just like you I'm a member since 2002, I sincerely believe I have followed and respected the rules of tiskot, until today...yes, I concured that there are things that should be left unsaid,I might have touch a sensitive topic, but I don't know her personal circumstances, it just unfortunate that I asked the questions which she was sensitive with,

To the thread starter,


Chief,

On a more serious note, it is the moderator's prerogative to lock or unlock a particular thread. If you cant hack it, you have two options : 1. be a moderator or 2. just keep quiet

With all due respect, the moderators were selected based on their reputation and familiarity with the tsikot community. They are doing this for free to help tsikot attain world peace

yes, no one's disputing that moderators have the prerogative to lock threads, but isn't moderators also supposed not to post an offensive reply that is obviously againts a member, and locked the thread afterwards? the right thing to do was locked the thread PM the member...moderators should also be fair, just and impartial...

[wren]

o sya sya, i hope we're all done venting. group hug na....wait, lemme squeeze between mamichula and tsikotbabe...ahh, that's better...ok, group hug na.

[HyBrideVo]

1) You will respect the moderators and administrators of the forums at all times.

2) You will not behave in an abusive and/or hateful manner, and will not harass, threaten, nor attack anyone.

5) You will respect other people's right to personal privacy.

9) You will, if asked by a representative of the Forums, cease posting any content, and/or links to content, deemed

offensive, objectionable, or in poor taste by the staff of the Forums.

Intiendes? IMO, These are the reasons why the thread was locked.

i think somebody forgot to read the TSIKOT rules and regulations.

Oh well, nagpapaalala lang tama na yang :gayfight:

[alwayz_yummy]

anu gulo dito??? pa-chika naman...

kung anu man to, pwede daanin nalang sa mabuteng usapan

(anung thread yun, deleted na ba?)

[Chip]

i just went over the other thread and i believe shadow was not given the benefit of the doubt. he asked a simple question that was not so private since it was prompted by a post from another thread, how could he have known that the circumstances had changed? is he automatically to assume that they have? I am of the belief that if you don't want people prying into your personal life then don't put it into a public forum where, rest assured, thats what they will do.

fireblade is still right though, its a mod's prerogative to lock or not. he probably closed the thread because the intent of the thread was already met.

shadow i understand your frustration but perhaps you should rename your thread title, all you want is clarification dba?

popcorn time

[MAXBUWAYA]

I believe a good moderator

can ease a tension without locking and deleting a post or thread



it should be a last resort.



Thats why they are called MODERATE ors

Not Deletators or locktators hehehehehe

[artpogi]

I've been reading over CarGirls' thread and I don't see anything wrong in Shadow's part.

IMO if CG knew a lot of Tsikoteers personally, she could have PM'd or SMS'd some of them.

And dating kasi sa akin nung post ni CG any Pedro na pwede magpahiram ng oto so that's what probably triggered Shadow's query.