Why Do Men Get Cold Feet??

[Jun aka Pekto]

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wow dami active

I'm here too although I'm on stealth mode.

[H1Tman]

buti na nga yun kasi you already knew it sa simula pa lang.... E pano kung kasal na kayo, e di mas mahirap tanggapin, di ba?

i agree. you'd rather hear it now than later. and it's normal to feel miserable now. life goes on.

[empy]

download na lang tayo ng mga sad songs galing sa sad songs thread ko :waah:

[Bandido]

Why Do Men Get Cold Feet??

1. Baka they found out that after all these years, they are GAY and cant hide it anymore.

[BlueBimmer]

tara mag videoke nalang tayo sa videoke/dvd player na niregalo ng supplier ko :D

[tinky]

I was not expecting to get this much replies from you guys. Well I feel so much better. Yesterday I called each and every single friend who I lost in touch with since I started getting busy with my ex. I didn't know how to break the sad news to them because I have a history of getting out of a relationship when I see that it's getting serious. But with this man, eveything changed. To be honest this has been the longest relationship I've ever had and I thought everything was going great. Last night I got up the courage to call him not to beg him to come back but just to ask him why. Just as you know,he is 25 and I am pushing 30. I used not to think about getting married and having kids but my whole world changed when I met this guy and got to know his family. He taught me how to enjoy life,that there is more to life than a great car, a big house, jewelries and all of those material things that money can buy. My grandma used to tell me that you have to observe how a man treats his mom because that's how he would treat his wife. He is I guess the kind of a son any mother could wish for. His family accepted and embraced the fact that we have cultural diferences. They welcomed me into their world and treated me as a family member. For the first time in my life I had a family. Last night I asked him what went wrong. All I needed was straight answers. He said that he got scared because 2 of his brothers are now in the process of getting a divorce and they were telling him that it could happen to anyone. He asked if I was still willing to share my life with him without getting married. I froze and couldn't say anyting. How in the world did this happen? He was the one who convinced me to get married and now he's trying to talk me out of it. This is really hard, I'm not giving up on him yet, maybe all he need is time to think about what he really wants. I am not giving it a timeline. I am not ready to move on ,not today, not tomorrow but I hope it would be soon enough. Today is a new day and I will try to live a brand new chapter of my life. I know it's all up to me ....after all life is what we make it.

[afrasay]

this is good for the both of you, believe me.

[russpogi]

sana mabasa to ng bf ko... pano kasi nung naging kami na nabawasan na ung pagka-sweet nya, basta laki ng pinagbago nya.

Nabasa ko na po...

[afrasay]

ganyan din ang sabi ng wife ko..."sabi ko sa iyo mag live-in na lang tayo..." to which i replied, "eh sinabi mo sakin yun nasa reception na tayo" :D

[BoEinG_747]

Nabasa ko na po...

ayan ma'm sarah nabasa na ...read lang ha

ganyan din ang sabi ng wife ko..."sabi ko sa iyo mag live-in na lang tayo..." to which i replied, "eh sinabi mo sakin yun nasa reception na tayo"

ayus iyon, natawa ako bigla doon at muntik ko mailuwa kinakain ko

[sequoia]

misZ, kung sa california ka based lugi talaga ang lalaki sa divorce law dyan sa state na yan accdg to my friend who is in that process. baka pag sa ibang state kayo pakasal papayag sya.

[margaux]

I was not expecting to get this much replies from you guys. Well I feel so much better. Yesterday I called each and every single friend who I lost in touch with since I started getting busy with my ex. I didn't know how to break the sad news to them because I have a history of getting out of a relationship when I see that it's getting serious. But with this man, eveything changed. To be honest this has been the longest relationship I've ever had and I thought everything was going great. Last night I got up the courage to call him not to beg him to come back but just to ask him why. Just as you know,he is 25 and I am pushing 30. I used not to think about getting married and having kids but my whole world changed when I met this guy and got to know his family. He taught me how to enjoy life,that there is more to life than a great car, a big house, jewelries and all of those material things that money can buy. My grandma used to tell me that you have to observe how a man treats his mom because that's how he would treat his wife. He is I guess the kind of a son any mother could wish for. His family accepted and embraced the fact that we have cultural diferences. They welcomed me into their world and treated me as a family member. For the first time in my life I had a family. Last night I asked him what went wrong. All I needed was straight answers. He said that he got scared because 2 of his brothers are now in the process of getting a divorce and they were telling him that it could happen to anyone. He asked if I was still willing to share my life with him without getting married. I froze and couldn't say anyting. How in the world did this happen? He was the one who convinced me to get married and now he's trying to talk me out of it. This is really hard, I'm not giving up on him yet, maybe all he need is time to think about what he really wants. I am not giving it a timeline. I am not ready to move on ,not today, not tomorrow but I hope it would be soon enough. Today is a new day and I will try to live a brand new chapter of my life. I know it's all up to me ....after all life is what we make it.

Believe me, everything will turn out the best.... and sometimes, when you already have the best things in life, it will go away unexpectedly.

[Jun aka Pekto]

If I was in MissZ's shoes, I'd keep in touch. Also, just because he declined marriage doesn't necessarily mean he becomes an ex. Most guys I know (including myself) didn't really think about marriage and possible repercussions that seriously until 30 years of age. By that age, a tinge of desperation starts looming and settling down becomes a much more serious option.

MissZ, if he's your Mr. Right, you'll just have to be patient. At the very least, keep in touch with him. If he's got doubts about the pitfalls of marriage, stand by him and help him work them out until all his doubts are gone.

Now, if your instinct starts telling you that he's just using you physically or otherwise, then you give him the heave ho.

[stinkaboy]

ate tin!!!! just read the thread. I guess he just needs time to think.Whatever decision he will come up with, take it..if he doesnt want to push through with the marriage, dont feel helpless where in you would cry over and over.Remember there are so many things that can still make you happy.

[kinyo]

.... because I have a history of getting out of a relationship when I see that it's getting serious ...

^^ there's the answer to "how in the world did this happen?"
karma works whether you believe it or not
we all make mistakes ... after all the tears have dried, move on
"life is what we make it" ... with that in mind, it should not be difficult for you to move on
for every lesson learned, life gets easier

[Flagg]

.... tignan mo madami pipila sayo after some time. Ano na nga ba yung kasabihan... "Madami pang lalake diyan!" Di po ba mga kuya??

A, di ko na-quote. Eto yung sinsagot ko Margaux.

[Flagg]

question sir *ogpro, how do you kill the attraction to other girls? how do you remove the desire?...

Dali lang yan sir oldblue... mag-restore ka ng muscle car! Nakaka-adek! Kahit anong shopping, pati window shopping e di mo na magawa kasi ubos pera mo... di ka na makapunta kahit anong club or mall. (Lalo na yung AF1 na mall )

Tingnan mo ako o, in debt na nga... pupunta pa uli kay sir turbo para sa '69 Mustang fastback... Ehehehe.

[the_wildthing]

25 might be too young for a guy to get married. There are exceptions...

[Flagg]

sana mabasa to ng bf ko... pano kasi nung naging kami na nabawasan na ung pagka-sweet nya, basta laki ng pinagbago nya....

Kaw naman sarah... sunod-sunuran nga sya sayo o. Di pa kami tapos pagusapan yung mutual food addiction namin e tayo na sya nung say mo go home na...

[slyfox]

maybe the question shouldn't be "why do men get cold feet?"
rather it should be why do men jump in when they're really not ready to get wet.