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[jut703]

life life begins at 40/50 [emoji28][emoji28][emoji28]

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Unless you want kids. May biological deadline yan. Fertility drops sharply after 35.

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[shadow]

anyway...

tingin ko kung hindi ma-meet ni Cathy ang dream guy niya she'll just stay single for life

kahit tumanda siya mag isa di naman siya gugutomin

financially she doesn't need a man

she has safety nets from both sides of her family

Diba pag nag 40 na si cath and wala pa rin BF kayo na dalawa magpakasal?


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[BlancNoir]

Diba pag nag 40 na si cath and wala pa rin BF kayo na dalawa magpakasal?


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interesting. hehehe

[AllenR]

Diba pag nag 40 na si cath and wala pa rin BF kayo na dalawa magpakasal?


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Ayun, may backup plan naman pala eh.

[StockEngine]

Unless you want kids. May biological deadline yan. Fertility drops sharply after 35.

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i was shooting blanks well before 30 [emoji28]

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[shadow]

Unless you want kids. May biological deadline yan. Fertility drops sharply after 35.

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I think dapat mag bank na si cath ng eggs now.


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[sean-archer]

I think dapat mag bank na si cath ng eggs now.


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Has any girl tsikoteer or anyone you know ever tried this?

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[jut703]

Minimum is P300k for egg freezing.

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[shadow]

Minimum is P300k for egg freezing.

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Kasama na yan yun pag induced and harvest diba?

Pero storage fee mura na After

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[sean-archer]

Minimum is P300k for egg freezing.

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Wow I have not thought ganun ka mahal. Tested na ba yung procedure dito sa atin? I was imagining baka pag mishandled, magka problem pag na conceived.

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[MR_BIG18]

Unless you want kids. May biological deadline yan. Fertility drops sharply after 35.

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Tick tock...naku...baka mag pressure..

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[jut703]

Kasama na yan yun pag induced and harvest diba?

Pero storage fee mura na After

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Wow I have not thought ganun ka mahal. Tested na ba yung procedure dito sa atin? I was imagining baka pag mishandled, magka problem pag na conceived.

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Prices yan sa US. Nakita ko lang sa FB a few days ago.

Mas mura locally as per Sam Oh:

How to freeze your eggs: Sam Oh tells story | ABS-CBN News

She said the procedure cost her P130,600, which includes the one-year storage fee of P20,000. The annual storage fee for succeeding years is P11,200.

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[jut703]

Kasama na yan yun pag induced and harvest diba?

Pero storage fee mura na After

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Wow I have not thought ganun ka mahal. Tested na ba yung procedure dito sa atin? I was imagining baka pag mishandled, magka problem pag na conceived.

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Prices yan sa US. Nakita ko lang sa FB a few days ago.

Mas mura locally as per Sam Oh:

How to freeze your eggs: Sam Oh tells story | ABS-CBN News

She said the procedure cost her P130,600, which includes the one-year storage fee of P20,000. The annual storage fee for succeeding years is P11,200.

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[shadow]

Prices yan sa US. Nakita ko lang sa FB a few days ago.

Mas mura locally as per Sam Oh:

How to freeze your eggs: Sam Oh tells story | ABS-CBN News



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Ok. I thought dito, We had ours done in Taiwan.


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[_Cathy_]

I know a bank teller, same position for 25 years. Sinasahod niya 40K++ a month, pero teller pa rin siya. Comfort zone na kasi.

Parang di naman maganda yung teller na 40s. Okay na ko sa job ko kasi I'm a specialist. It's far from an entry level/clerical position. For someone working for 25 years, napaka baba ng 40k net salary

Ok kung yan ang end goal, so what's the action plan to achieve it?

Or lalanding nalang bigla? When?

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I know you don't mean to offend pero ang sakit naman nyan. Hindi ko ugali maging malandi. Hindi ko ugali manligaw at manuyo ng lalaki. Kahit ganito lang ako, I have enough self respect. I also believe that a relationship will not work if most of the effort comes from the girl.

I'm not looking for a husband to support my lifestyle I have my own salary. But I do dream to be a housewife because I enjoy domestic duties more. What I don't want is for me to support the guy. My Mom always tells me that at the minimum I should marry a guy who can maintain my lifestyle. Sino ba naman magulang matutuwa na naghirap ka to give your child a comfortable life tapos nung nag asawa, lalo pa naghirap? My Lola also doesn't want us to marry beyond our socio economic class dahil ma pride lola ko, at ayaw niya magmukhang kawawa yung pamilya namin. My cousin's long time GF comes from a very rich family and my Lola objected so much to their relationship. So wala sa pamilya namin ang lahing gold digger

Gusto ko lang ng tahimik na married life with my dream guy. Yung same qualities ng Dad ko. Crush came closest to him.

Everyone takes risks. Risk sa transfer ng company is baka di mo na kasundo bagong officemates or sablay/hindi supportuve management or di ka magiging as fulfilled compared sa current comfort zone kahit masmalaki sahod. Si cathy yung gamble niya finding in time someone like crush who will make all her dreams come true.

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THIS. Even my Mom told me to stay in this company. It's close to home and I can never find bosses better than what I have now. I'm a comfort zone type of person talaga. I don't like change and risks. I am happy that way.

But I do pray that someone like crush will come into my life na

I think dapat mag bank na si cath ng eggs now.


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I asked two my closest friends for us to do it (unicorn friend and office BFF). Na offend pa sakin May mga conservative Catholics who are against IVF. They believe that if it is given by God, it will happen naturally. If not, then not meant to be. Anyway, I respect their stand and I won't impose mine.

My unicorn friend has her first BF na in December. I have a feeling it won't be long and the guy will propose. BTW, may family friend kami who got married last year at 38 or 39. Less than 2 months after, buntis na. I have several friends having their first child at mid 30s naturally pero may isa lang na nag IVF.

May kilala akong isang couple sumuko na sa IVF. They have been doing it since their 20s. Pinapatay ng body ng girl yung egg na fertilized ng sperm ata Basta hindi sila compatible ng husband niya.

May isa naman couple, nag ka anak sila ng 2 but his wife developed cancer and passed away. It's because of those fertility treatments daw.

So I guess, hindi lahat talaga nakukuha ng science.

[jut703]

I know you don't mean to offend pero ang sakit naman nyan. Hindi ko ugali maging malandi. Hindi ko ugali manligaw at manuyo ng lalaki. Kahit ganito lang ako, I have enough self respect. I also believe that a relationship will not work if most of the effort comes from the girl.

I'm not looking for a husband to support my lifestyle I have my own salary. But I do dream to be a housewife because I enjoy domestic duties more. What I don't want is for me to support the guy. My Mom always tells me that at the minimum I should marry a guy who can maintain my lifestyle. Sino ba naman magulang matutuwa na naghirap ka to give your child a comfortable life tapos nung nag asawa, lalo pa naghirap? My Lola also doesn't want us to marry beyond our socio economic class dahil ma pride lola ko, at ayaw niya magmukhang kawawa yung pamilya namin. My cousin's long time GF comes from a very rich family and my Lola objected so much to their relationship. So wala sa pamilya namin ang lahing gold digger

Gusto ko lang ng tahimik na married life with my dream guy. Yung same qualities ng Dad ko. Crush came closest to him.

Oops sorry I think you misunderstood - lalanding as in "will land". Not "landi".

What I was asking was what your plan was - will you just wait for prince charming to come one day and sweep you off your feet? Or will you actively put yourself out there to meet new people? Or do you see that you might develop a releationship for someone in your existing? No right or wrong answer naman - the importsnt thing is to have a plan.

Again, I ask because a goal without a plan is just a wish.

Anyway, on the lifestyle requirement, diba sabi mo middle class ka lang so by default you shouldn't have a hard time finding people who are better off socioeconomically. But of course if you spend like someone from a higher income then it becomes harder to find someone willing to sustain that higher spending requirement.

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[dreamur]

i was shooting blanks well before 30 [emoji28]

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Hindi ka nag target practice sa kapitbahay?

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[dreamur]

I know a bank teller, same position for 25 years. Sinasahod niya 40K++ a month, pero teller pa rin siya. Comfort zone na kasi.

In one of my trips, there were few passengers in my area so I had a good chat with the flight attendant. She has been with PAL for 20 years yet her salary is still below P100K. Pero free international travels naman for her and her family. Kuripot pala si lucio tan. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]

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[StockEngine]

Hindi ka nag target practice sa kapitbahay?

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no comment [emoji55][emoji55][emoji55][emoji55]

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[BlancNoir]

Hindi ka nag target practice sa kapitbahay?

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anak ng !*#$%^& natawa ako dito. HAHAHAHA