seems you really like the girl, but my opinion is that you should move on. even if she end up with you, i bet you will never be sure about her sincerity after everything you found about her. at least on this thread, you get to see a 3rd and manyak point of view

ill say the same "dump her and move on" opinions posted here (and deep inside resisting to suggest the manyak opinion again about backdoor and add dirty sanchez).

you deserve better.