should i confront her or not? need some advice

[uls]

uls, i'm not that insecure to asked for her email password. i'm helping her with her project, her groupmate is going to email her part to her but my gf is already tired and wants to take a nap. so she asked me to check her email so that when her groupmate email the project i could start already coz she might not wake up on time. and true enough she woke up morning na, buti nalang natapos ko project niya para may ipasa siya.

honestly, i don't get what you mean by i should be man enough and not stoop to guys her age. how can i do that when gf ko na siya and not in the courting stage tapos nakikipag date pa siya sa ex niya while in the relationship at may tinatago pa siyang friendster account. hindi ba parang she's cheating on me? could you please enlighten me.

Mr. Knight, first, about the email password. Ok, so she gave it to u for that certain project. U should have stopped there. She didnt think u would snoop around. But u did coz the temptation was too great.

Now that u know what u know, and if u confront her about it, what will it make u look like? definitely not a secure, confident, trustworthy bf.

Instead of learning to love u more, u could be sabotaging her connection with u.

So what if she goes out with her ex. Ok that's cheating. But u know she's not over him yet. You knew that when u were courting her. It's her feelings and she can't turn it off like a switch. There's nothing u can do about it. I know u know that. You should have expected that. She carried her emotional baggage into your relationship.

If u confront her, will her feelings for her ex diminish? U could even push her closer to her ex if u give her emotional stress. Guess who will she call if she gets pissed.

Anyway, about the man thing. It's just my reaction to ur plan to confront her ex. Dont do that. Pagtatawanan ka lang ng ex nya. the guy knows ur gf still loves him. Ur probably older than him. Ur supposed to be more mature, cool and confident. A confrontation with her ex will make u look pathetic.

[MXFX]

seems you really like the girl, but my opinion is that you should move on. even if she end up with you, i bet you will never be sure about her sincerity after everything you found about her. at least on this thread, you get to see a 3rd and manyak point of view

ill say the same "dump her and move on" opinions posted here (and deep inside resisting to suggest the manyak opinion again about backdoor and add dirty sanchez).

you deserve better.

[claRkEnt]

Paging GS (GearSpeed po and not Glennster) !!! hehehe

Your advise badly needed here!

[gregg_g]

Hi Knight,

True Love is a mutual undertaking, and based on your account, you are not having one, she should be doing more, and if she can't, move on... or the least that you can do, confront her...

[GasJunkie]

True love does not equal 2 mos.







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Edit trunk of a car is a good place to.......:spider:

Edit2 all my internet girlfriends last name ends in jpg.....

[creepy]

Sa tingin ko... hiwalayan mo na. Don't think you'll ever be able to trust her.

[roninblade]

i think she's just confused like we all were when we were younger.

*gabriel knight, if you're serious about the relationship and if this situation really bothers you, talk to her. if confronting her is hard for you, give her a little bit of time and maybe she'll come around by herself and be faithful to you. if not, find somebody a little closer to your age, or at least graduate na from school, next time.

[space invader]

bro, confront her, better to tell the truth than keeping a lie all of ur life..

[ARB]

serious ka, but what if shes not? if you want to marry her and she said yes and when youre married na you will be the VP of the house in other words under ka sa kanya kase alam niya na takot ka ma wala siya, even if just bf-gf palang kayo takot ka na. you will be miserable the whole time. enjoy ka ba non? always worried ka if where she is if hindi siya naka text, magiging paranoid ka. sa huli ikaw kawawa. lalaki ka boss, show it be strong. enjoy her while you still can and look for another one that deserves you better. baka pang takip butas ka lang nya. then pag nagbalikan sila bye bye.

[empy]

steal her cell phone out of her purse when she's not looking and look at the call history.

if you know all the numbers in there, maybe you're just being paranoid

if there are a few numbers there you don't recognize, maybe she's just making some business calls after hours

if there is one number you don't recognize that gets called 100 times late at night with a call length of over 30 minutes, then maybe that's just a wee bit odd.

if the ringtone for that number is "Unfaithful" by Rihanna, or "Secret Lovers" then you might want to worry just a little bit :bwahaha: