how do u discipline ur kids?

**gretzy** · June 19th, 2003 09:39 PM

pano nga ba? actually, wala namang one correct way. usually how, u follow ur parents way.

anyway in our case at home, bribe system, example they want us to study hard, ang motivation nila is that they'll only give me money to start up a business if i graduate with honors, it's quite tough but effective, i can say that all of us r doing great wid our acads. tapos, they'll give me a car when they feel that i deserve it, ung point nila, if we need something we need to work for it. when i was in high school, they allow me to watch tv til midnyt as long as ive finished my homework, ok lang din internet, but i remeber once pinacut internet namin coz nawala ako sa top10, kc inuumaga ako kakachat sa mirc! :lol: pinabalik lang d next grading period. pero ok naman sila, they allow us to go out wid frens hatid-sundo nga lang. they are strict when it comes to acads n boys since all girls kami. but they always try to provide us wid wat we need n wat will make us happy. :wink: i love them!

kayo naman! :D

**ghosthunter** · June 19th, 2003 09:46 PM

from your questions, I would be lead to think you're gonna have kids of your own soon 8O

**sHoCkAbSoRbEr** · June 19th, 2003 09:53 PM

for me and my sisters, it's the reward/ punish system... :mrgreen: we get something in return for every good we do and we are punished for every horrific deeds...

**boybi** · June 19th, 2003 09:55 PM

[quote]from your questions, I would be lead to think you
dapat ata ang question: how do you discipline us kids? :mrgreen:

**gretzy** · June 19th, 2003 10:06 PM

:lol: actually, gusto ko na magka-anak. :mrgreen: kaya lang di pa pwede, in 5 years time pa siguro. :mrgreen:

**happiman** · June 19th, 2003 10:06 PM

ako naman simple lang ang ginawa ko sa mga anak ko na puro lalake. ginamitan ko sila ng simple arithmetic.

sabi ko sa kanila, yung 10 years nyung pag hihirap (6 yrs sa grade school at 4 yrs sa college) sa pag aaral ay habang buhay nyong pakikinabangan. kung mag papasarap na kayo ngayon, sampong taon lang kayong magpapasarap, pag graduate nyo ng college, habang buhay kayong maghihirap. sa awa ng dyos ng aral naman mabuti mga anak ko kahit na wala sila sa top 10 at kahit San beda lang sila nag tapos lahat medyo masaya na din ako sa naging outcome ng deseplina ko sa kanila. pinalake ko sila na wag magtatago ng problema. kung may problema sila sabihin agad sa amin kasi sinabi ko sakanila na walang makakatulong sa kanilang iba tao kundikamina magulang nila. elementary palang sila eh isiniksik ko na sa utak nila na kapag ang maliit na problema ay itinago ay lumalaki. kayo ayon lumaki sila na parang mag kakabarkada lang kami sa bahay. halos lahat ng nangyayari sa school nila masama man o mabuti ang nagawa nila at naka-kwento agad sa nanay nila.

**gretzy** · June 19th, 2003 10:10 PM

happiman, san beda is a good school. :wink: ganon din kami, parang magkakabarkada lang, and nagkakapareho pa kami ng hilig ng mom ko like shopping, my parents are young pa, mom is 40, papa is 44. :mrgreen:

**happiman** · June 19th, 2003 10:22 PM

sarap ng walang gap ang parents at kids di ba. :D

ako miss ko anak na babae. di ko naranasan yung bumili ng barbie dolls :mrgreen:

**gretzy** · June 19th, 2003 10:28 PM

happiman, all boys kids mo? all girls naman kami.hehehe magastos ang barbie, ang mahal! :mrgreen: mas malambing girls, pero gusto ko anak na lalaki. :mrgreen:

**happiman** · June 19th, 2003 10:38 PM

four boys :mrgreen: pati mga apo ko puro lalaki :evil: mas magastos anak na lalaki kay sa babae. imagine pati pang date nila hinihingi sa amin :mrgreen: