Quote Originally Posted by sHoCkAbSoRbEr
for me and my sisters, it's the reward/ punish system... :mrgreen: we get something in return for every good we do and we are punished for every horrific deeds...
aka Positive Reinforcement.

Positive communication is a tool to reinforce good behavior and eliminate bad behavior; it builds self-esteem and inspires confidence in children. And it's easy -- once you get the hang of it! Children's feelings of esteem are very highly influenced by their interaction and relationship with their parents. All children need to feel loved and accepted, and you can communicate those feelings to your children by the way you speak.

Once you develop the habit of consistent positive reinforcement at home, you'll see that communicating is easier, and you will also be helping your son or daughter learn to communicate with the outside world. By the time they are in elementary school, kids need the self-esteem boost gained when positive reinforcement is in practice.

Applicable to your 'pets' also :wink: