Article: Generation who refuse to grow up...

[vinj]

well meron mga spoiled brats nakapatay ng tao then bailed out by influential parents

ya sure those brats will grow up someday

And drive a Ford Mustang at 200kph on the Skyway?

Iba talaga kasi when you have no safety net, you're forced to swim and fly indeed.

[uls]

more often than not spoiled brats never change

that's until their support system collapses and they're forced to fend for themselves

[vinj]

more often than not spoiled brats never change

that's until their support system collapses and they're forced to fend for themselves

In some cases i've known, naubos yung wealth ng family and nabenta na lahat ng properties. Ayan, forced to find work at an relatively old age when their peers are already looking at retirement.

[fitdrive]

yung mga naghihintay ng mana...

ya i bet one day they'll say "i'm tired of waiting for my inheritance! i'm gonna go make my own fortune!"

yeah sure

some parents tend to overdo / to overplan / to overcompensate talaga, parang ayaw nila maranasanang ang hirap na dinanas nila sa buhay with their kids, and more often they produce spoiled kids. The good thing about some spoiled kids, malambing and so parang nawawala ang pagod ng parents.Most parents want to be acknowledged / appreciated on what they experienced thru life, and the most rewarding would be yun nga their kids' appreciation.

Parang yun commercial ng condo way back, these young 20 something dinala nya yan tatay nya sa nabili na condo. Tapos yun tatay parang galit pa kse nga naman hindi na maging dependent yun kid nya sa kanya. I think most parents are like this, they just hide it. Kaya ganito ang Filipino family, kahit 30 something na nakatira pa din sa magulang

so what can we really do as kids, try to alleviate na lang their lifelong fear na pag walang pera kawawa. Do this by spending your money / first sweldo by treating them sa spa and other leisure stuff that will relax them. Syempre, sasabihin nila wag mo nga kaming gastusan, gamitin mo yan pera mo sa kinabukasan mo, wag mo nga kami intindihin, counter that by saying, discounted naman to 50% off or buy 1 take 1, kahit hindi naman.

parents get old, and with old age, they feel that thier bodies are getting weaker. Kaya the more they get older, the more they get irritable. add to that,cbec of their pressures in life, they too made unhealthy habits that's contributing to some ailments that they are feeling now but also hiding from you. Kaya nga ako pag may free time, i tend to watch cooking channels, mag-learn lang to provide healthy food for them hangga't makakaya ko. One time, I treated them sa isang buffet, and their bp shot up. Tpos makikita mo sila, they will buy their own medicines minsan maintenance pa. Sobrang disheartening talaga na eto yun parents mo who took care of you alll your life, pag may ubo ka karipas sila sa mercury, tapos pag may sakit sila at hirap makalakad, they fend for themselves.

I'm saying this bec. Mali din yun mag pundar ka kagad sa sarili mo, the tendency is maging makasarili ka and also mayabang. Take care of your parents first, yun mga hindi nila na-experience, if not pamper them. I think that's the best way to continue what they started, hindi yun pera/pagkakakitaan ang iisipin kagad.

[shadow]

some parents tend to overdo / to overplan / to overcompensate talaga, parang ayaw nila maranasanang ang hirap na dinanas nila sa buhay with their kids, and more often they produce spoiled kids. The good thing about some spoiled kids, malambing and so parang nawawala ang pagod ng parents.Most parents want to be acknowledged / appreciated on what they experienced thru life, and the most rewarding would be yun nga their kids' appreciation.

Parang yun commercial ng condo way back, these young 20 something dinala nya yan tatay nya sa nabili na condo. Tapos yun tatay parang galit pa kse nga naman hindi na maging dependent yun kid nya sa kanya. I think most parents are like this, they just hide it. Kaya ganito ang Filipino family, kahit 30 something na nakatira pa din sa magulang

so what can we really do as kids, try to alleviate na lang their lifelong fear na pag walang pera kawawa. Do this by spending your money / first sweldo by treating them sa spa and other leisure stuff that will relax them. Syempre, sasabihin nila wag mo nga kaming gastusan, gamitin mo yan pera mo sa kinabukasan mo, wag mo nga kami intindihin, counter that by saying, discounted naman to 50% off or buy 1 take 1, kahit hindi naman.

parents get old, and with old age, they feel that thier bodies are getting weaker. Kaya the more they get older, the more they get irritable. add to that,cbec of their pressures in life, they too made unhealthy habits that's contributing to some ailments that they are feeling now but also hiding from you. Kaya nga ako pag may free time, i tend to watch cooking channels, mag-learn lang to provide healthy food for them hangga't makakaya ko. One time, I treated them sa isang buffet, and their bp shot up. Tpos makikita mo sila, they will buy their own medicines minsan maintenance pa. Sobrang disheartening talaga na eto yun parents mo who took care of you alll your life, pag may ubo ka karipas sila sa mercury, tapos pag may sakit sila at hirap makalakad, they fend for themselves.

I'm saying this bec. Mali din yun mag pundar ka kagad sa sarili mo, the tendency is maging makasarili ka and also mayabang. Take care of your parents first, yun mga hindi nila na-experience, if not pamper them. I think that's the best way to continue what they started, hindi yun pera/pagkakakitaan ang iisipin kagad.

OB ikaw na yan?

[vinj]

^diba OB lives with his in-laws or something like that?

[uls]

OB na OB ang dating

[cast_no_shadow]

the way he expressed it.

OB it is!

[_Cathy_]

In some cases i've known, naubos yung wealth ng family and nabenta na lahat ng properties. Ayan, forced to find work at an relatively old age when their peers are already looking at retirement.

I know of a lot of cases like this. Madali talaga maubos ang wealth ng family. Usually sa 3rd od 4th generation nauubos. Minsan malas lang talaga. I know 2 cases na had to move out of Forbes.

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[_Cathy_]

OB ikaw na yan?

I don't think it's ob. What the poster said makes a lot of sense and not trolling naman.

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[shadow]

^diba OB lives with his in-laws or something like that?

hinde, galit yata siya sa in-laws niya dahil nagbibigay yata siya and theyre taking advantage...something-something

[shadow]

I don't think it's ob. What the poster said makes a lot of sense and not trolling naman.

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anong sense sa sinabi niya?

[uls]

rich families at their peak they had cashflow on top savings (that went to buying property)

then cashflow stopped but they still had savings + property

the heirs are too lazy to create new cashflow so they live off the savings

they're unwilling to shift to a lower standard of living (coz they're too proud). kung ano lifestyle nila when they had cashflow ganyan parin lifestyle nila kahit wala na cashflow

they sell property to finance their lifestyle

eventually they would have sold off all their property and depleted their savings

[_Cathy_]

anong sense sa sinabi niya?

Lahat sa post niya makes sense to me talaga on how parents do not want us to spend on them but I am sure they appreciate it etc

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[uls]

I don't think it's ob. What the poster said makes a lot of sense and not trolling naman.

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hina ni cathy mag detect

[uls]

that long post above is classic OB

[_Cathy_]

OB can be serious din pala

[vinj]

^Er... OB is always serious.

[vinj]

hinde, galit yata siya sa in-laws niya dahil nagbibigay yata siya and theyre taking advantage...something-something

Basta i always remember something re. his in-laws pero vague na. :D

[_Cathy_]

hinde, galit yata siya sa in-laws niya dahil nagbibigay yata siya and theyre taking advantage...something-something

So OB married down? Why would his in laws need financial help?

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