What is letting go

[Lucius]

Get a hobby. Gym kayo. You will meet different people in fitness centers kahit mga 1-2/10 people may type ka dun. That will help you move on, interact with other people. Letting go of someone doesn't mean your world is about to end.

[nostalgia]

andto pa ko mga bro.. ano inuman na ba?

ano iinumin natin.. baygon o clorox!!!!

joke lang po

masarap yata ang muriatic acid

sarap ng ganitong usapan, kahit papano nakakagaan sa dibdib
and somehow it eases the pain. i'm in the process of
accepting and moving on.

well, just remember na youre not really meant to be with each other. It’s definitely hard letting go of someone you love so much, but you have to LEARN. Please ask yourself. Did your ex ever try to contact you? While you’re wondering about him/her, is he /she wondering about you? While you’re feeling depressed and confused, is he/she feeling the same way? Or maybe she/he’s happy with his/her new life?Don’t be hard on yourself. It’s not solely your fault he left. Love just works in mysterious ways, and we can never really understand why it has to end for some. There’s nothing wrong with you, maybe you’re just not meant for each other.

[Lucius]

Love is overrated (oops madami magrereact)

[nostalgia]

hindi naman cguro.. ayan ako unang nag react...

[_Cathy_]

Get a hobby. Gym kayo. You will meet different people in fitness centers kahit mga 1-2/10 people may type ka dun. That will help you move on, interact with other people. Letting go of someone doesn't mean your world is about to end.

Delikado sa gym. Marami "it" dun.

People at the gym are friendly talaga. I guess it's the happy hormones from exercising

[_Cathy_]

And focus on other things first...





...like fixing your car's A/C!

You remembered. hehe. Actually it's not working anymore. hehe. Still on warranty though. It's so hard to go out during this time of the year without A/C. hehe. I'll deal with it soon. I have to get "emotionally ready" for the damage in my wallet

[pitbullz]

letting go is to stop thinking about it.

[Lucius]

Delikado sa gym. Marami "it" dun.

People at the gym are friendly talaga. I guess it's the happy hormones from exercising

Exactly, ayaw mo nun friendly agad. Kahit di mo target yun pwede mo din maging friends yun. Ako kahit lalake makipagusap sakin ok lang hehehe sa una talaga akala mo bading yung guy pero yun pala gusto din makisama sayo pag may kausap ka. One example is yung kumausap sakin sa "locker room" hehehe may mga bading talaga pero iba to sabi nya pansin daw nya lahat yata ng babae nagsmile ako so yun, di lahat ng same *** na kakausap sayo sa gym bading

See, when you interact with other people mas madali ka makaka-move on. Tignan nyo yung brokenhearted na girls, lagi sinasabi na "I love being single" woooshooo! Kung wala yung friends nila kunwari sa gimikan I'm sure nagmukmok lang sila sa bahay watch ng telenovela

[Lucius]

You remembered. hehe. Actually it's not working anymore. hehe. Still on warranty though. It's so hard to go out during this time of the year without A/C. hehe. I'll deal with it soon. I have to get "emotionally ready" for the damage in my wallet

Yup and you have to go through the process of accepting to let go of the money that you'll spend for your a/c. Try mo kay mang mario kaso sa QC pa pwede ka makipagchikahan dun sa misis nya

[_Cathy_]

Exactly, ayaw mo nun friendly agad. Kahit di mo target yun pwede mo din maging friends yun. Ako kahit lalake makipagusap sakin ok lang hehehe sa una talaga akala mo bading yung guy pero yun pala gusto din makisama sayo pag may kausap ka. One example is yung kumausap sakin sa "locker room" hehehe may mga bading talaga pero iba to sabi nya pansin daw nya lahat yata ng babae nagsmile ako so yun, di lahat ng same *** na kakausap sayo sa gym bading

Naku sa locker room ka pa kinausap :rofl: Don't talk to strangers in the locker room. Kidding.

Naalala ko tuloy yung thread na nagbrown out sa gym tapos may sounds daw! :praning:

[Lucius]

Naku sa locker room ka pa kinausap :rofl: Don't talk to strangers in the locker room. Kidding.

Naalala ko tuloy yung thread na nagbrown out sa gym tapos may sounds daw! :praning:

Hahahaha okay lang yun wala naman gagawa ng masama sakin sa gym namin. Dati naman meron din nagtanong "pogi magshoshower ka na?" yun ang mahirap i-let go... Nakaka-trauma. Pag sinilip mo pa naman gilid ng shower kita mo na yung nasa loob kahit may towel kita pa din

[_Cathy_]

Hahahaha okay lang yun wala naman gagawa ng masama sakin sa gym namin. Dati naman meron din nagtanong "pogi magshoshower ka na?" yun ang mahirap i-let go... Nakaka-trauma. Pag sinilip mo pa naman gilid ng shower kita mo na yung nasa loob kahit may towel kita pa din

Tinuloy mo pa rin? Sana :bruce_lee: mo na yung bading. Kidding.

Dapat pala palit na lang ng shirt tapos sa bahay na mag shower. Mahirap na :praning:
Seriously, exercise is a good way of releasing tension.:threadmil It'll help you think less of the person you want to let go of. Exercise until you are too tired to even feel sad. Pwede rin na :icecream:

[nostalgia]

when you let go of someone, try not to think of them. find a new hobby, enjoy things that you can't do while you have your partner. and make sure you need to look better than when you're with your partner before. para pag nakita ka nya ulit, the feeling na "sayang pinakawalan ko pa sya" is there.

[rileyrider]

when you let go of someone, try not to think of them. find a new hobby, enjoy things that you can't do while you have your partner. and make sure you need to look better than when you're with your partner before. para pag nakita ka nya ulit, the feeling na "sayang pinakawalan ko pa sya" is there.

i'm 101% agree. dapat after the grieving stage and you are on the moving on stage, we should look better now and try to think of ourselves naman this time. naisip ko nga rin.
kahit nami miss mo pa rin yun person.:consoling2:

[uls]

distraction lang naman ung new hobby or keeping yourself busy e

pag tapos ka na sa ginagawa mo, maiisip mo parin sya...

ano gagawin mo? get busy 24/7? di ka na matutulog?

pag nahiga ka na sa sobra pagod sa kaka busy mo, just before you fall asleep, maiisip mo parin sya...

maglasing ng maglasing? e pag nag sober ka na? maiisip mo parin sya.

there's no escape.

I dont believe in keeping busy or taking up a new hobby...

it only works when ur distracted.

I'd rather let it run its course.

Like the flu. U let it run its course.

Kung iniisip mo sya... hayaan mo tumakbo sya sa isip mo...

mapapagod din naman sya sa kakatakbo sa isip mo e...

In just a few days, ok na. di pa aabot ng 1 week... basta zero communication.

Then after ok ka na, kahit magkita kayo uli, no effect na sya.

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Problem with people trying to get over someone is they still talk or see each other.

It's like trying to recover from an infection where u get infected repeatedly.

or from an injury where u keep re-injuring urself.

How the hell can u recover?

[nostalgia]

well letting and trying to forget someone is a hard thing to do. but each individual have their own ways to forget their pains and that person. some, taking a new hobby may work like in my case. true, pagtulog mo maiisip mo sya, but at least pagtulog lang di ba. at least the rest of your day, youre busy with something else than thinking of her/him.

well if you think not talking to this person for the longest time till you don't feel any pain will help, then do so. I guess some people have a problem of not talking to them kasi they've been together for a long time. the sense of familiarity ang namimiss nila.

[_Cathy_]

Most couples that have broken up yet remain friends end up being in pseudo relationships which are not healthy. Mostly the girls are at the losing end. I think there's a thread here explaining pseudo relationships.

[nostalgia]

They end up in this type of relationship simply because of "familiarity". they are scared to try again because baka di nila mafeel yung ganitong feeling with their partners.

[_Cathy_]

Which is why the best solution is a total cutting off of ties You can't move on if you have the shadow of your past lurking around you

[nostalgia]

Which is why the best solution is a total cutting off of ties You can't move on if you have the shadow of your past lurking around you

yes, totally ignore them till no cant feel any pain na.