What is letting go

[nostalgia]

To “let go” does not mean to stop caring. It means I can’t do it for someone else.
To “let go” is not to cut myself off. It’s the realization that I can’t control another.
To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To “let go” is not to try to change or blame another. It’s to make the most of myself.
To “let go” is not to care for, but to care about.
To “let go” is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To “let go” is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To “let go” is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
To “let go” is not to deny, but to accept.
To “let go” is not to nag, scold, or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To “let go” is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To “let go” is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
To “let go” is to fear less and to love more.

Now I wonder, my holding on is still harder than letting go...

[CVT]

Mukhang nahihirapan ka bro.

It is just a temporary state of mind. It will pass away, hopefully.

"No I don't think time is gonna this broken heart".....

5808:bee:

[nostalgia]

hmm medyo lang. pero i guess i'll be fine.

[rileyrider]

letting go.... means you need to do a lot of sacrifices on your side dahil alam mong u will feel the deepest pain and sadness just to let them have their own happiness and that means u really love the person.
coz' that's what i did bro...just recently.


:cry:

[_Cathy_]

Mine was as recent as yesterday. The timing of this post is uncanny.

Although for me letting go is simple cutting ties.

[chua_riwap]

OT

Parang magiging "malungkot" ang thread na ito ah............

[iho250]

OT

Parang magiging "malungkot" ang thread na ito ah............

yeah i can feel it, too...

[nostalgia]

OT

Parang magiging "malungkot" ang thread na ito ah............

hmm, seems like a lot of guys right now are in the process of "letting go"...

yeah i can feel it, too...

uy baka iho teary eyed ka na rin ha

Back to topic..

Letting go also means, letting your partner find their own happiness even it means you're not part of it. Painful yes, but that is the best way than holding on. Holding on for me is more tough than letting go of someone who i think in the first place was never part of me. they move on and leave us not because they want to hurt us, but because just like in stories, their part has come to an end.

We should be happy that they became part of us. They have contributed by making us who we are right now.

[ringostarr]

di ko maintindihan pareho ba'to ng


"f you love someone, grant parole"

[_Cathy_]

Pinaka madaling solution e magkalimutan na lang.