My friend’s love dilemma

[revoGSX]

agree ako sa sinabi nilang lahat...
pero "LOVE IS BLIND"
just keep an eye to your friend dahil most likely eh meron yan gagawing move na magugulat ka na lang
kahit na sabihin mo na mukhang okay naman yung friend mo after 3 days eh kunwari lang yun.. 10 years eh sobrang tagal nun .. it would take months for the girl to recover..probably a year for a full recovery sa breakup.. kahit magkaroon pa sya ng bagong bf

just keep talking to your friend para meron syang outlet ng problems nya... better sana kung magpalit na sya ng simcard or wag na sya muna mag cellphone para wala na totally communication sa ex-bf nya..

marami pang questions yung friend mo kung bakit sila nag break ng ex-bf nya kahit sinagot na ng ex-bf mismo.... normally kasi sa break-up eh you don't tell the real reason dahil masakit sa girl.. ang usual reasons eh "na fall out of love" or "meron na ako ibang love" at iba pa

... pero within the girl eh marami syang naiisip like kung meron ba sya nagawang masama.. maliit ba boobs nya.. maiitim daw ba sya.. maliit ba sya... hindi siguro sya seksi... at iba pang tanong na hindi na masasagot ng guy..

basta naniniwala ako na 'love is blind' ..kahit anong ibigay mong payo eh matigas ulo nila at kelangan nila ma-experience ang masakit hehe..

[CaRGirL]

sabihin mo sa friend mo, wag syang magpakatanga, wag syang magpakamartir, wala syang mapapala sa ganun. baka isipin pa nung guy na hinahabol sya at kahit anong gawin nyang pagiwan, ay pde nyang balik-balik. tell her, kung break na, move on!!!

YUN LANG PO... :D

[Ungas]

I-umpog mo ulo sa pader ng matauhan! Kamo utos ko.... hahaha! :bwahaha:


Kidding aside, i-sama mo magshopping panigurado wala agad yang lungkot nya. :D

[sHoCkAbSoRbEr]

Thanks, guys. I'll tell these to my friend. She's ok now. Pero I hope she could completely forget all about what happened. Pero hindi pa din maiwasan na maalala nya sa dami ng happy and sad memories nya with her bf. Minsan nga hindi ko na alam ang gagawin kung paano sya i-cheer up. Sobrang sakit talaga.

Totoo pala ang like father, like son... Dati kasi proud ako dun sa bf ng friend ko kasi 8 years na sila tapos loyal at faithful yung bf not until last September. Well, inamin naman nung guy na since July pa daw sya naging close dun sa isang girl.

[sHoCkAbSoRbEr]

Ang last na pag-uusap daw nila nung friend ko is nung nag-break up sila. Yung friend ko ang nakipag-break. At ang sabi ng bf, wala na muna daw syang kakausapin sa kanilang dalawa (yung friend ko at yung isang babae). Pero ang worry nung friend ko, number one, is since yung girl ang lumalapit dati sa bf nya, baka daw kahit iwasan ng bf nya yung girl eh baka hindi naman na makaiwas yung bf. Or, number two, patuloy na silang nag-uusap at sya na ang napili ng bf nya. Sinisikreto lang nila.

Hindi kasi fair, kasi classmate lang nung bf yung other girl pero yung friend ko nagw-work na, malayo pa at minsan lang sila magkita. So paano yan, walang kalaban laban yung friend ko?

Ang point naman ng friend ko is, gusto nya ng peace of mind kaya gusto lang sana nya malaman yung truth. Kung sya eh di sya at kung yung isa eh di yung isa.

[Prometheus]

Hi. May ire-irecommend akong movie sa mga mag-on at kakabreak pa lang. I think this would help Mr. sHoCkAbSoRbEr and give an idea how men and women think.

"Two Can Play That Game"
CAST
Vivica A. Fox, Morris Chestnut

[sHoCkAbSoRbEr]

Sa mga na-heartbroken na dito, gaano katagal kayo bago naka-move on?

[OTEP]

Almost 2 years.

It's great to be alive!

[Prometheus]

It took me 3months whewh... Hinintay ko siyang umalis papuntang US. Tinatawagan pa kasi ako kahit break na kami, di nya alam na masakit ang ginawa nya at ayaw ko na syang makita o marinig man lang ang boses.

[Tha_Mann]

having a 10-yr relationship is not something that can be easily forgotten, emotionally and mentally, its easy to say na mag move-on ka na after break-up pero it's really hard to do so it's not a good advice at this moment..

some time in a relationship, ma a-attract tayo sa iba, it's natural human feeling but if u do something w/ that attraction, there lies the problem.

one factor kung bkit na attract yung bf ng friend mo sa school mate nya eh ksi nga sabi mo long distance relationship sila ng friend mo, eh syempre nag l-long sya ng companionship tapos may lumalapit pa na girl, natural lang na ma temp sya.. iba ksi yung may palagi kang katabi at kasama..

pero ur friend & her (ex)bf built a foundation na w/ their 10-yr relationship, and i think its a strong foundation, mejo naguluhan lang yung guy sa nangyari ngayon and cguro nde pa nya alam if infatuation lang yung feelings nya for his classmate or what..

my advise for ur friend is give her bf some time to think things over, but don't lose communication, once in a while mag paramdam sya baka ksi makalimutan na sya hehe.. dont give up easily.. cguro this is just a test kung gano kalalim yung pag sasamahan nila.. pero if trust is lost na, it's another thing na, mas mahirap i regain yung trust kesa sa love..

o kaya sabihin mo sa friend mo gantihan namin yung ex-bf nya hehehe...