My friend’s love dilemma

**gretzy** · December 29th, 2003 02:14 PM

naku si otep, ready to help kay mau! hehehe

**sHoCkAbSoRbEr** · December 29th, 2003 02:58 PM

She's a good friend of mine talaga. Sana maka-move on na talaga sya. Pero I think she's doing fine now... I think... and I hope.

gretzy, mabait lang talaga yan si kuya OTEP...

**roninblade** · December 29th, 2003 03:30 PM

otep will help your friend to move on daw.
:puyat:

ehehehehe.

**OTEP** · December 29th, 2003 03:36 PM

Hehehehehe. Intriga yan ha.

**mbt** · December 29th, 2003 05:29 PM

Originally posted by OTEP
Admittedly, may niloko na din ako noong araw (1st year med ata ako nun)..........

Mahirap magtiwala sa mga ganyang klaseng lalake.

ate mau,

makinig ka kay kuya oteps, from first-hand experience ito hahahaha :bwahaha:

**pajerokid** · December 29th, 2003 06:20 PM

Its natural for girls to flirt. Its natural for guys to play around. One mistake is enough. There's no reason to make it two. Kung nagawa na nung guy yan, all the more justification to do it again. Di na uso martyr. There's a lot more fish in the sea.

An diyan naman si mbt diba? Smart, intelligent and F4 handsome

**mbt** · December 29th, 2003 07:08 PM

gagu :bwahaha:

**pajerokid** · December 29th, 2003 07:13 PM

**wreckless** · December 29th, 2003 07:44 PM

hmmm...
i just hope your friend will recover from this trauma..
10 years is not easy to let go..
pero kung sa tingin nya ay d na nya makakalimutan yung nangyari..
let go na lang talga..
she can't hold on to that past ten years if she couldn't forget what has been done..(its easy to forgive..since mahal nya yung guy..forgetting is the painful part)..

it wouldn't be easy for her to decide right now..
she's lucky that she has you for a friend..
usap-usap..kumustahan..
that would help her heal.
eventually..after that..only can she be able to decide..
an painful heart would make a sane mind venture into insanity.
and since we're talking aout love..
only the heart can decide.

tell her to check the boards para maaliw sya. ;)

**explorer** · December 29th, 2003 07:56 PM

Originally posted by wreckless
hmmm...
i just hope your friend will recover from this trauma..
10 years is not easy to let go..
pero kung sa tingin nya ay d na nya makakalimutan yung nangyari..
let go na lang talga..
she can't hold on to that past ten years if she couldn't forget what has been done..(its easy to forgive..since mahal nya yung guy..forgetting is the painful part)..

i agree. what's 10 years of heaven if the rest of her life with that guy will be like hell?

**revoGSX** · December 29th, 2003 08:44 PM

agree ako sa sinabi nilang lahat...

pero "LOVE IS BLIND"
just keep an eye to your friend dahil most likely eh meron yan gagawing move na magugulat ka na lang

kahit na sabihin mo na mukhang okay naman yung friend mo after 3 days eh kunwari lang yun.. 10 years eh sobrang tagal nun .. it would take months for the girl to recover..probably a year for a full recovery sa breakup.. kahit magkaroon pa sya ng bagong bf

just keep talking to your friend para meron syang outlet ng problems nya... better sana kung magpalit na sya ng simcard or wag na sya muna mag cellphone para wala na totally communication sa ex-bf nya..

marami pang questions yung friend mo kung bakit sila nag break ng ex-bf nya kahit sinagot na ng ex-bf mismo.... normally kasi sa break-up eh you don't tell the real reason dahil masakit sa girl.. ang usual reasons eh "na fall out of love" or "meron na ako ibang love" at iba pa

... pero within the girl eh marami syang naiisip like kung meron ba sya nagawang masama.. maliit ba boobs nya.. maiitim daw ba sya.. maliit ba sya... hindi siguro sya seksi... at iba pang tanong na hindi na masasagot ng guy..

basta naniniwala ako na 'love is blind' ..kahit anong ibigay mong payo eh matigas ulo nila at kelangan nila ma-experience ang masakit hehe..

**CaRGirL** · December 29th, 2003 09:19 PM

sabihin mo sa friend mo, wag syang magpakatanga, wag syang magpakamartir, wala syang mapapala sa ganun. baka isipin pa nung guy na hinahabol sya at kahit anong gawin nyang pagiwan, ay pde nyang balik-balik. tell her, kung break na, move on!!!

YUN LANG PO... :D

**Ungas** · December 30th, 2003 12:38 AM

I-umpog mo ulo sa pader ng matauhan! Kamo utos ko.... hahaha! :bwahaha:

Kidding aside, i-sama mo magshopping panigurado wala agad yang lungkot nya. :D

**sHoCkAbSoRbEr** · December 30th, 2003 06:27 AM

Thanks, guys. I'll tell these to my friend. She's ok now. Pero I hope she could completely forget all about what happened. Pero hindi pa din maiwasan na maalala nya sa dami ng happy and sad memories nya with her bf. Minsan nga hindi ko na alam ang gagawin kung paano sya i-cheer up. Sobrang sakit talaga.

Totoo pala ang like father, like son... Dati kasi proud ako dun sa bf ng friend ko kasi 8 years na sila tapos loyal at faithful yung bf not until last September. Well, inamin naman nung guy na since July pa daw sya naging close dun sa isang girl.

**sHoCkAbSoRbEr** · December 30th, 2003 06:38 AM

Ang last na pag-uusap daw nila nung friend ko is nung nag-break up sila. Yung friend ko ang nakipag-break. At ang sabi ng bf, wala na muna daw syang kakausapin sa kanilang dalawa (yung friend ko at yung isang babae). Pero ang worry nung friend ko, number one, is since yung girl ang lumalapit dati sa bf nya, baka daw kahit iwasan ng bf nya yung girl eh baka hindi naman na makaiwas yung bf. Or, number two, patuloy na silang nag-uusap at sya na ang napili ng bf nya. Sinisikreto lang nila.

Hindi kasi fair, kasi classmate lang nung bf yung other girl pero yung friend ko nagw-work na, malayo pa at minsan lang sila magkita. So paano yan, walang kalaban laban yung friend ko?

Ang point naman ng friend ko is, gusto nya ng peace of mind kaya gusto lang sana nya malaman yung truth. Kung sya eh di sya at kung yung isa eh di yung isa.

**Prometheus** · December 30th, 2003 04:43 PM

Hi. May ire-irecommend akong movie sa mga mag-on at kakabreak pa lang. I think this would help Mr. sHoCkAbSoRbEr and give an idea how men and women think.

"Two Can Play That Game"
CAST
Vivica A. Fox, Morris Chestnut

**sHoCkAbSoRbEr** · January 5th, 2004 12:34 AM

Sa mga na-heartbroken na dito, gaano katagal kayo bago naka-move on?

**OTEP** · January 5th, 2004 01:02 AM

Almost 2 years.

It's great to be alive!

**Prometheus** · January 5th, 2004 03:45 PM

It took me 3months whewh... Hinintay ko siyang umalis papuntang US. Tinatawagan pa kasi ako kahit break na kami, di nya alam na masakit ang ginawa nya at ayaw ko na syang makita o marinig man lang ang boses.

**Tha_Mann** · January 6th, 2004 12:53 PM

having a 10-yr relationship is not something that can be easily forgotten, emotionally and mentally, its easy to say na mag move-on ka na after break-up pero it's really hard to do so it's not a good advice at this moment..

some time in a relationship, ma a-attract tayo sa iba, it's natural human feeling but if u do something w/ that attraction, there lies the problem.

one factor kung bkit na attract yung bf ng friend mo sa school mate nya eh ksi nga sabi mo long distance relationship sila ng friend mo, eh syempre nag l-long sya ng companionship tapos may lumalapit pa na girl, natural lang na ma temp sya.. iba ksi yung may palagi kang katabi at kasama..

pero ur friend & her (ex)bf built a foundation na w/ their 10-yr relationship, and i think its a strong foundation, mejo naguluhan lang yung guy sa nangyari ngayon and cguro nde pa nya alam if infatuation lang yung feelings nya for his classmate or what..

my advise for ur friend is give her bf some time to think things over, but don't lose communication, once in a while mag paramdam sya baka ksi makalimutan na sya hehe.. dont give up easily.. cguro this is just a test kung gano kalalim yung pag sasamahan nila.. pero if trust is lost na, it's another thing na, mas mahirap i regain yung trust kesa sa love..

o kaya sabihin mo sa friend mo gantihan namin yung ex-bf nya hehehe...

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