My Date's Dad Is Hitting On Me?

[_Cathy_]

In here I thought he was really gonna harm me, he can do that since his family is into politics. Then after that he calls me as if nothing happened and wanting to see me again

[minicarph]

*cath, yun ba ex bf mo pinag-palit ka sa model


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[_Cathy_]

right now you have an insight into an ugly future kung sya ang pipiliin mo.

baka ikaw pa mag kumpuni ng auto nya
baka ikaw mag supporta sa kanya pag deads na si in law
kung magka family kayo highly unlikely makita nya mag graduate anak nyo
aaannd he's a douche, so you'll probably share him as soon as makuha na nya matagal nya hinihingi lol

Thank you for this.

I think sir uls is on to something here. Nagtatiyaga kasi walang ibang option. Being with this friend is better than being alone. But really, is it better? Galing mag.condition ng utak. 1) He'll tell maam cathy na expired na siya dahil 30s na>so less impetus on her part to look for other men. 2) accuse her of sleeping with other men>so she'd claim no and prove it maintaining her loyalty.

And ano level nitong pagmamanyak? May french kiss pero all allusions to *** puro 2nd hand info from a friend who has slept with the guy. So at least first base, at most 3rd base lang? Tas she's stuck na with this guy, forcing herself to like/accept his 'shortcomings' ala-asawa? May mga bff naman. So ruled out na yung walang friends. Baka nga naghahanap ng father figure? Imho lang...

Question maam cath...Ano nahanap mo sa kanya? You've been asking for cons pero tingin ko no point e. Tinaggap mo na yung tao ng buo. You stopped searching elsewhere e despite painting a really negative picture of the guy.

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Totoo lahat sinabi mo He has conditioned me for so many years already.

When we first met I had no attraction for him at all but he gave me so much attention. Then when a new girl came in our group, he just dropped me like a hot potato. Eventhough I didn't like him, I got affected when he suddenly withdrew the attention he gave me. He only went back to me when the girl went to Spain to study MBA. Up until now he teases me about how I got all jelly because I had a crush on him which is not true. It was just the attention that he withdrew.

Back in 2009 he stole a kiss from me, parang that became the prelude. I don't know if I am looking for a father figure. I had an extremely good relationship with my Dad. He was my best friend. Kung tutuusin I should have no problems with men because I had a great childhood with my Dad, but why do I seek men that are irresponsible and tend to hurt and abuse me?

Ano nahanap ko sa kanya? I've known him for over a decade. I like how he gets clingy with me. Sometimes he gets psycho and I guess that makes me feel very much wanted? He also accepts my psycho episodes and has been patient with me. Alam ko naman may sayad din ako, nagtiya tiyaga din naman siya. I know that I could count on him kung kailangan talaga. Pero ayan pag nakukuha niya gusto niya biglang nawawala.

[MR_BIG18]

In here I thought he was really gonna harm me, he can do that since his family is into politics. Then after that he calls me as if nothing happened and wanting to see me again

Incumming....

[minicarph]

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Back in 2009 he stole a kiss from me, parang that became the prelude. I don't know if I am looking for a father figure. I had an extremely good relationship with my Dad. He was my best friend. Kung tutuusin I should have no problems with men because I had a great childhood with my Dad, but why do I seek men that are irresponsible and tend to hurt and abuse me?

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Parang alam ko na gift nya sa iyo, leather bikini




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Oh well...


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[_Cathy_]

Oh well...


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what does this mean

[MR_BIG18]

what does this mean

Auto2x....

[Wh1stl3r2]

why do I seek men that are irresponsible and tend to hurt and abuse me?

Classic psychological warfare for me. Abusive people will make you think you have low value. This makes them seem superior to you, hence worth pursuing. If he begins to like you it is a great achievement on your part because in your mind he is on a higher level, better than you. And you continuously take the abuse because, well, you think he is beyond your league.

That is probably why a lot of women prefer douchebags to gentlemen. Most can't help their preference for douchebags because in their minds, the gentlemen are considered "low value".

Pardon me for being brutally frank Cathy. This is not an attack on you. I'm just frustrated because I've seen this happen to so many girls. One of them I even courted a long time ago. Today she is on the wrong side of 30 and still single.

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why stay friends with this guy? obviously he's an A**hole

sa totoo lang, wala naman mahirap sa sitwasyon mo eh.

you're old and mature enough to know what to do with your guy friend.

actually, you dont need this thread na nga eh.