My Date's Dad Is Hitting On Me?

[kai s.]

He got mad at me again and called me baliw. He said why don't I let that guy fck me daw. Psycho talaga

Oh btw to spite him, I told him do you want me to be your stepmother?

Ang. Toxic. Nito.

You seem so attached, and I understand that, but do you even LIKE the guy?

[_Qwerty_]

why are you still even talking to that guy?

[Wh1stl3r2]

Long read but worth it.

Do Assholes Really Finish First? | Psychology Today

[_Cathy_]

Ang. Toxic. Nito.

You seem so attached, and I understand that, but do you even LIKE the guy?

No I don't. He's just someone who makes himself always available for me.

why are you still even talking to that guy?

He is very very persistent. If I ignore his texts or calls, he will call me at home. It does not even matter what time (midnight he will ring our landline)

Long read but worth it.

Do Assholes Really Finish First? | Psychology Today

Fits him perfectly:

Or take the so-called "dark triad" traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism (manipulativeness), and psychopathy (callousness, lying, thrill-seeking).

[cast_no_shadow]

Why are you still talking to him?

Why?


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[_Cathy_]

Why are you still talking to him?

Why?


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This guy is persistent. If I don't answer his text, he calls. If I don't answer his calls, he calls our landline. Sometimes he is also nice and calls to ask how my 2nd mom is doing.

But sometimes he really has psycho episodes. Sometimes I feel sorry for him when he complains about his dad

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[dr. d]

ask the telco or your cellphone to block or reject his signal.

[_Cathy_]

ask the telco or your cellphone to block or reject his signal.

But he will just call my landline or show up at my house. That will get him more mad.

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[kai s.]

So, so wrong on so many levels.

Block him on Facebook and on any other social media platform he can access. Block him on your mobile phone as well. Have your househelp answer the telephone and tell him you are out. If you are in a gated village, guards are there to keep unwanted people out. If you don't, don't answer the door and have the househelp screen visitors. If he hurls more abuse at you because of this -- in person na lang ang natirang choice -- get a freaking restraining order.

This is fairly simple if you really do want him out of your life. But you don't seem to want to. Nobody here is even bothering to take his side because there is no defending that kind of behavior. He sounds manipulative, sadistic, and abusive with stalker tendencies. Oh what fun, this guy. The fact that he can turn on the charm when he wants to just means that he is very probably a sociopath. Kalahati siguro ng serial killers sa Criminal Minds ganyang-ganyan ang ugali. Now I'm not saying that your guy's a serial killer...but let's just say I wouldn't be surprised to hear that he likes to hurt little furry animals.

[Wh1stl3r]

Try introducing him to an acquaintance of yours he might like. We call this the "pahid" maneuver.

[cast_no_shadow]

This guy is persistent. If I don't answer his text, he calls. If I don't answer his calls, he calls our landline. Sometimes he is also nice and calls to ask how my 2nd mom is doing.

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Sometimes he is nice?

Pero sa kwento mo I can't imagine how him being can compensate sa kawalanghiyaan niya sayo.

Use the block function of your mobile

Sa landline naman andali iwasan niyan, magbilin ka sa maid or anyone that can answer the phone. If ikaw makasagot then babaan mo.

People like that don't deserve any of your time.


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[dr. d]

Sometimes he is nice?

Pero sa kwento mo I can't imagine how him being can compensate sa kawalanghiyaan niya sayo.

Use the block function of your mobile

Sa landline naman andali iwasan niyan, magbilin ka sa maid or anyone that can answer the phone. If ikaw makasagot then babaan mo.

People like that don't deserve any of your time.


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old-style phone blocking system.... lagay ka ng malaking nota sa tabi ng telepono: "if soenso calls, I AM NOT HOME."

instruct the house people to make sure the sign is kept if the dom drops by.

[_Cathy_]

old-style phone blocking system.... lagay ka ng malaking nota sa tabi ng telepono: "if soenso calls, I AM NOT HOME."

instruct the house people to make sure the sign is kept if the dom drops by.

The person who answers the phone at home likes him for me.

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[_Cathy_]

Sometimes he is nice?

Pero sa kwento mo I can't imagine how him being can compensate sa kawalanghiyaan niya sayo.

Use the block function of your mobile

Sa landline naman andali iwasan niyan, magbilin ka sa maid or anyone that can answer the phone. If ikaw makasagot then babaan mo.

People like that don't deserve any of your time.


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When I'm sick I can really feel his concern and he was supposed to bring me to the hospital when I had a flu. I just know I can count on him on emergencies.

He has a bad temper lang. Like now he knows I want someone else, he berates me and curses me and the guy. Everyday yan

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[n_spinner06]

Women find jerks irresistable...maybe there's some truth to that adage...

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[_Cathy_]

Women find jerks irresistable...maybe there's some truth to that adage...

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I hate jerks especially those that are mayabang. He's the only jerk I've put up with because he is very persistent and we've known each other for so long (and I have psycho episodes also).

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[remzam]

Cathy, you don't want that guy out of your life. We hear you complain about this things yet you still entertain him. Kung gusto may paraan kung ayaw may dahilan.

I noticed you like people wooing you around and following your orders. Same with the guy from your office kahit manyak you still say na OK naman pag inuutusan mo or nagdadala ng gamit mo. Baka di boyfriend hanap mo, baka atsoy.

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[_Cathy_]

Cathy, you don't want that guy out of your life. We hear you complain about this things yet you still entertain him. Kung gusto may paraan kung ayaw may dahilan.

I noticed you like people wooing you around and following your orders. Same with the guy from your office kahit manyak you still say na OK naman pag inuutusan mo or nagdadala ng gamit mo. Baka di boyfriend hanap mo, baka atsoy.

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I am very submissive IF I respect a man. That is why I am attracted to the alpha strong personality types na ako ang titiklop. Mapag silbi ako if I look up to a person

[StockEngine]

I am very submissive IF I respect a man. That is why I am attracted to the alpha strong personality types na ako ang titiklop. Mapag silbi ako if I look up to a person

50 Shades of Cathy

cue* elevator scene...

pow pow pow 😅

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[_Cathy_]

50 Shades of Cathy

cue* elevator scene...

pow pow pow 😅

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I never watched that movie. hahaha! But I believe the submissiveness can include that department too