I have this principle na "ano ang mapapala ko kung magiging bad guy ako, wala di ba? i'll end up getting a lot of people mad at me at gulo lang aabutin ko. why not be good, at least you are in peace and more people will like you... besides, being good makes me happy, making other people happy on the small things that i do for them makes me happier!"
kasi eto lang ang nalaman ko, small things, no matter how small or simple they are, means a lot for others...
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October 1st, 2008 04:36 AM #122Ako, I have a nice guy friend. since we are chemical engineers, mostly talaga, babae ang students dun. when we were in college, 3 lang ang lalaki. 1 was a super serious guy (cum laude eh), the second was actually "sampid" sa samahan namin kasi we met him 3rd yr college na, so he is not that close sa amin, ang the 3rd was the mr nice guy. since 1st yr college, kasama na namin siya. Whenever meron sa aming mga girls ang may problem, he is always there para makinig sa mga hinaing namin or paga-angin ang loob namin habang umiiyak, pinagtatanggol kami sa mga naging BFs namin, sinasamahan kami mag shopping (of course namimili na rin siya ng mga damit niya) at minsan pag kulang kami sa cash, binibigyan niya kami hehehe but I guarantee you, hindi po siya gay. may GF naman siya.
Masaya siyang kasama kasi he really knows how to treat girls like us and how to make us laugh. sayang lang at i don't find those type of guys nowadays.
I always end up with a bad asses... hahaha sabi nga nila collector daw ako ng mga bad boy. 3 out of 4 BF mga badboys e. and now i'm searching for a nice guy (syempre yung may looks dapat)
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October 3rd, 2008 11:09 AM #123
Originally Posted by iluvcandz
Maraming maraming nice guys around. Unfortunately, women are submliminally programmed to be attracted to the bad boy types kaya the nice guys miss your radars. For instance, did you ever like this "nice guy" friend of yours or did you only see him as your brother or kabarkada. If he ever did court you, would you have said yes?
This is one of the reasons why nice guys finish last... But that statement isnt finished...
Nice guys finish last but the Nice guys also get the last laugh.
In today's society with so many broken marriages, the nice guys who practice fidelity helps build his family stronger.
Remember that they are just around, but because they are so nice, they know they shouldnt court you just because they know you are looking and available. They will only do so because they are seriously considering a long term relationship.
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October 3rd, 2008 01:59 PM #124Nice guys just don't get to sleep around easily, needs a lot of "work"
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August 17th, 2011 01:36 PM #126Nice guys finish last.
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000...895892974.html
Hey, You! Mean People Earn More, Study Finds
By RACHEL EMMA SILVERMAN
It may not pay to be nice in the workplace.
A new study finds that agreeable workers earn significantly lower incomes than less agreeable ones. The gap is especially wide for men.
The researchers examined "agreeableness" using self-reported survey data and found that men who measured below average on agreeableness earned about 18% more—or $9,772 more annually in their sample—than nicer guys. Ruder women, meanwhile, earned about 5% or $1,828 more than their agreeable counterparts.
"Nice guys are getting the shaft," says study co-author Beth A. Livingston, an assistant professor of human resource studies at Cornell University's School of Industrial and Labor Relations.
The study "Do Nice Guys—and Gals—Really Finish Last?" by Dr. Livingston, Timothy A. Judge of the University of Notre Dame and Charlice Hurst of the University of Western Ontario, is to be presented on Monday in San Antonio, Texas, at the annual meeting of the Academy of Management, a professional organization for management scholars. The study is also forthcoming in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
The researchers analyzed data collected over nearly 20 years from three different surveys, which sampled roughly 10,000 workers comprising a wide range of professions, salaries and ages. (The three surveys measured the notion of "agreeableness" in different ways.) They also conducted a separate study of 460 business students who were asked to act as human-resource managers for a fictional company and presented with short descriptions for candidates for a consultant position. Men who were described as highly agreeable were less likely to get the job.
For men being agreeable may not conform "to expectations of 'masculine behavior,'" the researchers write in the study. People who are more agreeable may also be less willing to assert themselves in salary negotiations, Dr. Livingston adds.
Other research shows that rudeness may not always benefit employees or their firms. A paper presented earlier this month at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association found that 86% of 289 workers at three Midwestern firms in the manufacturing and health-care industries reported incivility at work, including public reprimands and making demeaning comments. Incivility was bad for the organizations as a whole, though, increasing employee turnover, found the researchers, Jeannie Trudel, a business professor at Indiana Wesleyan University-Marion, and Thomas Reio, a professor at Florida International University.
"The problem is, many managers often don't realize they reward disagreeableness," says Dr. Livingston. "You can say this is what you value as a company, but your compensation system may not really reflect that, especially if you leave compensation decisions to individual managers."
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August 18th, 2011 04:39 PM #129it's about personality
people who have alpha personality are highly competitive, confident, aggressive, ambitious, impatient... you know... those go-getter, leader types
people who have beta personality are easy-going, follower type, not confident, basically opposite of alpha
it's no surprise naman who has the ability to make more money or get ahead in life
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BTW, si PNoy... di siya alpha male
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November 12th, 2011 11:19 PM #130Then Jesus Christ is wrong when he said, "Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth."
If Jesus is wrong, then he is only a man. Not the Son of God.
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August 28th, 2012 11:42 AM #133pwede may asawa na hehehe...pero ngayon kaasar dami naman ng gay ngayon super ladlad pa at my nalalaman pang same *** marriage!
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August 28th, 2012 03:34 PM #134married, gay or still studying... Originally Posted by pink888
Where are the nice guys?
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August 28th, 2012 04:08 PM #136 Originally Posted by pink888
^^
Hehehe. Thanks, Sir!
I'm so weird.. Kinilig pa ko! Hahhaa :P
wait mo lang madami dito
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August 28th, 2012 04:38 PM #138mamaya lalabas yun my 6pack fit body sya lagi daw sa gym...mahilig sa trip to europe :hysterical: Originally Posted by nervenllarena
wait mo lang madami dito
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August 28th, 2012 04:42 PM #139in a parallel universe, after he's done with his studies, he returns to the Phils. to marry the girl
again, in a parallel universe
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August 28th, 2012 04:44 PM #140Hindi nice guy tawag dun. Weird guy yun Originally Posted by timrev
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