To Mr. Nice Guy

[chilli]

I've read this one and I thought of sharing this to you guys..

This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/***y their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl’s every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style. This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they’re at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don’t end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.
This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you’d ever orchestrated in GTA3 to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.
The nice guys don’t often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys don’t seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative bitches. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I’m going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn’t last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.
So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.

Fu-zu Jen, SEAS/WH, 2003

[n2knee]

group hug everyone?

[uls]

wow... t cash

[jedi]

wala na pong tcash under pitstop forums...

wow... t cash

[safeorigin]

cheers daw! :beertoast: hehehe akala ko pelikula ni jackie chan

[onat_1]

isn't that classified as gay boy friend?

[CVT]

There's a belief sometime, somewhere by a group of someones, that "They're already taken"..... :peace:

5303:burp:

[chilli]

isn't that classified as gay boy friend?

di naman siguro... so if you're mr. nice guy, youre also a gay boyfriend?

[badsekktor]

nyahahahaha!!!!! baka nga hindi pa nya nadidiscover na gay sya!

[uls]

Ano tawag sa girl friend ni Mr. Nice Guy?

User

[chilli]

nyahahahaha!!!!! baka nga hindi pa nya nadidiscover na gay sya!

i don't believe that if a guy is nice, he is gay or hindi pa nya nadidiscover na gay sya.

Ano tawag sa girl friend ni Mr. Nice Guy?

User

I don't think you can easily tag Mr. Nice guy's gf as 'user'. Because in fact a lot of guys have ms. nice girl counterpart. so does that make them user as well?

[badsekktor]

chilli, how old are you? why so affected? these are our perceptions and opinions so please be open minded about the opinion of others. I dont consider my remark as a general truth, i guess everybody here agrees with me. We are just stating what is plausible and you cannot take away that possibility just because you think otherwise. bakit masyado ka defensive? are you a guy or a girl?

[uls]

ano tawag sa guy friend ni Ms. Nice Girl?

Maginoo

[badsekktor]

ano tawag sa guy friend ni Ms. Nice Girl?

Maginoo

nyahahahaha!

[van_wilder]

we are not jerks. we are just immature. we wanted to be nice, but oh but... our testosterones run wild... one day, we'll all be nice guys too...

at least nice guys dont end up with b*tches...

[chilli]

why so affected? these are our perceptions and opinions so please be open minded about the opinion of others.

I am open minded, just like you I am also stating my point of view. Does this mean, I can't air my side if I don't agree with your comment?

I dont consider my remark as a general truth, i guess everybody here agrees with me.

But of course, I also believe I have the right to disagree with your opinion which in fact, I am saying what 'I' think is my belief about Mr. Nice guy. And did I say you're saying a general truth? I don't think I said or posted something to make you feel that way.

We are just stating what is plausible and you cannot take away that possibility just because you think otherwise. bakit masyado ka defensive?

And how can you say I am defensive? Have you seen me or read something I posted that made you think I am affected by your remarks? Or is it just you thinking I got your message the other way around?

chilli, how old are you? ,are you a guy or a girl?

I think my age and my gender has nothing to do with how I think about Mr. Nice guy, dont you think? It's completely irrelevant.

FYI, I don't mean anything anything when I quote your reply. I guess it is you who are defensive regarding this matter, don't you think?

Just relax, this is a forum.

[shadow]

And how can you say I am defensive?

maybe with this kind of reply?.....

I am open minded, just like you I am also stating my point of view. Does this mean, I can't air my side if I don't agree with your comment?



But of course, I also believe I have the right to disagree with your opinion which in fact, I am saying what 'I' think is my belief about Mr. Nice guy. And did I say you're saying a general truth? I don't think I said or posted something to make you feel that way.



And how can you say I am defensive? Have you seen me or read something I posted that made you think I am affected by your remarks? Or is it just you thinking I got your message the other way around?



I think my age and my gender has nothing to do with how I think about Mr. Nice guy, dont you think? It's completely irrelevant.

FYI, I don't mean anything anything when I quote your reply. I guess it is you who are defensive regarding this matter, don't you think?

Just relax, this is a forum.

and can somebody please break the paragraphs on the first post ang hirap basahin eh....

[chilli]

maybe with this kind of reply?.....

hmm he is not referring to this post unfortunately. but rather referring to this post

Originally Posted by badsekktor
nyahahahaha!!!!! baka nga hindi pa nya nadidiscover na gay sya!

i don't believe that if a guy is nice, he is gay or hindi pa nya nadidiscover na gay sya.

[uls]

Mr. Nice guy doesnt screw his girl friend even if he really really wants to...

He doesnt screw her out of "respect"

So his girl friend gets screwed by other guys

And Mr. Nice Guy ends up listening to his girl friend telling him some guy screwed her and how much fun she had...

haha

[shadow]

good guy=loser

good guys are always dreaming of having :***: but always ends up doing :jo:
I rather be the bad guy....? :badboy: :evil: