To Mr. Nice Guy

[Jun aka Pekto]

sorry to be blunt about this but your a LOSER in my book...
why don't you just leave all that tasks to their respective BF? at least when BF do that they get laid...do you?

no benefit at all my friend..


sorry....

You're assuming the Pinay women all have a BF. Judging from what I've seen, most Pinay women haven't really changed from the old days. By that, I mean most still have a strong sense of modesty. Most never had a BF even into adulthood. Often, their first BF is the man they eventually marry. I still see many of them to this day, especially newcomer Pinay immigrants. They really do make it a point to save themselves for "Mr. Nice Guy". They always ask me to find a nice guy for them. Of course around here, that's hard to find. I'd be scared to recommend my friends (bunch of sickos and perverts ) to them.

That's not to say "experienced" Pinays don't exist. They do. Take bar girls for instance. But, they're still very much in the minority.

Add:
Although popular media may try to portray it to the contrary, most Pinoys are still the "Mr. Nice Guy" type which is why many Pinays here search them out. They see a Pinoy with no wedding band, they get interested and start giggling among themselves.

[shadow]

^^^well, you've been out of the country for too long...hehehehe

[Jun aka Pekto]

^^^well, you've been out of the country for too long...hehehehe

Ah. But we do keep in touch with friends/relatives in the Philippines. My wife travels there regularly not to mention there hasn't been any shortage of Pinoys immigrating here from the Philippines. There's enough indicators to make a good accessment.

[wewoy_romero]

sorry to be blunt about this but your a LOSER in my book...
why don't you just leave all that tasks to their respective BF? at least when BF do that they get laid...do you?

no benefit at all my friend..


sorry....

well some of them may bf, and some of them don't. and even if they do, there are things you can do with a friend from the opposite *** and not with your lover. and they prefer having my company, so what's wrong with that?

loser? i don't think so. in MY book, a loser is someone who does things just because he hopes he can get a reward out of it. being nice to someone just to get laid is pathetic - the trait of a bigger loser. my friend, maybe you would, but i don't need to do that to get laid. sorry.

*badsekktor
haha, i don't fit the description to a tee. wag naman sobrahan ang pagiging mabait. and definitely, i like only girls hehe.

[chilli]

well some of them may bf, and some of them don't. and even if they do, there are things you can do with a friend from the opposite *** and not with your lover. and they prefer having my company, so what's wrong with that?

loser? i don't think so. in MY book, a loser is someone who does things just because he hopes he can get a reward out of it. being nice to someone just to get laid is pathetic - the trait of a bigger loser. my friend, maybe you would, but i don't need to do that to get laid. sorry.

*badsekktor
haha, i don't fit the description to a tee. wag naman sobrahan ang pagiging mabait. and definitely, i like only girls hehe.

nice guy oh my, cant believe you still exists... :D

[badsekktor]

*badsekktor
haha, i don't fit the description to a tee. wag naman sobrahan ang pagiging mabait. and definitely, i like only girls hehe.

nyahahahaha! honestly wala pa kong kilala na lalaki na sobrang ganun kabait... well maybe one... a high school friend. grabe talaga pagka-ewan nung guy na yun! as in may iba na bf yun girl! kahit na may-asawa na! sobrang patay na patay dun sa girl. di ko lang alam kung nagising na.....

[badsekktor]

chilli meet wewoy......

wewoy meet chilli......

hehehehe!!!! ayan na ang certified nice guy! :D

[rion]

Take bar girls for instance. But, they're still very much in the minority.

even some bar girls still acts like a modest when you first meet them. then later they have this "don't cha" girls personality pala.

[chilli]

chilli meet wewoy......

wewoy meet chilli......

hehehehe!!!! ayan na ang certified nice guy! :D

nyeek...

[Flagg]

...
hmm maybe you should meet my gfs then.. you'll see how much they are drooling whenever they meet someone and can be considered as Mr. Nice guy

I'll be very very nice. All of us are like that, at first.

...hmm maybe i love the darkside during my younger days but of course i prefer now the nicey one...

Ah yes, of course. One must always find a chump to lean on.

[chilli]

I'll be very very nice. All of us are like that, at first.

i see, at least you admitted that you're like that at first lang..

Ah yes, of course. One must always find a chump to lean on.

yeah but sometimes not all are lucky to find one.

[Flagg]

i see, at least you admitted that you're like that at first lang..

Ah, but of course, if your gfs are pretty, I wouldn't want them to get bored with me the second time we meet...

yeah but sometimes not all are lucky to find one.

You can count yourself lucky you haven't found the person in your first post. Gusto mo makilala my Mr. Nice Guy friend? He's everything like what you posted, plus gwapo pa (mom nya was a beauty titlist) plus works out kaya nicely-muscled. Yun lang I think may capital L stamped on his forehead. Sablay palagi eh. Hahaha... Don't you feel lucky now?

[AeonBlaire]

The dating game really is illogical.
Have you guys and gals heard of Mr. David de Angelo?
As one of his findings (based on his newsletters), finding someone for a date is different from finding someone to settle down with. (mmm common sense na siguro toh).

And like Mr. rion's opinion, he also found out (based also from his newsletters) that:
Nice Guys play nice because they fear that their real personality will be not accepted by their friends. They play nice because of fear of rejection, so they will have to play as a nice guy friend.

From Mr. rion also:
"sa tingin ko, if you like a particular nice guy. you should give him a hint. hint lang that you are interested. no more than that. kasi baka he could be interested in you too. but he fears rejection." -- I agree with this.

[Chip]

Ah yes, of course. One must always find a chump to lean on.

WAHAHAHA this just made my evening!

[Jun aka Pekto]

Gee. I wonder what happened to people being themselves and letting others judge them for who they really are.

Guys trying to be someone they're not only adds pressure and makes it even harder to attract a girl if the truth was found out. Worst, living a lie gnaws at that guy's personality because he has to live up to that image he set for himself.

Better to be himself and take rejection. At least, it was in his own terms. Sooner or later, Miss Right will come along who'll take him for what he is.

Having lived in the Philippines, I know what most here have said thus far. You have to shore up your image to even have a chance. I didn't do that while I was there. I remained true to myself and took a bunch of rejections. I wasn't about to spruce up my image for the girls. I did think of myself as a nice guy. But, that alone wasn't enough.

My wife probably would've done the same (send me packing) except for one thing, her aunt. Her aunt used to babysit me when I was young and she was my second mom here. So, she knew me quite well and thought my wife and I would make a good match.

Of course that last part's pure speculation. My wife wouldn't say a thing when I pester her about it. She just gives me a smirk (simangot?) and moves off.

[ringostarr]

nice guys ask or bring their moms/wives/gfs to the car dealer and let her decide which car to buy regardless if who pays for it.

[chilli]

Ah, but of course, if your gfs are pretty, I wouldn't want them to get bored with me the second time we meet...

hmm my bestfriends are really hottie though... ;)

You can count yourself lucky you haven't found the person in your first post. Gusto mo makilala my Mr. Nice Guy friend? He's everything like what you posted, plus gwapo pa (mom nya was a beauty titlist) plus works out kaya nicely-muscled. Yun lang I think may capital L stamped on his forehead. Sablay palagi eh. Hahaha... Don't you feel lucky now?

common, does he really exists? kakausap ko kasi sa inyo parang narealized ko baka nga di sya nage- exist.

[van_wilder]

rather than pamacho or kunwari you dont care about girls kasi we are in demand... why dont we just make every girl feel like a princess and prove to them that chivalry is not dead?

[chilli]

rather than pamacho or kunwari you dont care about girls kasi we are in demand... why dont we just make every girl feel like a princess and prove to them that chivalry is not dead?

maybe guys just have different ways of showing and making girls like princess or special though. ;)

[Flagg]

...Having lived in the Philippines, I know what most here have said thus far. You have to shore up your image to even have a chance. I didn't do that while I was there. I remained true to myself and took a bunch of rejections. I wasn't about to spruce up my image for the girls. I did think of myself as a nice guy. But, that alone wasn't enough...

Ahaha sir jun, you cannot hide from your dark un-nice past by pretending to be nicey-nicey to newbie chilli.

Oldies like me come back to haunt you. Ahihihihi...

Remember, the nice caucasian chick in Oklahoma? Wahehehehe...