How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[misseksaherada]

Oi may ganun pala misseks... napractisan siguro ako dati kaya ako nasaktan... [emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787]... mostly ang naging gf ko ako yung first nila, now i know....

Di ba nga Ray, kapag hindi ka binibigyan ng time kailangan mag-move forward na.. Ang sinisend kasi na signal nun, hindi committed sayo yung tao.. Kapag wala na ibang efforts, hanggang ganun na lang yun.. [emoji28][emoji12][emoji1787]
Mr. Casanova ng tsikot.. [emoji1787][emoji1308]hindi naman ibig sabihin na ikaw first nila nag-practice lang.. hindi lang talaga nag-work.. dun tayo sa gasgas na kasabihan, "it takes two to tango"..
Parang nagkaroon pala ng negative connotation yung "practice"..
practice = manloko / manakit ng damdamin / no intention to commit into relationship.. Hindi ito ang ibig kong sabihin..
Nabanggit ko lang yung "pag-practisan nya muna si guy" kasi parang hindi sanay yung friend ni Ms. Cathy sa flirting stage.. Nag-overthink na siya na magkaka-anak nga sila dahil sa mga sinabi din ni app guy.. Kaya naisip ko na mag-practice muna siya makipag-interact/makipag-flirt.. pati na din sa iba pang guys na nasa dating site/app.. madi-discover nya na may pattern.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23]
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Masaktan kung masaktan because our pain is an indication to look inward. It gets us to think about what we truly desire to experience and feel.

Ok lang din ang magka-experience at masaktan.. Pero dapat sa bawat chapter nagma-mature at natututo.. May mga tao na kahit nakailang relationships na, mahaba man or maikli.. Hindi pa din nila alam kung ano ang magwu-work sa kanila para magkaroon ng healthy relationship..

[shadow]

Parang kwento lang ni cath with crush.

Yun mga Filipino movies na same story line iniba lang ng konti then iba bida.

Diba ganyan din story ni cath. Walang oras sa kanya si crush hinde nag reply, paano mapa inlove ulit, etc.
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[Egan101]

Wala mangyayari dyan kung puro text-text lang. Kelangan may action. Nothing beats in your face interaction.


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[uls]

di ko alam why people consider a chat/text/phone "relationship" a relationship

kung ganun may market pala sa Pinas ang ganito

[shadow]

di ko alam why people consider a chat/text/phone "relationship" a relationship

kung ganun may market pala sa Pinas ang ganito

Only for weirdos.


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[uls]

check out this chatbot

if all you want was "someone" to chat with... a "someone" who sounds like he/she cares about you

magagawa ng chatbot yan

no need for a real human

[_Cathy_]

ok sige the guy is interested in your friend

that's what you and your friend wanna believe right?

since wala naman mawawala sa friend mo then wait for the guy

wala naman ibang lalake diba?

i mean walang nanliligaw

wala naman siya sinasakripisyong potential relationship dahil hinihintay niya si Atenista

so wait... wait for the next message

wait for the guy to ask her out

wait for the guy to reveal his intentions (kung meron)

since di marunong ung friend mo pabilisin ang tempo ng "relationship" then she's completely at the guy's mercy

all she can do is wait

she'll probably waste a few years waiting for an envisioned future that may of may not happen

Of course my friend wants to believe that the guy is interested. Pero ako, I want to be objective and understand why a guy would still initiate messaging a girl every few days if he has no interest in her. Naisip ko yung sinabi ni H1Tman na baka may GF or asawa kaya pampalipas oras friend ko. I already told my friend galawang may asawa yung si app guy pero according to the mutual friend of our officemate, ang alam nila single

Objective ng friend ko is to get the guy, so as a good friend, I support her objective hahaha

Parang kwento lang ni cath with crush.

Yun mga Filipino movies na same story line iniba lang ng konti then iba bida.

Diba ganyan din story ni cath. Walang oras sa kanya si crush hinde nag reply, paano mapa inlove ulit, etc.
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Magkaiba naman kay crush. Crush and I were in love with each other before and it was SPECTACULAR.

Sa friend ko nasa getting to know you stage pa lang e neglected na siya. Saka kay crush naman he still calls me for at least an hour daily and when he can't call, he will message me, rare naman yung hindi siya nagpaparamdam ng ilang araw unless ako yung nagsee seen zone sa kanya. I realized lang na hindi ako masaya sa 1 hr calls and we are not progressing ilang months na. Saka my disappointments din ako kay crush, he isn't as protective of my anymore. If crush treated me the same way app guy treats my friend, wala pa one month bibitaw na ko.

Wala mangyayari dyan kung puro text-text lang. Kelangan may action. Nothing beats in your face interaction.

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The problem is the guy won't even call her, mas lalong no indication of a meet up anytime soon

di ko alam why people consider a chat/text/phone "relationship" a relationship

kung ganun may market pala sa Pinas ang ganito

I guess yun na nagiging norm na START ng "relationship" online. Halos lahat naman na online - work, shopping, entertainment, school, mass even funerals. Siyempre mga sira ulo lang papatol sa ganyan na chatbot, ang online is supposed to move to real life kaya nga si app guy gusto ng friend ko maging tatay ng mga anak niya haahaha. Can't make babies online

[uls]

I guess yun na nagiging norm na START ng "relationship" online.

point ko may mga tao hanggang online lang

kaya nila mag text/chat/viber for months/years

masaya na sila sa ganyan

[_Cathy_]

point ko may mga tao hanggang online lang

kaya nila mag text/chat/viber for months/years

masaya na sila sa ganyan

Re my friend, I don't know ano threshold niya before siya bumitaw kasi she's against time. Gusto na niya magka anak ASAP. She wants it so bad na she rejected a job that gave her requested salary and upgraded position pa, mas important to make babies with her babe [emoji14]

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[uls]

ung gusto niya maging tatay ng mga anak niya wala yata balak makipagkita

sige good luck