How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[dr. d]

as the saying goes,
"how do you know black, if you don't know white?"
how do you know you're already being mal-treated, if you don't know what good treatment is?

[uls]

how do you know you're already being mal-treated, if you don't know what good treatment is?

unless the maltreatment is so bad that she'll start feeling offended

like umabot na sa point of indecency

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sa kwento ni cathy the guy and the girl massage each other in the car

*cringe*

kung ako ung babae i'll think...

"coconut water lang nilibre mo tapos hawak-hawakan mo na katawan ko?!"

haha

[_Cathy_]

baka di niya alam what's "disrespectful" sa context na yan

baka pagkaintindi niya basta di siya hinarass, she wasn't disrespected

Ganun na nga, kasi naman siya tina take advantage daw

you know princess treatment from non-princess treatment

pero si he huang walang ganyan

she has no dating experience

she has no standard which she can use as basis for comparison

di niya alam she's already being treated poorly by a guy

Ang nakakadisappoint kasi bakit sakin siya naiinis, may sinabi pa siya verbatim "Lahat ng good men sinalo mo na kasi lahat" I guess it's because I cut off a guy na kaagad pag may hindi ako nagustuhan.

Si annulment guy, hindi nga aabot sakin yan sa meet up kung isuggest niya sakin yan coffee or tambay sa parking. I don't even accept last minute dates, yung tipong I'm in your area, can I pass by your house/pick you up later?

She always says nga pag nag kwento ako what a guy did for me "kung ako yan na inlove na ko". Vday last year the guy got her a small pack of chocolates tuwang tuwa na siya, but with my FRIENDS (not even dating) halos every meet up may little something din naman usually sweets nga

as the saying goes,
"how do you know black, if you don't know white?"
how do you know you're already being mal-treated, if you don't know what good treatment is?

I thought it was common sense, hindi pala

"coconut water lang nilibre mo tapos hawak-hawakan mo na katawan ko?!"

haha

EXACTLY! She needs to restrict access to her body

[_Cathy_]

What blows my mind is she still wants him in her life. He is still MARRIED and has NOT filed annulment. Tignan daw niya kung gagana yung gawain ko na I don't respond when a guy goes silent on me. So she is still manipulating (?) him into liking her. For me kasi these things are natural, it's out of self respect.

[uls]

Ang nakakadisappoint kasi bakit sakin siya naiinis, may sinabi pa siya verbatim "Lahat ng good men sinalo mo na kasi lahat" I guess it's because I cut off a guy na kaagad pag may hindi ako nagustuhan.

the more stories you tell her about how guys give you princess treatment the more envious she gets

kaya naiinis siya sayo

di niya matago ung inis

She always says nga pag nag kwento ako what a guy did for me "kung ako yan na inlove na ko".

kasi she never gets treated the way guys treat you

ikaw sanay ka na so it takes a lot to move you

ung bale wala sayo para sa kanya nakaka in love na

Vday last year the guy got her a small pack of chocolates tuwang tuwa na siya, but with my FRIENDS (not even dating) halos every meet up may little something din naman usually sweets nga

it's not everyday guys give her chocolates

[uls]

What blows my mind is she still wants him in her life.

beggars can't be choosers

[_Cathy_]

So my friend unmatched 5 footer, sakto naman nag resurface si Mr Annulment so magkikita sila later. I told her don't allow physical touching anymore and don't hang out na sa car.

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[uls]

looks like steady na niya si coconut water

kahit mababa ang matches niya sa bumble in 4 yrs, nakatagpo naman siya ng bf (pero walang label)

[_Cathy_]

I wouldn't even call that an MU? The guy did not answer when she asked what they were and when she joked na she wanted a "donor" to get pregnant naturally, the guy straight out said he can't do that to a friend.

Kanina nagkita sila past 12 am na. It's no wonder they could never have dinner and only hang out sa car. 100% of RESTAURANTS at BGC and Makati I know are closed by 12 am, majority are closed by 10 pm, some by 11 pm. Dilemma namin magkakaibigan yan na ever since the pandemic, restos close so early. Starbucks AFAIK, latest na 2 am in some stores.

She also makes herself available so easily. After getting cold for more than a month bigla na lang daw nag back to normal (everyday chat) It makes me wonder what happened in that time period?

Face palm talaga ako why she continues to allow this treatment

[uls]

pero if you look at it from he huang's point of view coconut water guy is the closest thing she has to a boyfriend

sino pa lalake kachat niya?

sino pa lalake kinikita niya regularly (kahit once or 2x a month)

parang shota na niya yan

maari para kay coconut water guy "friends" lang sila (more like side chick or backburner lang si he huang)

pero he's the only one he huang has

Face palm talaga ako why she continues to allow this treatment

because what's the alternative?

lonely siya sa condo

it's either magkita sila ni coconut or she has no physical intimacy

it's biologically driven