How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[uls]

if a guy is juggling 2 or 3 or 4 girls then once a month makes sense

[_Cathy_]

haha "cant let me go"

natitiis nga di siya itext nang matagal

"i am a good catch"

haha ok

delulu

ang weird lang kasi sakin yung consistent siya texting daily then suddenly silent for 10 straight days. Maybe he met a new girl that he really likes?

guy: "di ako nalilib#gan sayo"

This I find weird, ang press release niya sakin ONCE lang pala sila nag french kiss. I find that hard to believe e. Either she's shy to admit or talagang hindi nag enjoy yung guy, but why would he still be consistent in texting and meeting her once a month. If I am a guy, I would move further.

kahit sabihin natin 2x a month

have you ever had a date where after the date the guy texts you that he wants to see you again next week?

or even tomorrow agad

ganyan ang lalake pag gusto ang girl

di ung after 30 days

oo nga no, ako lang talaga yung hindi mahilig lumabas haha

if a guy is juggling 2 or 3 or 4 girls then once a month makes sense

Kaya naisip ko na siya lang kasi the guy isn't exactly a catch. MARRIED, may anak that lives with him, late 40s, short, stocky and soon to be jobless. His job is so so, drives a relatively old car. I don't think a lot of women would go after him. Baka kaya nga sila lang ni He Huang ang consistent with each other?

[uls]

ang weird lang kasi sakin yung consistent siya texting daily then suddenly silent for 10 straight days. Maybe he met a new girl that he really likes?

ikaw

when you're texting with a new guy kalimutan mo mga luma diba

This I find weird, ang press release niya sakin ONCE lang pala sila nag french kiss. I find that hard to believe e. Either she's shy to admit or talagang hindi nag enjoy yung guy,

he french kissed her



haha

i wouldn't even attempt

but why would he still be consistent in texting and meeting her once a month.

to keep her around

If I am a guy, I would move further.

no

diyan lang si he huang... close but not too close

Kaya naisip ko na siya lang kasi the guy isn't exactly a catch. MARRIED, may anak that lives with him, late 40s, short, stocky and soon to be jobless. His job is so so, drives a relatively old car. I don't think a lot of women would go after him.

don't underestimate

may asawa yan

he's experienced

marunong sa babae yan

Baka kaya nga sila lang ni He Huang ang consistent with each other?

si he huang consistent sa kanya but she has no other guy

the guy is consistent with her but there can also be other women

it doesn't take much work naman to text 2 or 3 other girls daily

you can text with multiple guys din naman

[uls]

tingin ko hindi talaga first choice ng guy si he huang

mine-maintain lang niya si he huang while looking for ung type talaga niya

fallback si he huang

[_Cathy_]

ikaw

when you're texting with a new guy kalimutan mo mga luma diba

he french kissed her



haha

i wouldn't even attempt

don't underestimate

may asawa yan

he's experienced

marunong sa babae yan


si he huang consistent sa kanya but she has no other guy

the guy is consistent with her but there can also be other women

it doesn't take much work naman to text 2 or 3 other girls daily

you can text with multiple guys din naman

I LOLd at the french kiss. Mas weird sakin yung they massage each other at the back of the car, tapos he will lay his head on her lap. Also, normal ba yung lumilipat sa likod ng car? Dumaan din naman ako sa pagkabata/teenager, pero hindi namin ginagawa yun

Possible nga na multiple girls kasi puro texting lang, what's hard to keep up yung calls.

Also, I find the guy weird, I've dated "mature" men (40s when I was in my 30s/ 30s when I was in my 20s) and they think it's immature and disrespectful to do hanky panky in the car. Gawain daw ng teenager yun. Pero si Mr Annulment, he is close to 50 tapos lilipat pa sa back seat and stay there for hours??? Yung BGC police pa naman napaka strict at hindi pwede i bribe. Kahit walang ginagawa, ang pangit tignan.

tingin ko hindi talaga first choice ng guy si he huang

mine-maintain lang niya si he huang while looking for ung type talaga niya

fallback si he huang

Ever since I told he huang since the guy is married, keep on looking for other men, pero 3 (or 4) yrs na siya sa dating app, wala na siyang new matches.

[uls]

Mas weird sakin yung they massage each other at the back of the car, tapos he will lay his head on her lap. Also, normal ba yung lumilipat sa likod ng car? Dumaan din naman ako sa pagkabata/teenager, pero hindi namin ginagawa yun

Also, I find the guy weird, I've dated "mature" men (40s when I was in my 30s/ 30s when I was in my 20s) and they think it's immature and disrespectful to do hanky panky in the car. Gawain daw ng teenager yun. Pero si Mr Annulment, he is close to 50 tapos lilipat pa sa back seat and stay there for hours??? Yung BGC police pa naman napaka strict at hindi pwede i bribe. Kahit walang ginagawa, ang pangit tignan.

what's weird is pumapayag si he huang sa ganyan "date"

she has no standards

if a guy you met at bumble brought you to a parking lot maiinsulto ka eh

pero no problem kay he huang

beggars can't be choosers talaga

Ever since I told he huang since the guy is married, keep on looking for other men, pero 3 (or 4) yrs na siya sa dating app, wala na siyang new matches.

di talaga siya attractive

[_Cathy_]

what's weird is pumapayag si he huang sa ganyan "date"

she has no standards

if a guy you met at bumble brought you to a parking lot maiinsulto ka eh

pero no problem kay he huang

beggars can't be choosers talaga

Yes, on their first meet up, the guy already suggested that tambay sa parking ng condo niya and I had to tell her NOT to agree. But apparently that's how the subsequent meet ups went.

I definitely will NOT agree to a parking lot and will ghost the guy if he did that to me. The place has to be interesting and convenient for me. It doesn't have to be expensive (I'd go Pares Retiro) May guys sa Bumble, ako nahihiya kasi parang masyado mahal for a first meet up. I'd say it's too expensive pero they would counter it na hindi naman.

di talaga siya attractive

I have a feeling she thinks she is exponentially more attractive than me (and majority of women). She's too mind blown that I got more matches and that men are (using her words) "nahahaling". WTF.

Anyway, according to the golden ratio/beauty mask (which I told you about) she ranks low so I think you are right that she is somewhat delusional. Dapat sa age namin reality check na talaga [emoji23]

[_Cathy_]

I asked her if they've ever been on a proper date and she said it's always buy a drink at Starbucks then tambay sa car. But he always pays naman daw. Lol.

Super low maintenance ni He Huang talaga.

I asked her why they've never gone out for lunch or dinner and she said maybe schedule I said kung gusto may paraan.

BUT I have PLATONIC guy friends naman na we have lunch or dinner sa labas, some married, with GF or single. Bakit si He Huang parang ayaw ng guy to be out with her?

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[_Cathy_]

WOW She still wants to meet him.

*FACEPALM*

Mali ba ko? If I were her I wouldn't meet him anymore.

Gayahin daw niya style ko with guys e hindi naman siya makapag pigil. She makes herself too available.

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[Little Missy]

Anyway, according to the golden ratio/beauty mask (which I told you about) she ranks low so I think you are right that she is somewhat delusional. Dapat sa age namin reality check na talaga [emoji23]

Ang problem nga daw nating nga babae, we are not delusional enough. We don't see our worth, we don't ask for more. Kasi if we elevate our self image, hindi natin tatanggapin yung disrespect and yung low effort.

Pero yung low self esteem wala daw sa edad or sa beauty. Meron mga model levels na mababa ang self worth. Meron naman daw average lang pero ang taas ng self worth that they don't tolerate disrespect.

I think your friend falls dun sa category na low self worth.

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