How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[uls]

Kwento ko lang uli yung face palm ko on their last meet up na the guy was telling her about his childhood and how his father treated him poorly. She cried then gave him a hug. I said NO NO NO. Why would she cry for him and initiate a hug. The guy wasn't even crying at his own story I thought she said mas gusto siya than mas gusto niya yun guy, but her actions contradict her words.

hahaha

pwede sana ung pabiro na "oh you poor guy lemme give you a hug... ayan ok ka na??"

kung ganun baka matuwa pa ung guy

pero umiyak siya???

wtf ang OA

Hindi kaya na OA yun guy kaya he ghosted her?

pwede

[uls]

cathy ang weird ng friend mo

[_Cathy_]

cathy ang weird ng friend mo

I still can't get over the crying for him part until now.

Gusto pa nga kitain ulit when he resurfaces para matanong na daw niya lahat. WTF. Have some dignity

Honestly, I can't imagine going through what that guy did to her. They've been chatting daily and meeting up consistently for a year and then he suddenly disappears, no argument or conflict. I'd probably suffer a nervous breakdown if a guy did that to me.

[_Cathy_]

The guy messaged just now. What should she do?

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[uls]

Honestly, I can't imagine going through what that guy did to her. They've been chatting daily and meeting up consistently for a year and then he suddenly disappears, no argument or conflict. I'd probably suffer a nervous breakdown if a guy did that to me.

sabi ko nga kahit walang label "relationship" nila parang siya may jowa

ung pag ghost sa kanya... the effect is equivalent to a breakup

Gusto pa nga kitain ulit when he resurfaces para matanong na daw niya lahat.

diba ang boyfriend pag naglaho... ang babae di maka move on... naghahanap ng closure

[uls]

The guy messaged just now. What should she do?

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jump for joy

haha

[_Cathy_]

sabi ko nga kahit walang label "relationship" nila parang siya may jowa

ung pag ghost sa kanya... the effect is equivalent to a breakup

diba ang boyfriend pag naglaho... ang babae di maka move on... naghahanap ng closure

Siguro ma pride ako kasi if that guy did that to me, I'm out na kasi I don't get much din naman

Imagine, one year back seat action/massaging each other and still the guy refuses to define what they are. Then in one of their conversations na she wants a child AYAW ng guy maging "DONOR" the natural way dahil friends sila. Parang ilang beses na nasampal pagkatao niya. No I love yous exchanged between them, dinner, or dates or any other effort.

Anyway, gayahin daw niya ko. I mentioned to her kasi na if a guy goes silent on me and messages again, I don't reply agad until he messages repeatedly OR gives me a good explanation on why he went silent. Ewan ko kung mag effect sa kanya

After everything, she still wants him in her life Naawa daw kasi siya sa past nung guy (just like how naawa siya sa past ko wtf) hahaha

[_Cathy_]

My friend got mad at me when I told her it's disrespectful to hang out at the backseat of the guy's car. She feels respected naman daw

Tapos napunta na sa because I get all the good guys. Wtf.

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[uls]

My friend got mad at me when I told her it's disrespectful to hang out at the backseat of the guy's car. She feels respected naman daw

baka di niya alam what's "disrespectful" sa context na yan

baka pagkaintindi niya basta di siya hinarass, she wasn't disrespected

di niya gets ung a guy who respects her would take her out to dinner or at least have coffee inside a coffee shop

hindi ung nagtatago sa kotse

she can't seem to read signals or interpret actions

the guy prefers they hide in the car and she doesn't wonder why (she doesn't get suspicious like "bakit parang ayaw mo may makakita sa atin")

or why the guy spends so little on her ("you ask me out and you only buy me coconut water? don't i deserve more than that?)

she has no idea she's already being disrespected

your explaining isn't getting thru to her

[uls]

cathy magkaiba kasi experiences niyo

ikaw you've been dating since your teens

meron ka experiences that you use as basis for comparison

like you went out with a guy who opened the car door for you, brought you to a nice resto, was a perfect gentleman throughout the date

you use that as a standard to compare other men you date

you know princess treatment from non-princess treatment

pero si he huang walang ganyan

she has no dating experience

she has no standard which she can use as basis for comparison

di niya alam she's already being treated poorly by a guy

pag may makadate siya dalhin siya sa wolfgang

di siya papayag uli sa car back seat date ni annulment guy