Do you believe in second chances?

[uls]

Ang hirap pala ng ganito, winning his heart again. Ayoko nga ng nare reject kaya nauuna ako parati mag end ng relationship when I feel like it's "declining"

Siguro dapat mind set ko na lang yung maging good friends kami?

I just don't get why he sometimes ignores my message. It really hurts So everytime he doesn't reply, it's getting stabbed in the heart over and over
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March 11, 2020

if you want him dapat mo tiisin ung all business treatment niya sayo

not only that, kailangan mo siya suyuin

so now it's a question of perserverance

gaano katagal mo kaya tiisin ung cold treatment niya sayo at gaano katagal mo kaya suyuin before your pride kicks in

[uls]

He calls me once a day, masaya naman kwento namin, kanina nga na kwento ko si kags sa kanya. Hehe. But he always reminds me on my "homework", the info that he needs to help me.

Inisip ko nga, pano kung tapos na niya ko tulungan, will he disappear na?

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madali lang yan... i-prolong mo hehe

[uls]

coital explosion?

[_Cathy_]

March 11, 2020

Thanks for reminding me. Wala pang 2 weeks nahihirapan na ko. I'm not used to this talaga

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[travajante]

Thanks for reminding me. Wala pang 2 weeks nahihirapan na ko. I'm not used to this talaga

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Pride could likely have been derived from 'pure id'.[emoji16].....Seldom makes victors...Losers, plenty. Show him selfless....that's the kind to easily root for.

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[_Cathy_]

Pride could likely have been derived from 'pure id'.[emoji16].....Seldom makes victors...Losers, plenty. Show him selfless....that's the kind to easily root for.

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Thanks for the motivation. I'm glad I have people here to remind me of my goals I wish he gives me a chance to show my love

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[_Cathy_]

madali lang yan... i-prolong mo hehe

oh i prolong ko yung documents? Medyo ipit nga ko kasi tinatanong na ko ng pinsan ko kung ano ng nangyari. But yeah, kahit magka gulo na kami sa pamilya, I just need to spend more time with him

[thenightcrawler]

oh i prolong ko yung documents? Medyo ipit nga ko kasi tinatanong na ko ng pinsan ko kung ano ng nangyari. But yeah, kahit magka gulo na kami sa pamilya, I just need to spend more time with him

Hahaha wow, It's been a long time na nakipagkulitan dito and ngayon may ganito na pala developments! I'm sure sobrang liberating ang feeling when you decided to finally reach out!

Ms. Cathy, your desires didn't bring you anywhere before.. You have to take actions na this time.. Determination and persistence are the game changer siguro.

Go a little bit faster na.. I mean express something na he won't treat this as just for-the-sake-may-nipagsamahan kind of action.. If you know what I mean. Parang baka he's only being polite lang giving you attention. Kaya Umamin ka na! Haha


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[_Cathy_]

Hahaha wow, It's been a long time na nakipagkulitan dito and ngayon may ganito na pala developments! I'm sure sobrang liberating ang feeling when you decided to finally reach out!

Ms. Cathy, your desires didn't bring you anywhere before.. You have to take actions na this time.. Determination and persistence are the game changer siguro.

Go a little bit faster na.. I mean express something na he won't treat this as just for-the-sake-may-nipagsamahan kind of action.. If you know what I mean. Parang baka he's only being polite lang giving you attention. Kaya Umamin ka na! Haha


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Thank you! Nakaka inlove talaga siya kasi after I ended things abruptly (which caught him off guard) and I disappeared for 3 yrs, he still talked to me when I asked for his help May issue kasi kami sa family, as in telenovela level, and since crush is well connected and he has always been my knight in shining armour, I gave it a try. Buti talaga he was willing to help me.

He knows very much that I am still in love with him but he is still keeping things friendly. Dati nga all business, buti now may kwentuhan na. Hindi nga ako sanay when he calls me by my name, because we always called each other by out term of endearment. Saka yun nga, he calls me once a day, sometimes wala. That's a far cry from our addicted to each other relationship na tulog lang talaga kami hindi magkausap.

[travajante]

Hahaha wow, It's been a long time na nakipagkulitan dito and ngayon may ganito na pala developments! I'm sure sobrang liberating ang feeling when you decided to finally reach out!

Ms. Cathy, your desires didn't bring you anywhere before.. You have to take actions na this time.. Determination and persistence are the game changer siguro.

Go a little bit faster na.. I mean express something na he won't treat this as just for-the-sake-may-nipagsamahan kind of action.. If you know what I mean. Parang baka he's only being polite lang giving you attention. Kaya Umamin ka na! Haha


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Instead of spilling upon us, helpless viewers, pour it on him. Saving something in adherence to a perceived virtue no longer valued in this gen & culture is like me refusing CVT here....a rarity & anomaly. Sadly, it isn't like wine & time. The end is near....Land that Crush now....or shall we all anticipate a twist set in Bohol?[emoji4][emoji120]

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[_Cathy_]

Instead of spilling upon us, helpless viewers, pour it on him. Saving something in adherence to a perceived virtue no longer valued in this gen & culture is like me refusing CVT here....a rarity & anomaly. Sadly, it isn't like wine & time. The end is near....Land that Crush now....or shall we all anticipate a twist set in Bohol?[emoji4][emoji120]

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He knows that I am still in love with him. Is my interpretation correct that I shouldn't be saving myself for marriage anymore because it is antiquated and I am getting old so my window is near the end. And women do not get better with time because we lose our beauty?

Yes my goal is crush talaga and I do want him to be my first and last. I am only for him and I hope he values that.

[travajante]

He knows that I am still in love with him. Is my interpretation correct that I shouldn't be saving myself for marriage anymore because it is antiquated and I am getting old so my window is near the end. And women do not get better with time because we lose our beauty?

Yes my goal is crush talaga and I do want him to be my first and last. I am only for him and I hope he values that.

Too much holding back won't get you that catch. If you're into sadomasochism, then, you'll be understood better.
I really hope this epic ends a fairy tale.....There's a king & castle in Bohol waiting.[emoji4]

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[_Cathy_]

Too much holding back won't get you that catch. If you're into sadomasochism, then, you'll be understood better.
I really hope this epic ends a fairy tale.....There's a king & castle in Bohol waiting.[emoji4]

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What am I holding back? I don't wanna be too aggressive because I don't wanna scare him off. We only started talking again 2 weeks ago. If I had my way, I would ravage him and "abuse" his s3xy body LOL! But of course I cannot do that

My fairy tale is crush and NOBODY else. SO nga na I have known for almost 20 yrs, I left him for crush. Do you really think I would fall for an internet stranger. It's not gonna happen

[travajante]

What am I holding back? I don't wanna be too aggressive because I don't wanna scare him off. We only started talking again 2 weeks ago. If I had my way, I would ravage him and "abuse" his s3xy body LOL! But of course I cannot do that

My fairy tale is crush and NOBODY else. SO nga na I have known for almost 20 yrs, I left him for crush. Do you really think I would fall for an internet stranger. It's not gonna happen

Typically, men don't go bush beating. Your narration paints him passive & it's not from some old grudge, take it from me. You may be fanning the dead flame when what you should be doing is igniting it back. Pour some petrol.[emoji4]

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[dr. d]

He knows that I am still in love with him. .

that's a problem.
some single men don't know what to do, when they know the single woman is in love with them.

[_Cathy_]

Typically, men don't go bush beating. Your narration paints him passive & it's not from some old grudge, take it from me. You may be fanning the dead flame when what you should be doing is igniting it back. Pour some petrol.[emoji4]

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ah, so like shadow, you think he is not interested in anything romantic with me anymore?

Oh well... How do you suggest I ignite it then?

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that's a problem.
some single men don't know what to do, when they know the single woman is in love with them.

I don't get it doc?

[dr. d]

I don't get it doc?

some men want to do the chasing.
they have no idea on what to do or how to act, when they are the ones being chased. many are uncomfortable, when they know the girl is in love with them.
at least, the decent men.

[travajante]

ah, so like shadow, you think he is not interested in anything romantic with me anymore?

Oh well... How do you suggest I ignite it then?

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I'm just a reader of the book you authored. Find ways to prove the proven Newton's 3rd law your way. Focus on grabbing you & him some quality time. Pouring on this forum may just be time wasted.

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[_Cathy_]

some men want to do the chasing.
they have no idea on what to do or how to act, when they are the ones being chased. many are uncomfortable, when they know the girl is in love with them.
at least, the decent men.

Which is why I don't want to be aggressive and scare him away. I do believe that it NEVER works if a woman pursues a man kaya this is new for me. Sa sobrang pride ko nga 3 years akong miserable, even if I was madly in love with him I did not reach out.

I don't call him naman, he is the one who calls me. If it were up to me, I would call him several times a day. Kaya when I go text him and he does not reply, it hurts talaga. So maybe I should just stop messaging him, just let him initiate everything

I'm just a reader of the book you authored. Find ways to prove the proven Newton's 3rd law your way. Focus on grabbing you & him some quality time. Pouring on this forum may just be time wasted.

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I don't think it's a waste because it's the people here who gave me the push to contact him and I am glad I did because at least now we are talking

[dr. d]

Which is why I don't want to be aggressive and scare him away. I do believe that it NEVER works if a woman pursues a man

we have an old term for that.
"mission."
is this term still in use nowadays?