Do you believe in second chances?

[chronicle]

Hindi ko gawain manligaw ng lalaki. Kapag pala nakipag rekindle ng friendship ang babae panliligaw na.

What a very chauvinistic point of view.

Nakakatawa din mga lalaki, pag babae naghihintay lang sasabihin feeling/choosy, pag naman gumawa ng effort nanliligaw.

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So friends lang talaga.

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[dr. d]

an old story,
girltalk.
"so, did you encourage him?"
"of course not! i ran away! but... slowly only, so's he can comfortably give chase."
heh heh.

[CVT]

is he still available, or is he looking for adventure?
is his physical outlook acceptable to you?
green archer... are you sure?
heh heh.
good luck.

Ikaw naman doc,- e GA din si Cathy....

[dr. d]

Ikaw naman doc,- e GA din si Cathy....

genuine atenean...

[_Cathy_]

How do you know when it's time to let go of the idea that the two of you can get back together again?

I reconnected with him last week after not speaking for 3 yrs. I was over the moon, but with him I can really sense the distance. Kulang na lang mag yelo. I appreciate that he helped me out when I asked him to, but he is probably just too kind at naawa sakin.

Should I give him more time? What do I do to win him back? I normally don't do that kasi naniniwala ako na kapag ang lalaki umayaw na there is no winning back. I have this sinking feeling that when my issue with my family is over, we might lose touch again.

[akosijhay]

How do you know when it's time to let go of the idea that the two of you can get back together again?

I reconnected with him last week after not speaking for 3 yrs. I was over the moon, but with him I can really sense the distance. Kulang na lang mag yelo. I appreciate that he helped me out when I asked him to, but he is probably just too kind at naawa sakin.

Should I give him more time? What do I do to win him back? I normally don't do that kasi naniniwala ako na kapag ang lalaki umayaw na there is no winning back. I have this sinking feeling that when my issue with my family is over, we might lose touch again.

Sa totoo lang, kung gusto ka talaga ng guy sya ang mag i-initiate ng move to show you na gusto ka nya. Medyo na weirdohan lang ako bakit ikaw ung kailangan mag adjust dun sa guy crush mo hehe.

[_Cathy_]

Sabi friend ko ako may atraso kaya ako mag effort. Pero what if ayaw na niya talaga

I am so close to giving up on life, problema sa family, work, health, finances and the only man I love, doesn't even wanna talk or see me.







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[_Cathy_]

My friend said baka may wife or new gf na kaya cold!!! I never asked it but that's the most logical reason why even if I am trying to have a personal conversation iniiwas niya.

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[akosijhay]

Sabi friend ko ako may atraso kaya ako mag effort. Pero what if ayaw na niya talaga

I am so close to giving up on life, problema sa family, work, health, finances and the only man I love, doesn't even wanna talk or see me.


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Hmm depende kasi sa guy yun. For example ako once na nareject ng isang beses, hindi ko na tinatry na suyuin ung girl since ang mindset ko is "mau-ulit lang ng mau-ulit ung rejection = paulit ulit lang ung sakit". So kung makikipag communicate ung girl sakin after ilang weeks or months, wala na ung "excitement" na nafeel ko before rejection. Ending, wala ring chance.

Then share ko etong colleague ko naman, straight 4 years niligawan nya ung current girlfriend nya at kahit ilang beses sya na reject, hindi sya sumuko. Ending? Ayun ikakasal na sila this year.

Hindi ko alam ung whole story nyo ni crush mo, pero sa 3 years possible na madami na syang na meet na ibang girls.

Ung ginagawa nya sayo na favor ngayon, possible din na may agenda yun since alam nya na may gusto ka parin sa kanya. Possible na gusto nya sabihin sayo na "ako ung sinayang mo dati".

[_Cathy_]

Hmm depende kasi sa guy yun. For example ako once na nareject ng isang beses, hindi ko na tinatry na suyuin ung girl since ang mindset ko is "mau-ulit lang ng mau-ulit ung rejection = paulit ulit lang ung sakit". So kung makikipag communicate ung girl sakin after ilang weeks or months, wala na ung "excitement" na nafeel ko before rejection. Ending, wala ring chance.

Then share ko etong colleague ko naman, straight 4 years niligawan nya ung current girlfriend nya at kahit ilang beses sya na reject, hindi sya sumuko. Ending? Ayun ikakasal na sila this year.

Hindi ko alam ung whole story nyo ni crush mo, pero sa 3 years possible na madami na syang na meet na ibang girls.

Ung ginagawa nya sayo na favor ngayon, possible din na may agenda yun since alam nya na may gusto ka parin sa kanya. Possible na gusto nya sabihin sayo na "ako ung sinayang mo dati".

He called me today Omg, he is driving me crazy with this emotional rollercoaster. But one thing is for certain, I am so so happy when he calls me. Medyo clingy nga because he had to go already and I did not want to put down the phone

Yes I am sure a lot of women are after him, he is so good looking and successful that he can easily get 20 somethings but he is suplado and picky (which is why I felt like a winner when he liked me back)

He does not need to do anything to let me know na malaki ang sinayang ko. I made him laugh kanina and that was the best feeling! I missed hearing him laugh, ang cute cute niya. Everything he does, nakaka inlove. I really hate myself for hurting him

Anong payo mo? As a guy, ano pwede gawin ng girl to make you happy?