Dating Apps (Tinder, Bumble, Badoo etc)

[_Cathy_]

my thoughts,

he probably thinks he ain't worth zilch. so he's telling you how great his relatives are;
or, he's fishing for victims for whatever he thinks he can get from them.

He did grow up comfortable because he is Ateneo since grade school and he showed me photos of their house in the 80s and they had a pool (which was a status symbol back then unlike now). He is the "failure to launch" among his siblings because he did not finish college pero weird din kasi he keeps on dropping names and I asked him why not use the connection to get him a good job but he said his Dad was retired na then so wala na kapit (I understand ganyan talaga sa govt)

He reminds me of ex SO except the parents of ex SO maintained their status and funded the lifestyle of ex SO. Also, WALANG YABANG si ex SO, nagugulat na lang ako sa connections nila.

Si Mr Hurricane claims to be the victim kasi pinerahan siya ng mga ex niya from a "good family" Used his card daw for purchases e I asked why his ex doesn't have her own card. Si LA friend ko nga nalaman ko lang recently na his Mom paid his card balance from 2 banks totaling almost P1M So if his exes are rich, why can't the parents pay it?

He says he really really likes me, so if he is looking for a victim, bakit sa jobless I don't give him specifics about myself. Ang alam lang niya sa specific yung school ko but he doesn't know exactly where I live or worked. He knows I am Basque blood kasi he asked ano halo ko. Pero he likes na I know his references (film, music, places, people)

he's using his family background, people he knows, and his exes to impress her

yes baka siya mismo there's nothing much to brag about but he can brag about his family and connections and the quality of his exes

to signal his status

Nothing to brag nga siya. Yung ex niya na banggit siya ng banggit ng surname, naasar na ko kaya I said baka poor side HAHAHA. Hindi pa rin na offend. I swear I treat him like crap and he keeps calling pa rin.

[uls]

Si Mr Hurricane claims to be the victim kasi pinerahan siya ng mga ex niya from a "good family" Used his card daw for purchases

magsyota palang he let the gf use his card

that's how he keeps the girl interested?

sugar daddy sugar baby relationship

that's sad kung maliit lang age gap nila

[uls]

Nothing to brag nga siya. Yung ex niya na banggit siya ng banggit ng surname, naasar na ko kaya I said baka poor side HAHAHA. Hindi pa rin na offend. I swear I treat him like crap and he keeps calling pa rin.

he keeps talking about his ex, dropping her surname to signal na pinatulan siya ng "quality" na babae

usually kasi women become curious about men who had high value exes

"there must be something about the guy that those women like"

so gusto din nila subukan

akala niya uubra sayo

[_Cathy_]

magsyota palang he let the gf use his card

that's how he keeps the girl interested?

sugar daddy sugar baby relationship

that's sad kung maliit lang age gap nila

hindi naman malayo yung age gap, kami ang malayo age gap kasi more than 10 yrs.

Pero minsan I feel bad kasi binabara ko siya and treat him badly e he is so much older than me, dapat respect the elders haha

[shadow]

Hinde pa marunong magbilang, no wonder hinde naka graduate. 4 houses daw eh 3 lang yun 1 sanlo, 2 Belair

Saka I still maintain na pang loser mga dating apps.


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[dr. d]

ano ba ang success rate sa dating apps

i think the younger ones use it for its innocent intended use, that is, to find others who have similar interests as them.
others, however, (the considerably older 'vultures'?), use it as their hunting ground for their next victim.

[_Cathy_]

he keeps talking about his ex, dropping her surname to signal na pinatulan siya ng "quality" na babae

usually kasi women become curious about men who had high value exes

"there must be something about the guy that those women like"

so gusto din nila subukan

akala niya uubra sayo

hindi talaga umubra, na irita pa ko. I don't care about the specs of his ex that he keeps bragging about Saka sa body language sa photos, he does seem proud of her.

I flat out told him Ex's surname nga wala naman pera LOL

[uls]

hindi naman malayo yung age gap, kami ang malayo age gap kasi more than 10 yrs.

Pero minsan I feel bad kasi binabara ko siya and treat him badly e he is so much older than me, dapat respect the elders haha

it's understandable kung malaki ang age gap

like middle ager ung guy tapos 20+ ang girl

in a relationship like that the guy has to use money to keep the girl interested

di naman siya nagustuhan dahil gwapo

nagustuhan siya coz he gives her financial security

for me may mali pag halos pareho ang edad tapos kailangan pa gumamit ng pera ang lalake para mag stay ung babae

the girl should be thankful meron lalake halos kasing edad niya pumatol sa kanya

ate ikaw dapat nag aalaga dun sa lalake

[uls]

Saka sa body language sa photos, he does seem proud of her.

sounds like that's the best girl he ever had in his life

that's why he keeps talking about her

kaya pala ginastusan pa niya

it seems the girl has higher market value than him (she has more options than him)

so extra effort siya to keep her but he lost her parin

[_Cathy_]

ano ba ang success rate sa dating apps

like ilan percentage umaabot sa kasal

bet it's really low kasi dami hurdles yan eh

first you gotta match, then you gotta message each other enough to become interested in meeting up

then kung type niyo ang isa't isa you gotta become exclusive to each other

then the relationship should progress to wanting to marry each other

ang problema sa dating apps di mo maalis sa isip mo there are many potential mates

so if you're having a relationship with someone you met sa app, di mo masyado i-value

konting away bye

di mag effort aayusin kasi madami naman iba

I think sa younger gen maganda ang pool ng bumble pero si He Huang kaya asang asa sa Bumble kasi may mga friends kami na nagkakilala sa dating app and ended up in marriage. Meron din nakahanap ng BF/GF there.

Sa tingin ko kung normal ako na tao I might have found someone there na rin, I had matches na matino naman. These are guys I have people in common with.

Hinde pa marunong magbilang, no wonder hinde naka graduate. 4 houses daw eh 3 lang yun 1 sanlo, 2 Belair

Saka I still maintain na pang loser mga dating apps.

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That's also my impression na puro "latak" ang nasa dating app BUT I was shocked when I saw TWO of my most eligible barkadas (no baggage) there. Kaya nga hindi rin ako nagtagal because I do not want them to see me there. And I really was there lang because of He Huang. Ang nakakatawa puro kami KASINUNGALINGAN sa Bumble hahahaha!!!! Sa smoking nakalagay never e kami kami magkakasama EVERYDAY smoking. LOL. There's a big chance they saw me too pero sa GC namin NOBODY ever mentions it hahaha!

I think meron 5 to 10% na eligible pero NEVER nagtatagal sa Bumble, pansin ko, silip lang talaga na curious or once they find a match delete agad. Nakita ko nga dun yung isang crush ko, I swiped him but he didn't swipe me Nalaman ko na lang may GF na pero ewan ko if they met sa Bumble.

i think the younger ones use it for its innocent intended use, that is, to find others who have similar interests as them.
others, however, (the considerably older 'vultures'?), use it as their hunting ground for their next victim.

yes doc, I think jut mentioned it before na sa generation niya normal ang datings apps not unlike sa generation ko na as shadow says e loser ang impression pag nasa dating app

[uls]

sa limited info ni cathy, mr hurricane doesn't seem to be attractive even with the konyo background

he struggles to find and maintain a relationship

[_Cathy_]

it's understandable kung malaki ang age gap

like middle ager ung guy tapos 20+ ang girl

in a relationship like that the guy has to use money to keep the girl interested

di naman siya nagustuhan dahil gwapo

nagustuhan siya coz he gives her financial security

for me may mali pag halos pareho ang edad tapos kailangan pa gumamit ng pera ang lalake para mag stay ung babae

the girl should be thankful meron lalake halos kasing edad niya pumatol sa kanya

ate ikaw dapat nag aalaga dun sa lalake

hindi ako feminist but that is such a misogynist statement

Are you saying na kahit loser ang lalaki, basta matanda na yung babae e she still has lesser value? I have to disagree kasi I always hang out with older people (my Titos and Titas) and there are some na nakakapag asawa pa ng ka age nila na hindi naman loser (usually exes nila na biyudo na rin) Meron pa din mga "abangers" hahaha

[_Cathy_]

sounds like that's the best girl he ever had in his life

that's why he keeps talking about her

kaya pala ginastusan pa niya

it seems the girl has higher market value than him (she has more options than him)

so extra effort siya to keep her but he lost her parin

tisay na malaman (not fat), mukha naman may class, typical na always wearing white and neat hair.

sa limited info ni cathy, mr hurricane doesn't seem to be attractive even with the konyo background

he struggles to find and maintain a relationship

because he's a failure to launch but he doesn't like women na "jologs" The girl has to come from a good background and well spoken. He is so critical with the way a girl talks kaya he himself "rejects" women from dating apps na "jologs" magsalita.

[uls]

hindi ako feminist but that is such a misogynist statement

Are you saying na kahit loser ang lalaki, basta matanda na yung babae e she still has lesser value? I have to disagree kasi I always hang out with older people (my Titos and Titas) and there are some na nakakapag asawa pa ng ka age nila na hindi naman loser (usually exes nila na biyudo na rin) Meron pa din mga "abangers" hahaha

in the context na peperahan ng babae ang middle ager na lalake

dapat kumuha ung lalake ng mas bata

total pera pera lang pumili nalang siya ng mas bata

ang loser naman ng lalake peperahan siya ng babae kasing edad niya

[_Cathy_]

in the context na peperahan ng babae ang middle ager na lalake

dapat kumuha ung lalake ng mas bata

total pera pera lang pumili nalang siya ng mas bata

ang loser naman ng lalake peperahan siya ng babae kasing edad niya

seems like nasi silaw siya sa specs ng babae, mas yun ang attraction niya than youth. Proud na proud sa background nung girl e hahaha. Saka I noticed nga sa matches niya usually ang panglalait niya pag hindi maganda specs ng girl, e maliit lang percentange ng top school sa bumble, at least sa age namin.

[uls]

because he's a failure to launch but he doesn't like women na "jologs" The girl has to come from a good background and well spoken. He is so critical with the way a girl talks kaya he himself "rejects" women from dating apps na "jologs" magsalita.

kaya pala pag may nahanap siya type niya katakot takot na pagpapa-impress ang ginagawa niya

which is kinda lame coz one can always use personality / sense of humor to make a girl interested

hindi ung bagong kilala mo palang ikwento mo lahat ng family background mo, mga kilala mo malaking tao, pati mga ex mo

pag interesado sayo ang babae she will learn all those things naman in time

when you're getting to know each other

[uls]

ang weird kasi bagong kilala mo palang ung girl ikwento mo lahat ng tungkol sa sarili mo, pamilya mo, ex mo... di naman nagtatanong ung babae

[uls]

seems like nasi silaw siya sa specs ng babae, mas yun ang attraction niya than youth. Proud na proud sa background nung girl e hahaha. Saka I noticed nga sa matches niya usually ang panglalait niya pag hindi maganda specs ng girl, e maliit lang percentange ng top school sa bumble, at least sa age namin.

if he struggles so hard to keep a good spec girl interested then hindi talaga siya meant to be with a good spec girl

there are men who get good spec girls with little effort

or good spec girls tend to gravitate towards certain men

if they don't gravitate towards mr hurricane, and mr hurricane needs to go on a dating app to find one

and he needs to fight an uphill battle to keep a good spec girl interested, di para sa kanya yun

[_Cathy_]

kaya pala pag may nahanap siya type niya katakot takot na pagpapa-impress ang ginagawa niya

which is kinda lame coz one can always use personality and humor to make a girl interested

hindi ung bagong kilala mo palang ikwento mo lahat ng family background mo, mga kilala mo malaking tao, pati mga ex mo

pag interesado sayo ang babae she will learn all those things naman in time

when you're getting to know each other

that's true. Mas gusto ko yung over time may nadi discover ako na impressive about a guy.

Si Mr Hurricane pati mga relo niya sinabi na sakin lahat, like I care?

ang weird kasi bagong kilala mo palang ung girl ikwento mo lahat ng tungkol sa sarili mo, pamilya mo, ex mo... di naman nagtatanong ung babae

Yup and I don't tell him sh1t about me. No specifics. He doesn't even know my name LOL!

if he struggles so hard to keep a good spec girl interested then hindi talaga siya meant to be with a good spec girl

there are men who get good spec girls with little effort

or good spec girls tend to gravitate towards certain men

if they don't gravitate towards mr hurricane, and mr hurricane needs to go on a dating app to find one

and he needs to fight an uphill battle to keep a good spec girl interested, di para sa kanya yun

Parang si ex SO, almost all the women he got involved with are from AC pero he doesn't seek them out. I always tease him nga he looks down on Assumptionistas pero puro taga AC mga babae niya LOL!!!

sorta like He Huang wanting an Atenean or Lasallite, she always asks me why she doesn't get to match with these guys tapos ako hihiritan ng sarcasm na "ganda mo" WTF.

[uls]

Parang si ex SO, almost all the women he got involved with are from AC pero he doesn't seek them out. I always tease him nga he looks down on Assumptionistas pero puro taga AC mga babae niya LOL!!!

yes tulad ni SO mo puro assumptionista ang dinedate

sa kwento mo pinuntahan pa siya ng babae when he needed emotional support when his dad was in the hospital

babae pa ang nag e-effort para magustuhan sila ni SO mo

si mr hurricane todo effort iniiwan pa

sorta like He Huang wanting an Atenean or Lasallite, she always asks me why she doesn't get to match with these guys

not for her talaga