bad parenting

[Retz]

minsan knug wala si esmi sa bahay, yaya ang nag babantay kay mister.

[Phoenix67]

Not necessarily, a lot of my classmates had yayas when we were kids. Their parents were pretty OK.

The thing is, if one can afford it, a yaya comes very handy. It happens all over the world.

I'm sorry but I never said "ALL" are like that.

We can afford to have a yaya for our kids, but we never did. Instead my wife is a full time mom...kasi both of us was brought up oldschool (no yayas) and we want it that way.

Hindi naman lahat ganun, pero mas mabibilang ko ang incidence ng kids raised by good yayas. Some times nagiging trial and error ang paghire ng magaling na yaya.

[lowslowbenz]

Sa ultra-rich, hindi uso ang yaya.

Governess ang kinukuha.

[vinj]

I'm sorry but I never said "ALL" are like that.

We can afford to have a yaya for our kids, but we never did. Instead my wife is a full time mom...kasi both of us was brought up oldschool (no yayas) and we want it that way.

Hindi naman lahat ganun, pero mas mabibilang ko ang incidence ng kids raised by good yayas. Some times nagiging trial and error ang paghire ng magaling na yaya.

If we could afford it, we would have preferred the wifey to be a full time mom as well... But for reasons of survival we both have to make kayod in the daily grind.

I also miss the yayas we had before. Loyal, like family, they work hard and they really had malasakit for their "employers". Hard to find those types nowadays.

Sa ultra-rich, hindi uso ang yaya.

Governess ang kinukuha.

Yung mga lokal na uber rich, yung daughters may "yaya" hanggang HS and college pa. When i was in college, i would see them riding in the car with manong driver when they fetch their ward at the driveway (usually in a 2.0L executive sedan or SUV).

[JohnM]

We need a yaya because "...for reasons of survival we both have to make kayod in the daily grind." Pero we draw the line at bringing yaya with us when we go out with the kids. Aside from mas mura dahil mas onti pakakainin sa resto it's our chance to bond with them. When they were babies my wife took over all of the baby duties when we're home. Si yaya assist lang.

[marktams86]

Aside from mas mura dahil mas onti pakakainin sa resto it's our chance to bond with them

haha... tama nga to...and extra exercise din dahil karga ko lagi daughter ko..

[CLAVEL3699]

Hindi naman lahat ganun, pero mas mabibilang ko ang incidence ng kids raised by good yayas. Some times nagiging trial and error ang paghire ng magaling na yaya.

hindi din guarantee na raised by nang ina ay nagiging mabait na nilalang pagtanda. Madami akong kilala na house wife na nga pero sobra kulit nang mga anak.

[CLAVEL3699]

yung anak ko inaantay ko sa kumon. yung ibang mga magulang nakikita na nilang nanggugulo na yung mga anak nila parang wala lang. pag pinagsabihan mo yung bata, ang sama ng tingin nung magulang. badtrip kaya naiispoil.

pare isip nila you dont have the right pagsabihan ang mga anak nila. Dyan ako madalas mapaaway before sa school nang anak ko. May bully na classmate ang anak ko. We teach our son na wag mananakit kaya ayaw gumanti kahit galit na galit na na mukhang hindi din maganda na turo namin.

Xmas party one time nakita kong sinikmuraan ang anak ko sa harap nang tatay nung bully nakita nya ginawa nang anak nya hindi man lang pinansin. Sabay lapit ako dun sa head teacher sa school at sinabi ko pinagsabihan yung bully at yung tatay pucha ngiti lang ang nakita ko.

Sabay lapit ako. Minura ko sabi ko Tang Ina mo yung anak mo hindi ko kayang galawin pero wag na wag ka lalabas dito sa school dahil titirahin kita Tang Ina mo.... Pinauwi ko kaagad yung anak ko sa yaya at driver.

Inabangann ko sa labas sakto dumating yung mga kaibigan ko na triycle driver nagsumbong pala yung driver ko. May resbak ako.

Takot na takot lumabas si Gago dumating yung asawa nakikiusap wag daw naman ganun. At nakiusap na din yung principal sabi ko dun sa principal ang problema sa inyo hindi nyo inaasikaso ang mga bully sa school nyo madami na nagrereklamo pero hindi kayo gumagawa nang action.

Next school year nilipat ko nang school ang anak ko.

[vinj]

We need a yaya because "...for reasons of survival we both have to make kayod in the daily grind." Pero we draw the line at bringing yaya with us when we go out with the kids.

Same here pards. Yaya is there mainly to watch the kid during the day, when we're at work and hatid-sundo sa school. At night, vacations, and on weekends, it's 90% mommy and daddy. So the balance is still there.

[Phoenix67]

hindi din guarantee na raised by nang ina ay nagiging mabait na nilalang pagtanda. Madami akong kilala na house wife na nga pero sobra kulit nang mga anak.

Those have "no mothering ability" kung baboy pa yun, ibinenta ko na yan na culled sows.