bad parenting

[CLAVEL3699]

this got me really worried. my daughter doesn't want to leave her yaya's side no matter what we do. parang nakaktampo nga eh, kasi you look forward to playing with her tapos yaya pa rin nang yaya.. .

lambing lang ako gusto nyan brod with kasamang yakap at halik... kilitiin mo sasama syo yun.

Pareho naman tayo... yaya ang madalas kasama nang anak ko kasi nasa office kami mag asawa buong umaga at maghapo pero I make it a point na tatawagan ko sya pagdating nya sa house sa kanyang cellphone.

And I always say to my son... mas mahirap sa akin lalaki syo mas madali babae na daddy always love you sabay halik sa lips pa... pag wala ako sa pinas nang matagal I always make tawag sa kanya before he go to sleep.

lambing lang brod at a lot of physical affection sa mga anak.

[jick.cejoco]

Madalas kasi they think that raising kids is a burden kaya laging yaya ang solution.

to those people, i say, if you can't raise children properly, don't have kids. even crocodiles take care of their young,

[Retz]

^

Good point sir. Iba pa rin pag ikaw mismo ang nagaalaga sa bata. Yaya is just an option.

[andywesteast]

Madalas kasi they think that raising kids is a burden kaya laging yaya ang solution.

Not necessarily, a lot of my classmates had yayas when we were kids. Their parents were pretty OK.

The thing is, if one can afford it, a yaya comes very handy. It happens all over the world.

[Retz]

dito sa pinas we have the luxury to have yaya's unlike sa ibang bansa.

[jick.cejoco]

that's the problem, the yaya becomes the parent and the mom becomes a stranger. then the mom even brags about their kids being spoiled. some moms brag about their kids not being able to do their own personal chores. if the yaya can do the breathing for the kid, maybe the mom would want that too

[Retz]

^

kung full time housewife pwede wala na yaya paano kug working mom? lalo na baby pa.

[jansky]

time managament lang naman kailangan wag i-asa lahat sa yaya..

ung mga kids na laging nakadikit sa yaya.. may fault dyan ung parents.. pag uwi sa bahay nde na inaasikaso kids nila.. its either late na umuwi or paguwi tulog na mga bata.. tapos maagang aalis

pagdating naman ng weekends instead na ibigay ung oras sa kids, ipinapahinga na lang

ung ibang relatives namin na full time mom eh ung ugali ng mga anak nila mga bastos.. di ko maisip kung paano nila pinalaki kids nila

[holdencaulfield]

i was on my way home one time, i saw this lady with this kid. Biglang nadulas/natisod yung kid, napasigaw yung babae "put_ng ina mo! put_ng ina mo!"

Napaisip ako: if the lady was the kid's mother....:D

gawi na ng matatanda yan. pag napaano yung bata pinagagalitan.

[holdencaulfield]

yung anak ko inaantay ko sa kumon. yung ibang mga magulang nakikita na nilang nanggugulo na yung mga anak nila parang wala lang. pag pinagsabihan mo yung bata, ang sama ng tingin nung magulang. badtrip kaya naiispoil.