Thanks everyone! great information.
I figure i'll save some money by detailing the car myself and be better satisfied.
I remember reading about someone who had a bunch of towels sewed together and put that over his car before putting a car cover..i was thinking of doing that as well.
This month I'll go out and start searching for some products.
For drying i'm looking into using a big MF towel to dry the car instead of a chamois.
Also looking into getting the Megs clay kit, the deep crystal polish, and deep crystal carnauba wax or collinite if i can find the cash

as for removing light swirl marks,
Umi, i might try the products you mentioned.
anything that i might be missing? or suggestions