How Do You Deal With Your Child's Yaya In Restaurants?

**falken** · August 22nd, 2014 11:18 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

So how does it work when you have to eat in a fancy restaurant and you're not paying? (treat of a friend or relative)?

Do you still ask the yaya to join the table or have the yaya sit at another table?

I let them eat at another place first before proceeding to the fancy restaurant. Usually the kids won't stay long at the table, they'll get bored and play with the other kids.

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**_Cathy_** · August 22nd, 2014 11:31 AM

Originally Posted by _Qwerty_

the one treating will know that the yaya is included.. so same table lang dapat.. yun ang opinyon ko..

another approach is to tell the one treating discretely na kasama mo yaya mo coz etc etc.. or text beforehand na kasama mo si yaya kasi.. etc etc..

pero the right way to do kung kakain sa fancy resto at may mag treat eh iwan ang anak sa bahay pati si yaya..

We do know someone who always brings her yaya along so when we invite her we always include the yaya in the headcount. It's sort of imposing on the host an additional headcount (ala nga naman sabihin ng host wag isama yung yaya). But the bigger issue is making the other guests uncomfortable to have a stranger along at the table. It's not because it's the yaya but any other person that is not in the circle. Now the other guests have to make an effort to not make the yaya feel uncomfortable (make conversation, filter the stories) eg It's just like having an all college barkada gathering and suddenly one person tags along his or her officemate.

**Yuki13** · August 22nd, 2014 11:33 AM

our yaya sits with us and eats whatever we eat when we dine out. we rarely ask her if she wants anything else for herself, hindi naman kasi pihikan.

bihira na namen isama sa labas though, gusto kasi namen ni misis ma-solo ang pag-aalaga sa anak namen pag pashyal, tas additional pahinga pa yun kay yaya.. pero pwede naman sya magsabi samen kapag trip nya sumama mag mall.

we are always generous to our yaya, SWERTE kami na mabait at mapag-kakatiwalaan. we treat her the way we want her to treat our son when we are not around.

**holdencaulfield** · August 22nd, 2014 11:35 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

We do know someone who always brings her yaya along so when we invite her we always include the yaya in the headcount. It's sort of imposing on the host an additional headcount (ala nga naman sabihin ng host wag isama yung yaya). But the bigger issue is making the other guests uncomfortable to have a stranger along at the table. It's not because it's the yaya but any other person that is not in the circle. eg It's just like having an all college barkada gathering and suddenly one person tags along his or her officemate.

meron akong kaibigan na tatlo yaya.

pinaprangka ko na na walang yaya. tayo-tayo lang. oks naman.

yan yung mga inaander ng yaya. takot na takot mawalan ng yaya.

tulad ng mga sis ko. sinusuhulan ang mga yaya huwag lang umalis

pag lalaking yaya ba yoyo?

**_Cathy_** · August 22nd, 2014 11:40 AM

Originally Posted by holdencaulfield

meron akong kaibigan na tatlo yaya.

pinaprangka ko na na walang yaya. tayo-tayo lang. oks naman.

yan yung mga inaander ng yaya. takot na takot mawalan ng yaya.

tulad ng mga sis ko. sinusuhulan ang mga yaya huwag lang umalis

pag lalaking yaya ba yoyo?

Hindi ko kaya mag prangka e

Lalaking yaya we call Yayo.

**Yuki13** · August 22nd, 2014 11:40 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

So how does it work when you have to eat in a fancy restaurant and you're not paying? (treat of a friend or relative)?

Do you still ask the yaya to join the table or have the yaya sit at another table?

Personally if it is a gathering na hindi kami kami lang, I would not take the yaya along. I as an employee could relate to what Walter said. I too would not refuse an invitation from my boss. But that does not necessarily mean I enjoy his or her company.

kapag ganyan di na namen sinasama.

**holdencaulfield** · August 22nd, 2014 11:49 AM

Originally Posted by Yuki13

kapag ganyan di na namen sinasama.

ito tama. badtrip naman yung may yayang bitbit tapos babayaran mo pa.

tulad namin, bukas mag aawt-op-dis-world kami.

mag hohotel tapos kasama yung isang sis ko at family niya treat namin.

sabi ko please, walang yaya. eh dalawa yaya nito.

kesyo blah-blah-blah. bayaran nalang daw yung dalawa.

okay sabi ko, sa sususnod na lang.

inaantay ko hanggang ngayon lang kung makakasama sila ng walang katulong.

mahal naman kasi ng pagkain sa tutuluyan namin kaya ayaw na namin ng may bitbit.

**_Cathy_** · August 22nd, 2014 11:50 AM

Originally Posted by holdencaulfield

ito tama. badtrip naman yung may yayang bitbit tapos babayaran mo pa.

tulad namin, bukas mag aawt-op-dis-world kami.

mag hohotel tapos kasama yung isang sis ko at family niya treat namin.

sabi ko please, walang yaya. eh dalawa yaya nito.

kesyo blah-blah-blah. bayaran nalang daw yung dalawa.

okay sabi ko, sa sususnod na lang.

inaantay ko hanggang ngayon lang kung makakasama sila ng walang katulong.

mahal naman kasi ng pagkain sa tutuluyan namin kaya ayaw na namin ng may bitbit.

I think it's really very rude to impose on the host

**holdencaulfield** · August 22nd, 2014 12:03 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

I think it's really very rude to impose on the host

kapatid eh. ya know.

**greenlyt** · August 22nd, 2014 12:25 PM

Originally Posted by holdencaulfield

btt: ako mahal ko mga yaya namin.

sa sobrang pagmamahal ko sa kanila, naanakan ko ata yung ilan.

Dami palang Holden Jr.

BTT: noong may yaya pa kami kasama namin kumain sa Resto
one time nga while dining sa Italianis GB3 my wife found out na it was Yaya's bday pala, my told the waitress assisting us,
kaya may free mini cake na si yaya kinantahan pa siya ng Happy Birthday :D