How Do You Deal With Your Child's Yaya In Restaurants?

[shadow]

Depends on the resto. Either they eat with us or we give them money to go and buy food. We rarely bring the Yaya to the mall though as that's QT to be with the kids (even when they were babies/toddlers). If we need to do a lot at the mall or wherever then we don't bring the kids.

This! New parents should learn that they need not bring their kid everytime they have to go out. pwede naman iwan sa bahay.


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[blue0626]

kumakain sa same table ang helper namin. Those who think highly of themselves lang naman ang gumagawa nyan.

[ice15]

For me...

If the child is too young to behave/eat properly... Yaya in the table with us.
Once the child is big enough... I just give the Yaya 200++ and we'll just meet her after eating...

Dati we used to have the Yaya all the time...

Pero (I think it was my first job) I had a nice chat with our VP/Expat's driver/helper.

They told me they find it irritating that they have to go and eat with the boss all the time... At first natutuwa daw sila since high end resto/hotel kumakain mga boss (Friendster moment daw). Pero later they realized na hindi para sa kanila yung taste ng food. Quantity is also not for them (kung buffet naman daw nahihiya sila bumalik ng bumalik) and they are always the ones not dressed properly for the place...

Hence they prefer the $$ then sila na bahala sa kakainan nila.

[_Cathy_]

For me...

If the child is too young to behave/eat properly... Yaya in the table with us.
Once the child is big enough... I just give the Yaya 200++ and we'll just meet her after eating...

Dati we used to have the Yaya all the time...

Pero (I think it was my first job) I had a nice chat with our VP/Expat's driver/helper.

They told me they find it irritating that they have to go and eat with the boss all the time... At first natutuwa daw sila since high end resto/hotel kumakain mga boss (Friendster moment daw). Pero later they realized na hindi para sa kanila yung taste ng food. Quantity is also not for them (kung buffet naman daw nahihiya sila bumalik ng bumalik) and they are always the ones not dressed properly for the place...

Hence they prefer the $$ then sila na bahala sa kakainan nila.

This is what I've been telling my then BF. Why do they have to tag along 4 helpers when they go the mall. He says his Mom wants the helper to enjoy along with them. But then I told him I think their helpers would rather stay at home or be given extra money because tagging them along sa mga lakad nila is still work. I'm not surprised why they never had a helper that lasted over 1 year.

[shadow]

kumakain sa same table ang helper namin. Those who think highly of themselves lang naman ang gumagawa nyan.

Kasama ninyo rin matulog sa kwarto?

Pag meron making event sa restaurant Meron sariling table kids and mga yaya.

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[blue0626]

Kasama ninyo rin matulog sa kwarto?

Pag meron making event sa restaurant Meron sariling table kids and mga yaya.

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Our 2 helpers have their own room. They don't hava a uniform so it is not awkward kung lalabas. Kung malaking event like formal syempre different table.

[greenlyt]

buti na lang wala na kaming yaya since my youngest son turned one (he's now 12), we do house chores ourselves, marunong mag luto lahat sila except ako

[falken]

Our yayas eat with us. We have the same food.

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[Sarsi]

Our kasambahay/ helpers, all 3 of them, eats whatever we eat, drink what we drink. When they go home in the afternoon, since they are stay outs, they usually have all the left overs with them.

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[chua_riwap]

Ooops. Ingat kayo sa topic about yaya/kasambahay uniform. May thread dati rito, na ganyan, nag away-away, na lock yung thread.

Dami nagalit. There's nothing wrong daw w/ the uniform.

[macsd]

Ooops. Ingat kayo sa topic about yaya/kasambahay uniform. May thread dati rito, na ganyan, nag away-away, na lock yung thread.

Dami nagalit. There's nothing wrong daw w/ the uniform.

MADALI LANG YAN, HUBARAN NG UNIFORM SI YAYA PARA WALANG AWAY. Di kaya nag-away kasi hubad na nga si yaya?

[H1Tman]

Okay lang naman uniform, pero ung hindi pinapakain nakakaawa. Pwede namang iorder ng pinakamurang meal man lang at pakainin sa tabi. Kung hindi nyo man lang pakakainin huwag ng isama.


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[_Cathy_]

Let's go back to topic then, on how to deal when dining out with yaya.

[cast_no_shadow]

Out of place ako wala pa ako anak and wala kami househelp hehe

Before we had one nung binata pa, seldom sumama sa mga lakad since wala naman alagain samin pero if may instances na kasama siya either we'll give her money, stroll muna siya on her own or kasama namin siya kung san kami kakain.

May pagka SC nga or status symbol mga yaya on uniform pero ang paliwanag nga daw nila dyan alangan naman pati clothing sagot ni amo?

Kesa daw inappropriate ang isuot sa pupuntahan ipag uniform na lang hehe.


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[holdencaulfield]

kami sobrang bait namin sa yaya. kung ano kinakain namin sa labas, yun din kakainin nila.

sa dami siguro naming naging yaya, marami ring kupal.

bibigyan mo ng pagkain, mapili pa.

napansin ko hindi sila kumakain ng carbonara at yung pagkaing kakaiba sa kanila.

pero siempre patitikman muna namin, pag okay, bigay.

di ko masisi, pero t*ngina, tatanungin mo kung gusto, oo daw pero makikita ko yung pagkain nasa lababo ng hugasin namin.

hindi ginalaw.

bibilhan mo ng pagkain sa labas, nag aaarte rin.

tapos ichichismis ka sa kanila na di raw pinapakain.

sarap sungal-ngalin.

kaya minsan di niyo masisisi yung mga nagpapasuweldo sa kanila kung pano sila tinatrato.

[Walter]

Your helpers will be happy with Jollibee. Yeah, you treat them like family and go where you go, eat what you eat. Have it said before, they are not comfortable with the fancy food and places that you go to. Obviously when you ask them, they'll say it's ok so you won't say they're whiners. They are also not comfortable going to fancy malls, they'd rather go to Divisoria or Baclaran where the items are what they can actually afford (unless you pay your helpers really, really well). It's also practical to let your helpers eat first so they can take care of your small children when it's time for you to have dinner.

They will rarely complain same reason as why you don't complain to your bosses at work. Why don't they just speak and say what they want, you say? What if the CEO of your company invites you to watch an Opera (but you'd rather go see the latest movie) and then have a fancy dinner of grass and seaweeds (he's a vegetarian). Would you complain and speak out your mind?

[Balikpinoy]

We treat our helpers as human beings. They eat what we eat, and come with us when we go out. Really simple, treat them as you would like to be treated yourself,


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[jick.cejoco]

Employers who treat their employees like property or slaves do not belong to this day and age. All men are treated equal in the eyes of the law. Everybody were born naked. There are no more royalty nor nobility on its sense. Even the prince of England serve in the military just like any tom, dick or harry


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[holdencaulfield]

tsaka kailangan talaga naka uniform???!!

yung esmi ko, gawi nila noon sa bahay nila, mga kasambahay naka-uniform.

so nung nagka-yaya anak ko, naka uniporme rin. bakit?

may mga yaya kami na galing probinsya na kung ano suot nila, yun na. wala ng ibang pag-aari kundi

tokong, t-shirt, tsinelas at........... silpon.

merong mga marungis at dugyot tingnan. yung mga damit nanlilimahid. pumayag naman sila sa uniporme kaya okay lang.

basta pag mag-aalaga ng bata, naka uniporme.

They will rarely complain same reason as why you don't complain to your bosses at work. Why don't they just speak and say what they want, you say? What if the CEO of your company invites you to watch an Opera (but you'd rather go see the latest movie) and then have a fancy dinner of grass and seaweeds (he's a vegetarian). Would you complain and speak out your mind?

ours is, we often give them money so they can have the food of their choice.

thinking that no food will be gone to waste and no complains might be made. i strongly tell them that i abhor and detest people who waste or leave food.

then after a while, i would see half eaten tilapia, adobo, kare-kare... etc.

tapos yung ibang kasama parehas din yung biniling ulam. sabi ko sana iba yung biniling ulam nung iba para iba-ibang ulam eh di masaya! at bakit parehas ng ulam tapos sabay sasayangin?

ang kaso, kesyo kinainan na daw ni ganito at wala kasi yung peborit kong sinaiing na isda o bbq?

eh put*ngina! ano sila swerte? ako nga, tira ng mag-ina ko yung nilalantakan ko dito sa bahay pag-uwi samantalang sila, bagong luto yung kinakain!

and these people will tell you that back in their place they would kill for a morsel.

lucky them if they have "toyo" or "bagoong" for viand rather than the usual "asin".

tapos ganito ang gagawin nila sa pagkain!

masarap pa yung kinakain ng aso ko saakin!

hindi lang sakin nangyari ito pati sa mga nakapaligid sakin.

kaya kung makakakita ako ng yaya na may epol at isang basong tubig, problema na nung yaya at nung nagpapasuweldo sa kaniya yun.

"at yung nakita niyo ng minsan huwag agad bigyan ng kahulugan.

dahil hindi niyo naman nakasama ang mga taong ito sa isang bubungan."

it rhymes diba?

break it down yaw!

[holdencaulfield]

Parenting means sacrifices! Is it so hard to skip the nights out or take turns with the spouse when going out with friends. It blows my mind why they have to take their BABY on a late night dinner in a non-family type restaurant??? .

dati nakakita ako ng beybi sa isang maingay na bar dito sa morato.

yung bayaw at sis ko nanood ng earth, wind and fire sa solaire. sinundo nila yung friend nilang couple.

nagulat sila isinama yung beybi. umalis daw yung yaya eh.

btt: ako mahal ko mga yaya namin.

sa sobrang pagmamahal ko sa kanila, naanakan ko ata yung ilan.