Why Do Men Get Cold Feet??

**margaux** · June 3rd, 2006 04:01 AM

He asked if I was still willing to share my life with him without getting married.

yeah, I think he's really scared of this word..... D I V O R C E
So how are you feeling right now, missZ?? I hope what I sent you through PM was enough to comfort you.

**scarab** · June 3rd, 2006 04:02 AM

....sorry.

**vhenok** · June 3rd, 2006 06:36 AM

Ano yun? He wants you back pero no more marriage because of the divorce thing....dyan ka talo, and the guy is showing how coward he is. I may not be in the position to say so pero that's the way I see it. Kung ngayon pa lang di ka nya kayang panagutan o harapin mga responsibilities eh what more?

Pero whatever your decision, be it moving on or hoping he will come back, huwag mo pabayaan sarili mo. Keep yourself happy, i know easy for me to say, but hey! you deserve to be happy, IMO!

Keep it always here in Tsikot.....coz we're with you wherever you are!

Naks! drama ba?

OT: so happy to read yung mga ibang humorous post dito, can't control myself to laugh. i for one is a happily married guy for the last 7 years. and it was not perfect, i stumbled once but am proud to get up twice (para bang Dwyane Wade?). seriously, problems really abounds in a married life, but the most important thing is to face these problems together. when you talk, the words "i" and "me" should be eliminated, you should be talking about "us" and "we". It takes two to tango, remember?!!!!

**Karding** · June 3rd, 2006 06:47 AM

Last night I asked him what went wrong. All I needed was straight answers. He said that he got scared because 2 of his brothers are now in the process of getting a divorce and they were telling him that it could happen to anyone. He asked if I was still willing to share my life with him without getting married.

magsasama kayo ng hindi kasal? what the F is the difference? baka akala nya kapag hindi kayo kasal iwas child support sya? he just want an easy way out kaya ayaw ng kasal. baka magastusan pa sya kapag sya ang nag-file ng divorce kaya tinanong ka nya ng ganun.

bakit kse hindi pa sabihin na lalaki na ang gusto nya ngayon? :evillaugh tangna, hindi na lang kse maging honest kunyare pa asking kung willing ek-ek. Sorry missZ, mainit lang talaga betlog ko sa mga lalaking walang betlog. juskudai, duduguin ako sa galet!!!

let him go, and make him pay for F'n 18-years.

**Flagg** · June 4th, 2006 07:00 AM

Aba itnit betlog si sir Karding a... need mo mag-relax sir, try mo yung female companion na di kasal... ehehe.

**tinky** · June 5th, 2006 03:11 AM

Day 5 and I am still breathing.
Gone are the days of moping , sitting around searching for answers.
After all those sleepless nights, not eating, and losing almost 5 lbs,
I think I've had enough.....

I was reading everyone's posts all day yesterday and it really helped me
understand why certain things happen..

Maybe I am getting a taste of my own medicine.Yeah I've heard that many times.
"What goes around comes around!" ouch! I say this is karma at it's finest!!

Maybe 2 years wasn't enough. Maybe we should've given it more time to get to know each other better.

Maybe age was a big factor. Maybe all of a sudden, he realized that he was not ready to give up his singlehood yet.

Maybe he got scared of the cost of the wedding? that was never an issue. The bride pays for the wedding here. So if there was one person who should worry about the bill, that would be my father..
but that one cracked me up M54!!!

DIVORCE --I think this where it all comes down to. He could lie for all he wants and use his brothers'
situation as an excuse to call off the wedding but I don't care anymore.I think should even thank him for
showing his true color this early. At least he grew some balls and had the guts to tell me about it
before the wedding preparations.

There are other minor things that were mentioned but they don't even matter to me anymore.

I am still sad about the whole thing but I don't wanna get stuck in a situation that I know in the end
is going to be very hard to get out of. So yeah even though it's really hard and painful, I am moving on.