Why Do Men Get Cold Feet??

[tinky]

Day 5 and I am still breathing.
Gone are the days of moping , sitting around searching for answers.
After all those sleepless nights, not eating, and losing almost 5 lbs,
I think I've had enough.....

I was reading everyone's posts all day yesterday and it really helped me
understand why certain things happen..


Maybe I am getting a taste of my own medicine.Yeah I've heard that many times.
"What goes around comes around!" ouch! I say this is karma at it's finest!!

Maybe 2 years wasn't enough. Maybe we should've given it more time to get to know each other better.

Maybe age was a big factor. Maybe all of a sudden, he realized that he was not ready to give up his singlehood yet.

Maybe he got scared of the cost of the wedding? that was never an issue. The bride pays for the wedding here. So if there was one person who should worry about the bill, that would be my father..
but that one cracked me up M54!!!

DIVORCE --I think this where it all comes down to. He could lie for all he wants and use his brothers'
situation as an excuse to call off the wedding but I don't care anymore.I think should even thank him for
showing his true color this early. At least he grew some balls and had the guts to tell me about it
before the wedding preparations.

There are other minor things that were mentioned but they don't even matter to me anymore.


I am still sad about the whole thing but I don't wanna get stuck in a situation that I know in the end
is going to be very hard to get out of. So yeah even though it's really hard and painful, I am moving on.