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**_Cathy_** · September 28th, 2018 09:55 AM

Originally Posted by shadow

You'll have someone na makakasama mo, If he's willing to go through that responsibility with you. Then he's the one.

Like pwede siya mag hatid sa doctor's appointment if you're not available, etc.

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Then I would have to have a BF that doesn't have an 8 to 5 job. But even if I had a BF, I won't expect him to do that for me. A husband can do that because you live in one house, pero BF malabo.

Siguro yung emotional support ang importante and knowing he is there when I need him, but as much as possible ayokong maging abala sa BF ko.

**shadow** · September 28th, 2018 09:58 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Then I would have to have a BF that doesn't have an 8 to 5 job. But even if I had a BF, I won't expect him to do that for me. A husband can do that because you live in one house, pero BF malabo.

Siguro yung emotional support ang importante and knowing he is there when I need him, but as much as possible ayokong maging abala sa BF ko.

A BF can totally do that for their GF. Pwede mag leave kung gusto.

And BF can offer and insist kahit na ayaw mo.

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**_Cathy_** · September 28th, 2018 10:01 AM

Originally Posted by remzam

Hindi gagaling ang tao kung sya mismo sa sarili nya ayaw.

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Yun nga sabi ng family ko, hindi niya tinutulungan sarili niya. Hindi ko alam kung hindi ba naniniwala sa doctor or what. Sadyang sobrang tigas ng ulo. Yun nga, pag inom na lang ng gamot kailangan pa bantayan. Alam naman niya na 8 am and 8 pm. Kanina sa pagod ko, di ko napansin 8:30 na. When I asked her kung nainom na niya sabi niya hindi pa. Gaano kahirap tandaan uminom ng gamot?

**remzam** · September 28th, 2018 10:04 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Yun nga sabi ng family ko, hindi niya tinutulungan sarili niya. Hindi ko alam kung hindi ba naniniwala sa doctor or what. Sadyang sobrang tigas ng ulo. Yun nga, pag inom na lang ng gamot kailangan pa bantayan. Alam naman niya na 8 am and 8 pm. Kanina sa pagod ko, di ko napansin 8:30 na. When I asked her kung nainom na niya sabi niya hindi pa. Gaano kahirap tandaan uminom ng gamot?

Cath can you disclose the disease?if not ok lang. Sa akin lang I want to know kung fatal sya or not. Kung hindi naman, hahayaan ko na lang si mommy. Kasi baka na stress din sya sa ginagawa mo. She might just want to live her life as she wants it to be.

Cost benefit analysis. Baka di rin worth it yung effort mo.

In other words, ako I'll just focus on the quality of life instead of ginagamot nga pero di naman masaya yung tao. Pati ibang tao like you, affected.

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**_Cathy_** · September 28th, 2018 10:12 AM

Originally Posted by shadow

A BF can totally do that for their GF. Pwede mag leave kung gusto.

And BF can offer and insist kahit na ayaw mo.

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A guy like that is a real gem. But I am not expecting to meet someone like that anymore.

Siguro dahil yung ex ko napaka sama ng experience ko. Wala na ngang work yun, nasa bahay lang, pero when I asked him once kung pwede niya ko tulungan magbantay sa hospital kasi I needed to get some things sa bahay, he said he can't. May instance pa nasiraan ako ng BOTH cars ko at hindi ako makapasok sa school, iyak ako ng iyak but he did not even offer to take me to school. Yung Kuya ko pa gumawa ng paraan. May instance I had a car problem, I called him and you know what he said? Dapat Kuya ko daw tinatawagan ko. MINSAN lang ako humingi tulong at sa minsan na yun he ALWAYS disappoints me. Kaya ako wala na ko expectation sa lalaki. Hindi ko alam how I ended up with a guy like my ex, siya yata karma ko, and I think I have paid enough. Sana yung next guy will treat me right.

**uls** · September 28th, 2018 10:21 AM

Originally Posted by remzam

Cath can you disclose the disease?if not ok lang. Sa akin lang I want to know kung fatal sya or not. Kung hindi naman, hahayaan ko na lang si mommy. Kasi baka na stress din sya sa ginagawa mo. She might just want to live her life as she wants it to be.

Cost benefit analysis. Baka di rin worth it yung effort mo.

In other words, ako I'll just focus on the quality of life instead of ginagamot nga pero di naman masaya yung tao. Pati ibang tao like you, affected.

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i think malaki na ang nagastos ni Cathy to treat her 2nd mom

if she left her 2nd mom to her mom hindi aalagaan ng mom niya like Cathy does

so mapupunta sa wala lahat ng nagastos na ni Cathy

**shadow** · September 28th, 2018 10:21 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

A guy like that is a real gem. But I am not expecting to meet someone like that anymore.

Siguro dahil yung ex ko napaka sama ng experience ko. Wala na ngang work yun, nasa bahay lang, pero when I asked him once kung pwede niya ko tulungan magbantay sa hospital kasi I needed to get some things sa bahay, he said he can't. May instance pa nasiraan ako ng BOTH cars ko at hindi ako makapasok sa school, iyak ako ng iyak but he did not even offer to take me to school. Yung Kuya ko pa gumawa ng paraan. May instance I had a car problem, I called him and you know what he said? Dapat Kuya ko daw tinatawagan ko. MINSAN lang ako humingi tulong at sa minsan na yun he ALWAYS disappoints me. Kaya ako wala na ko expectation sa lalaki. Hindi ko alam how I ended up with a guy like my ex, siya yata karma ko, and I think I have paid enough. Sana yung next guy will treat me right.

Hinde lahat ng lalake ganun. Dito ka dapat humingi ng tulong noh. Tsikot members are known for that.

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**_Cathy_** · September 28th, 2018 10:23 AM

Originally Posted by remzam

Cath can you disclose the disease?if not ok lang. Sa akin lang I want to know kung fatal sya or not. Kung hindi naman, hahayaan ko na lang si mommy. Kasi baka na stress din sya sa ginagawa mo. She might just want to live her life as she wants it to be.

Cost benefit analysis. Baka di rin worth it yung effort mo.

In other words, ako I'll just focus on the quality of life instead of ginagamot nga pero di naman masaya yung tao. Pati ibang tao like you, affected.

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It's not fatal. She has a non healing wound because the veins in her legs are not functioning properly. Kaya she is not allowed to walk or stand for long periods. Nakakatakot kasi mukhang nabubulok na yung leg and I am avoiding amputation at ALL COSTS. It got infected kasi apparently pinupunasan niya ng towel na hindi naman niya nililinis

Hindi naman kasi namin siya mabantayan 24/7. And recurring yung infection kasi nga pinapabayaan niya. Gusto ata niya ako pa magsabon para sa kanya

Si Dr cutie, I have to pay 2.5k to 4.5k PER VISIT and that is as often as once a week. Dr Cutie does not even charge us PF anymore, cost of medicine and materials lang yun ha. Excluding pa yung what I buy sa mercury or med rep. May treatment siya na P10k per box and that lasts only 2 weeks.

How can she be stressed out? Stress siya na I have to remind her to drink her medicine at 8 am and 8 pm? Katawan niya yun e, dapat tulungan naman niyang alagaan. Nag aaway na nga kami ng Mommy ko kasi puro tanggol at pagtatakip ginagawa ko para sa second Mom ko. Now I understand my Mom kung bakit inis na inis siya sa second Mom ko, kasi nga hindi tinutulungan sarili niya e.

**_Qwerty_** · September 28th, 2018 10:27 AM

mother in law ko ganyan din.. may wound na hindi gumagaling because of varicose veins..

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

It's not fatal. She has a non healing wound because the veins in her legs are not functioning properly. Kaya she is not allowed to walk or stand for long periods. Nakakatakot kasi mukhang nabubulok na yung leg and I am avoiding amputation at ALL COSTS. It got infected kasi apparently pinupunasan niya ng towel na hindi naman niya nililinis

Hindi naman kasi namin siya mabantayan 24/7. And recurring yung infection kasi nga pinapabayaan niya. Gusto ata niya ako pa magsabon para sa kanya

Si Dr cutie, I have to pay 2.5k to 4.5k PER VISIT and that is as often as once a week. Dr Cutie does not even charge us PF anymore, cost of medicine and materials lang yun ha. Excluding pa yung what I buy sa mercury or med rep. May treatment siya na P10k per box and that lasts only 2 weeks.

How can she be stressed out? Stress siya na I have to remind her to drink her medicine at 8 am and 8 pm? Katawan niya yun e, dapat tulungan naman niyang alagaan. Nag aaway na nga kami ng Mommy ko kasi puro tanggol at pagtatakip ginagawa ko para sa second Mom ko. Now I understand my Mom kung bakit inis na inis siya sa second Mom ko, kasi nga hindi tinutulungan sarili niya e.

**_Cathy_** · September 28th, 2018 10:31 AM

Originally Posted by uls

i think malaki na ang nagastos ni Cathy to treat her 2nd mom

if she left her 2nd mom to her mom hindi aalagaan ng mom niya like Cathy does

so mapupunta sa wala lahat ng nagastos na ni Cathy

My Mom won't spend take care of her the way I do, saka mas matanda pa Mommy ko sa second Mom ko. She won't be able to manage with what I am doing. Ako nga ang bata ko pa pero it's taking a toll on my body (lack of sleep, pagod, travelling to Pasig)

Originally Posted by shadow

Hinde lahat ng lalake ganun. Dito ka dapat humingi ng tulong noh. Tsikot members are known for that.

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I don't expect strangers to do that much for me. Enough na sakin yung nakakapag post ako ng sama ng loob. Saka gusto din ni Dr Cutie kasama ako when I take my second Mom to him.

Although I have to say, si ULS, he said pwede niya ko samahan magbantay nung na hospitalize second Mom ko, and I really appreciate that. That's a real friend

Si GH din nung tumirik ako sa gitna ng Pasong Tamo, he volunteered to help me. Hanggang kaya ko pa naman, iniiwasan ko mang abala.