What Are You Thinking About?

[ninjababez]

Dont make decisions based on guilt or pity hehe. You will regret them way later on.


Your money, your investment, your land, your name in the title...UNTIL you are married.

Bro, if anything goes wrong and she leaves you for whatever reason (after you have put the title in her name)...you would have lost so much time, money and years. Very very hard to recover the prime earning years of our lives as we get older. Small chance it will happen...but a chance nonetheless.

And god forbid, if something happens to her....inheritance laws and taxed (as well as her family members) are a b*tch as Cathy will so aptly point out.





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mahaba kwento bro, pero i really trust her more than anyone else. i trust her relatives more than i trust mine (yes even my mom lol).
kaya i can say 100% not out of guilt nor pitty ito [emoji28]
tipong (knock on wood) pag wala nako, mas maigi pa nasa kanya anak ko kaysa sa relatives [emoji1787]
her love and sacrifice for me cannot be measured by any means talaga.

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[EQAddict]

Very noble of you then.

You and her are lucky to have that much faith and sacrifice for each other . And if that is the case...you should marry her na rin hehehe.



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[ninjababez]

Very noble of you then.

You and her are lucky to have that much faith and sacrifice for each other . And if that is the case...you should marry her na rin hehehe.



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may noble ba na poor bro? [emoji1787]
will marry her as soon as we move to dumaguete. medyo di ko kaya mag commit sa sked ng church nila. [emoji3577]

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[dr. d]

many nobles are poor, because they choose to act nobly.
yung ig-noble nga ang reach, because they are under no such qualms of acting nobly.
heh heh.

[Vodka]

1st pic bro, masaya nako makagawa ganyan kalinis [emoji28]
yun tumira ng gate and roof dito sa inupahan ko, galing ng scale (tama ba term?) yun mga kalat minimal.
nagtawanan nalang kami nun pinakita ko yun gawa ko. sabi nya nalang, ok lang yan kasi may trabaho ka naman and di mo lagi ginagawa [emoji28][emoji1787][emoji1787]
btw ang mahal pala mig wire, pero matanong ko narin, yun 8kg ba na wire equal to number of work done sa 8kg na stick weld?

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MIG wire mura. fluxcore wire mahal. and fluxcore wire rusts so you can't store it long-term.

ano pala balak mo bilhin ma welding machine? coz you can buy a real MIG that's gas capable for 8k. use fluxcore for now then upgrade to gas later on

but frankly fluxcore isn't much of an upgrade over stick the only time i would recommend fluxcore over stick is when welding intricate work like motorcycle frame. if you're just gonna weld gates and such just stick w/ stick LOL

[ninjababez]

MIG wire mura. fluxcore wire mahal. and fluxcore wire rusts so you can't store it long-term.

ano pala balak mo bilhin ma welding machine? coz you can buy a real MIG that's gas capable for 8k. use fluxcore for now then upgrade to gas later on

but frankly fluxcore isn't much of an upgrade over stick the only time i would recommend fluxcore over stick is when welding intricate work like motorcycle frame. if you're just gonna weld gates and such just stick w/ stick LOL

fluxcore yun di na need ng gas bro? ang linis kasi tignan vs stick.

eto yun result ko sa stick, ginawa ko ito before nakabili grindern[emoji1787]

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[_Cathy_]

btw yun house na plano ko pagawa sa dumaguete, or whatever property maipon ko doon ay sa kanya ko lahat papangalan

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Nagising ako bigla dito.

You have a biological daughter, don't you? Why would you put it in your GF's name? Don't you want to protect your child FIRST more than anyone else? The only time I will buy a property and put it in another name would be IF I had a child and that's to avoid the hassle of transfers and taxes. I would not even do it for my parents because of the order of succession.

Please listen to EQ - your property your name. Legally you have no claim in case you break up or something happens to her. Yung may legal right nga nagaaway, what more yung wala? I have a classmate whose own mother sued her over money. Even in my own family, we have been very close all my life, ever since we decided to sell some properties nagka labo labo na. Yung pinsan ko who I post here and call my Kuya (because I treated him as my brother), we are not speaking to each other anymore and we have our own lawyers now, all this over inheritance! Biologically siguro our brains are hardwired to protect what is rightfully ours

If you insist on naming your properties to your GF then consider it as a gift. Wala ka ng interes or habol dyan.

Dont make decisions based on guilt or pity hehe. You will regret them way later on.


Your money, your investment, your land, your name in the title...UNTIL you are married.

Bro, if anything goes wrong and she leaves you for whatever reason (after you have put the title in her name)...you would have lost so much time, money and years. Very very hard to recover the prime earning years of our lives as we get older. Small chance it will happen...but a chance nonetheless.

And god forbid, if something happens to her....inheritance laws and taxes and lawyers (as well as her family members) are a b*tch as Cathy will so aptly point out.

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Definitely a b*tch. I was shocked that these lawyers cost millions When I was younger, it was my elders who took care of everything. Now that I am of right age, I am discovering how hard the responsibilities are, but I am doing this because I love my Lola so much and I don't want her to stress anymore.

Another issue that I found appalling is that even if my Mom wants to give me her shares, we can be taken to court by my brother's ex for "undue influence" WTF?!?! Galit na galit Mom ko na even her right to decide on who gets what pwede pa i contest?!?

Very noble of you then.

You and her are lucky to have that much faith and sacrifice for each other . And if that is the case...you should marry her na rin hehehe.

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Exactly.

[ninjababez]

cathy, i trust her to take care of my kid more than anyone (even myself and her bio mom)
hindi pasok ang situation ko sa norms na kinalakihan mo, kaya ka surprised, but dont be
may tao talaga na ganun, selfless



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[ninjababez]

Nagising ako bigla dito.



If you insist on naming your properties to your GF then consider it as a gift. Wala ka ng interes or habol dyan.

parang ganun na nga. my mini home sa bf, para sa anak ko yun. maski di ko ipangalan kanino yun, bahay ni ermat yun.


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[_Cathy_]

cathy, i trust her to take care of my kid more than anyone (even myself and her bio mom)
hindi pasok ang situation ko sa norms na kinalakihan mo, kaya ka surprised, but dont be
may tao talaga na ganun, selfless



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GF over daughter ang lalabas dyan sa mata ng batas at tao if like you said lahat ng maipupundar mo papangalan mo sa GF mo.

Kung ayaw mo makinig samin ni EQ that's your decision. It's good that you have that kind of trust and love with your GF. She seems nice naman talaga.

Just keep in mind that those properties are a GIFT. Legally, you and your daughter have no right to it. Concerned lang ako because I know the difficulty of having these issues.

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[ninjababez]

wala naman issue if you dont value property or money cathy, like me.
naiinis or naiirita lang ako saglit, pero after nun ok na. yun daughter ko was raised by lolo and lola nya to be independent. sinabi ko rin sa kanya, what little i have is because i worked hard for it. like i said, hindi normal ang setup namin.

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[ninjababez]

GF over daughter ang lalabas dyan sa mata ng batas at tao if like
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wala rin naman sila magagawa or maitutulong sa pagpapalaki or gastusin ng anak ko, so ok lang maduling mata nila [emoji1787][emoji1787]
basta im telling you now, hindi gf over daughter yan


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[ray_noel]

masyado sya independent at ma pride para itanong sakin yan lol
she wont beg nor ask for marriage, maging faithful lang ako alam kong masaya na sya
btw yun house na plano ko pagawa sa dumaguete, or whatever property maipon ko doon ay sa kanya ko lahat papangalan

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Hehe... just my thoughts bruh... bec i have this close colleague of my, she kwento the gastos of his partner but didn’t have any plans for their marriage yet... they are in marrying age and been bf/gf long time already...

Kaya daw binabara nya minsan bf nya sa mga gastos bec. he didn’t mention for savings para sa pangkasal, okay naman daw siya na half sila sa gastos...

Re:marriage, depende na lang siguro yan sa partner... i have this another friend, nung naka 3rd child pa sila nagpakasal, akala ko nga no plan magpakasal sila...

Anyway bruh, goodluck in your project sa welding.. heheh... sometimes napag isipan ko mag enroll sa tesda for some techinical skill like soldering and yung pag trace sa mga sira sa board circuit, eletrical ba yan... hehe... nice to have pang hobby bah...


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[_Cathy_]

wala naman issue if you dont value property or money cathy, like me.
naiinis or naiirita lang ako saglit, pero after nun ok na. yun daughter ko was raised by lolo and lola nya to be independent. sinabi ko rin sa kanya, what little i have is because i worked hard for it. like i said, hindi normal ang setup namin.

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Hindi naman ikaw ang issue e, yung rights ng anak mo. Kung wala naman pakialam daughter mo sa properties then it's all good

I saw from my parents kasi that I come first above anyone else and I will do the same. I even asked from both my Mom and Dad's family who comes first, children or parents at ang sagot children - and that is biblical.

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[uls]

Definitely a b*tch. I was shocked that these lawyers cost millions When I was younger, it was my elders who took care of everything. Now that I am of right age, I am discovering how hard the responsibilities are, but I am doing this because I love my Lola so much and I don't want her to stress anymore.

yey Cathy's adulting hehe

[ninjababez]

Hehe... just my thoughts bruh... bec i have this close colleague of my, she kwento the gastos of his partner but didn’t have any plans for their marriage yet... they are in marrying age and been bf/gf long time already...

Kaya daw binabara nya minsan bf nya sa mga gastos bec. he didn’t mention for savings para sa pangkasal, okay naman daw siya na half sila sa gastos...

Re:marriage, depende na lang siguro yan sa partner... i have this another friend, nung naka 3rd child pa sila nagpakasal, akala ko nga no plan magpakasal sila...

Anyway bruh, goodluck in your project sa welding.. heheh... sometimes napag isipan ko mag enroll sa tesda for some techinical skill like soldering and yung pag trace sa mga sira sa board circuit, eletrical ba yan... hehe... nice to have pang hobby bah...


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no prob, kahit taliwas belief natin (and cathy), naiintindihan ko where she is coming from. ayan na nga relative na nya, nagkakaproblema pa. pero kahit anong close nyo ng relative nyo, di mo parin sya kasama araw araw. kung bungangera at scammer itong si gf, malamang matagal ko na iniwan ito; maraming spare naka abang [emoji3577]
pero never ako nakarinig dito kahit nun nagloloko ako. inalagaan parin nya ako, at nakiusap na ayusin ko buhay ko and daughter ko maski wala na sya. andami sa office na nagugulat kasi kami pa. meron din mga kaibigan nyang galit sakin, pero san na sila ngayon. may mga utang ng loob lang daw sa kanya kaya concerned, pero wala naman maitutulong nun nagka problema kami few years ago.


btw sarap mag DIY bro, nakaka excite pag may bago ka natutunan. from cars to metalworks to construction. ma realize mo worth ng trabahador natin hahaha

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[Walter]

There are still good people in the world ... ninjababez has found one ... and he is very lucky to have done so ... just take his word for it ...

[ninjababez]

Hindi naman ikaw ang issue e, yung rights ng anak mo. Kung wala naman pakialam daughter mo sa properties then it's all good

I saw from my parents kasi that I come first above anyone else and I will do the same. I even asked from both my Mom and Dad's family who comes first, children or parents at ang sagot children - and that is biblical.

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dont get me wrong din cathy ha. di pwede isipin ng anak ko na may aasahan sya sakin. di sya matuto sa sarili nya, kung di sya pundar ng sarili nya. reward nalang or extra nalang dapat ang inheritance IMO. mas maganda yata ipamana ang value and character kaysa property.

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[ninjababez]

There are still good people in the world ... ninjababez has found one ... and he is very lucky to have done so ... just take his word for it ...

swerte din si gf bro sakin [emoji1787]

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[_Cathy_]

yey Cathy's adulting hehe

It's not easy

dont get me wrong din cathy ha. di pwede isipin ng anak ko na may aasahan sya sakin. di sya matuto sa sarili nya, kung di sya pundar ng sarili nya. reward nalang or extra nalang dapat ang inheritance IMO. mas maganda yata ipamana ang value and character kaysa property.

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Totoo naman na extra lang ang inheritance and should live their lives as if they don't have any. But just because you gave your child inheritance does not mean you cant teach him or her values and character. Anyway I've said my piece

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