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View Poll Results: Why do you have kids?

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  • Accident/unplanned.... had to be responsible.... but now am very happy.

    6 15.00%
  • We just want to have/love kids; don't know why/uncontrollable urge/God's mandate.

    19 47.50%
  • para mas masaya and para may mag-alaga samin pagtanda.

    5 12.50%
  • to fix rocky relationship/marriage

    1 2.50%
  • tax shelter

    0 0%
  • free employees/cheap labor. hehe

    1 2.50%
  • cause we can afford it!!!! para may magmana sa cars ko.

    2 5.00%
  • I don't want to have kids (at the moment).

    6 15.00%
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    #41
    Why? They're God's gifts that's why. I have a boy and 2 girls.


    There are couples I know who wanted to have one but can't.

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    #42
    You yourself were once a kid. Try to ask your parents how happy they were when you came…. It’s priceless gift/s that you must consider caring above yourself. And that completes your reason as a man. IMHO

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    #43
    One year old na si bunso (bunso nga ba talaga hehe) next week. Nakakatuwa ang dalawa naglalalaro na. At least di na lonely si panganay. Di na nagwawala kung iniiwan sya sa bahay during weekdays. May partner in crime na kasi hehe

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    #44
    The uncertainties when deciding to have a child (or more children) will always be there, but once andyan na... Damn, walang kasing saya hehe.

    I've always loved kids, even when I was still a child myself, I love my cousins so much when they were babies...

    When my niece came along, she was like a daughter to me (until now naman actually), then when my own boy came along, I've never been happier.



    All the little things they do shows how beautiful life is, seeing things and loving things without prejudices and biases...



    And when they come out of nowhere hugging you and enthusiastically says: "I love you!"... You're speechless no matter how often it occurs....
    Last edited by theveed; November 9th, 2007 at 11:45 AM.

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    #45
    kasi po hindi ako baog

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    #46
    becuase kids may teach you how to finally put some sense in your life or do something you'll be remembered and loved for

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    #47
    I love them very much ! It's one of the most wonderful things that happened to me.

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    #48
    my first born was an accident,kaya no choice but to get married civil lang been happy ever since,yung pangalawa ko planado ng husto kaya inabot ng seven years pagitan nila,tapos itong nasa loob ng "oven" accident na lang ulit kaya ayun di ko alam kung magpapakasal ba kami ulit o hindi na

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    #49
    Hmm di ko alam sa mga ex/flings ko hahahaha wala pa naman naghahanap sakin sa friendster/bahay/cellphone/email so I guess wala pa talaga. Although gusto ko na, kaso it's not yet time.

    Sarap tingnan ng mga parents kasama kids nila.

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    #50
    "when LOVE and LABOR work TOGETHER, the output is MASTERPIECE!!!

    Love and Labor = Husband & wife

    Masterpiece = CHILD

    :D..

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    #51
    Kids are wonderful even though they give me headaches sometimes. Having a family is not to be missed.....

    Daughter #1 has been a blessing......


    Daughter #2 was born 4 days ago. She's all her mom which is awesome. She's an angel except for the stinky diaper part. Mmm baho! :
    Last edited by Jun aka Pekto; December 16th, 2007 at 11:09 PM.

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    #52
    At first i was hesitant to have kid/s. My wife and i have been together for almost 5 years before my son came out.. Before i thought how much of a burden its gonna be... and yes i gotta admit the responsibilities are huge..... But seeing your own child for the first time and watching him grow up.... it's priceless!

    My son is almost 2 years old now.. we have fun everyday! Never thought a little child could bring in this much emotions...

    You will realize this yourself when the time comes, embrace it!

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    #53
    Because I want to be Complete

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    #54
    Ahhh. The joys of the little things. Darn kid refuses to sleep in the crib and has taken a liking to the bed in the master bedroom. So now, Mama and baby sleep in the master bedroom at night while baby also sleeps in there during the day. Me, I get to sleep on the sleeper couch in the living room.

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    #55
    actually i love kids and i've always wanted to have one of my own. yun nga lng mdyo nauna ang pagdating. hehehe...i've never been happier. pg ngsmile baby mo, makakalimutan mo tlga lahat = )

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    #56
    ako gusto ko magkaanak agad, bago kami kinasal ng wife ko we planed to have babies, pero GOd has a purpose, up to now still working pa din to have babies.. masaya pag may baby, oo maingay pag lumalaki na, tama din sila, di tayo bumabata. gusto kong makita ang mga anak ko na lumaki ng mabait, matulungin, etc.... to be a good persons... and to have a good family... bow! ahihihih

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    #57
    i don't want to call my son an "accident", albeit my wife and i had no plans to conceive a child at this early stage in our marriage. it just happened. perhaps it was God's will to give us the most precious gift after our wedding. we have no regrets at all. it is the most joyful experience we have ever had as a couple. plus i love babies...especially the fat ones :lol:
    Last edited by n2knee; December 18th, 2007 at 11:05 AM.

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    #58
    tama si jansky, para silang centrum...they will make you complete

    sa 5 year old kid ko sobrang saya na namin ni esmi...lalo na kapag nadagdagan pa ulit kami sa june...

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    #59
    Agree ako sa lahat ng daddy, papa, tatay dito.

    I am a first time dad and all I can say is that since lumabas yung baby ko, lalong nagkaron ng direction ang buhay ko.

    Mas sumaya ang mga araw, mas masarap matulog sa gabi (kahit minsan napupuyat ka sa iyak, pagtimpla ng gatas and padede).

    Mas excited na rin ako umuwi agad kse gusto ko na malaman kung ano na bagong ginagawa nya.

    Mas nabawasan ang unecessary expenses ko kse kailangan kong maglaan para sa diapers, gatas, monthly check-up ni baby.

    And nagkaron na ulit ako ng dahilan para mag-ikot sa mga toy store at bumili ng laruan... for my baby of course




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    #60
    i have two kids, one boy and one girl. i love them very much. when my son was 3 years old we can't wait to have another one he he he. mas lalo akong naging responsible at mas may direction ang buhay ko. they change my outlook and priorities as well. for example, i invest more for their future than things that i normally buy when i was single. and they complete the family. me and my wife will be all smiles the whole day when we see our kids roaming around the house and do lots of silly things, although they give you headaches sometimes. but again that is part of being parents. the sacrifices that we make is the love that we give to them. after the day's hard work, hugging them would probably the happiest day of your life!

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