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View Poll Results: Why do you have kids?

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  • Accident/unplanned.... had to be responsible.... but now am very happy.

    6 15.00%
  • We just want to have/love kids; don't know why/uncontrollable urge/God's mandate.

    19 47.50%
  • para mas masaya and para may mag-alaga samin pagtanda.

    5 12.50%
  • to fix rocky relationship/marriage

    1 2.50%
  • tax shelter

    0 0%
  • free employees/cheap labor. hehe

    1 2.50%
  • cause we can afford it!!!! para may magmana sa cars ko.

    2 5.00%
  • I don't want to have kids (at the moment).

    6 15.00%
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  1. Join Date
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    #1
    Ahhh. The joys of the little things. Darn kid refuses to sleep in the crib and has taken a liking to the bed in the master bedroom. So now, Mama and baby sleep in the master bedroom at night while baby also sleeps in there during the day. Me, I get to sleep on the sleeper couch in the living room.

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    #2
    actually i love kids and i've always wanted to have one of my own. yun nga lng mdyo nauna ang pagdating. hehehe...i've never been happier. pg ngsmile baby mo, makakalimutan mo tlga lahat = )

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    #3
    The uncertainties when deciding to have a child (or more children) will always be there, but once andyan na... Damn, walang kasing saya hehe.

    I've always loved kids, even when I was still a child myself, I love my cousins so much when they were babies...

    When my niece came along, she was like a daughter to me (until now naman actually), then when my own boy came along, I've never been happier.



    All the little things they do shows how beautiful life is, seeing things and loving things without prejudices and biases...



    And when they come out of nowhere hugging you and enthusiastically says: "I love you!"... You're speechless no matter how often it occurs....
    Last edited by theveed; November 9th, 2007 at 11:45 AM.

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    #4
    kasi po hindi ako baog

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    #5
    becuase kids may teach you how to finally put some sense in your life or do something you'll be remembered and loved for

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    #6
    most friends i know,the reason that they have kids because of irresponsibility...

    and condom is not 100% safe ;)

    im still not ready to have kids, maybe after 2 yearspa ;)

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    #7
    silverbx986 ,
    wala nga sa tabi ko, miss na miss ko na.

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    #8
    Quote Originally Posted by Linkk
    silverbx986 ,
    wala nga sa tabi ko, miss na miss ko na.
    miles and miles away? your outside pinas? nakaka-miss nga talaga.

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    #9
    For us, we waited for five years bago kami nagplano magkaron ng baby. Yung first pregnancy ni misis, nagkaron siya ng miscarriage then we tried again and it took two years bago nabuntis uli si misis. Muntik pang makunan uli buti naagapan, pero bed rest si misis for six months. Our first baby was a boy and is now 6.5yo, then nasundan uli ng girl after two years.

    All I can say is, I'm so much happy blessed with two lively, healthy, and smart kids.

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    #10
    "The greatest love of all" by Whitney Houston

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    #11
    Ako lang naghahanap ng tagapagmana ng cars ko?

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    #12
    one and only lang son namin... i had difficulty kasi nung pinagbubuntis ko sya... me heart problem ako... kaya sobrang sheltered talaga sya especially sa hubby ko... para sa kanya lahat ng pinaghihirapan namin... He makes us complete.

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    #13
    first and second baby was unplanned...but now we're very very much happy and we're planning to have a baby again...

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    #14
    We planned to have a baby around 6 months after we got married. My wife got pregnant 3 months after our wedding.

    I guess it was somewhat planned but not rigidly planned. We were happy and at the same time anxious that our lives would never be the same again.

    Now that our son is almost two, we look at him with awe at how much he's grown. I can't even imagine not being a daddy. We are so happy he came into our lives.

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    #15
    Quote Originally Posted by Flagg View Post
    Ako lang naghahanap ng tagapagmana ng cars ko?
    O ayan Flagg, may kasama ka na. heeheehee.

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    #16
    At first i was hesitant to have kid/s. My wife and i have been together for almost 5 years before my son came out.. Before i thought how much of a burden its gonna be... and yes i gotta admit the responsibilities are huge..... But seeing your own child for the first time and watching him grow up.... it's priceless!

    My son is almost 2 years old now.. we have fun everyday! Never thought a little child could bring in this much emotions...

    You will realize this yourself when the time comes, embrace it!

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    #17
    Because I want to be Complete

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    #18
    i don't want to call my son an "accident", albeit my wife and i had no plans to conceive a child at this early stage in our marriage. it just happened. perhaps it was God's will to give us the most precious gift after our wedding. we have no regrets at all. it is the most joyful experience we have ever had as a couple. plus i love babies...especially the fat ones :lol:
    Last edited by n2knee; December 18th, 2007 at 11:05 AM.

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    #19
    tama si jansky, para silang centrum...they will make you complete

    sa 5 year old kid ko sobrang saya na namin ni esmi...lalo na kapag nadagdagan pa ulit kami sa june...

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    #20
    Agree ako sa lahat ng daddy, papa, tatay dito.

    I am a first time dad and all I can say is that since lumabas yung baby ko, lalong nagkaron ng direction ang buhay ko.

    Mas sumaya ang mga araw, mas masarap matulog sa gabi (kahit minsan napupuyat ka sa iyak, pagtimpla ng gatas and padede).

    Mas excited na rin ako umuwi agad kse gusto ko na malaman kung ano na bagong ginagawa nya.

    Mas nabawasan ang unecessary expenses ko kse kailangan kong maglaan para sa diapers, gatas, monthly check-up ni baby.

    And nagkaron na ulit ako ng dahilan para mag-ikot sa mga toy store at bumili ng laruan... for my baby of course




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