Hello,
as a relatively new couple, walang wala akong desire magka-anak. Di pa ako makarelate sa joys of parenthood. I'm loving my life now, with my lovely wife, with no concern for college funds, etc....we get to watch movies everynight, eat out.... I'm happy...
I'm so happy with my dogs too! you can play with them all you want and ignore them if you are busy. they will never bring you to pta meetings and do drugs.
pero parang gusto na ng wife ko ata.
pakisagot naman poll ko!
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Accident/unplanned.... had to be responsible.... but now am very happy.
6 15.00% -
We just want to have/love kids; don't know why/uncontrollable urge/God's mandate.
19 47.50% -
para mas masaya and para may mag-alaga samin pagtanda.
5 12.50% -
to fix rocky relationship/marriage
1 2.50% -
tax shelter
0 0% -
free employees/cheap labor. hehe
1 2.50% -
cause we can afford it!!!! para may magmana sa cars ko.
2 5.00% -
I don't want to have kids (at the moment).
6 15.00%
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May 17th, 2005 06:50 PM #1Last edited by bad driver; May 17th, 2005 at 07:23 PM. Reason: more options
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May 17th, 2005 07:04 PM #2sorry bro. wala sa identified ang reply ko.
for me, JOY of life!
even before pa ako mag asawa. wala pa nga akong gf, i already planned my baby. kung lalaki, dapat ang pangalan Juan Miguel. pag babae, malamang Joana Mikhaela.
totoo ang sabi ng late father ko. nakakapawi daw ng pagod.
minsan sasabihin mo, di bale ng wala kang wife basta nandyan ang anak mo. ok ka na! pero syempre mas masarap ang kumpleto.
sometimes they really help fix a rocky relationship!!!
remember bro, hindi tayo bumabata...
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May 17th, 2005 07:15 PM #3yep tama si silhouette, after a hard day sa office pag uwi ko sa bahay and nakita ko na kids ko nawawala talaga pagod ko, well before pareho tayo nun bagong kasal ako ayoko muna ng anak pero nun nagkarun na gusto ko lagi yun best para sa kanila, hirap maintindihan kung wala ka pang anak.
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May 17th, 2005 07:26 PM #4hey guys!
pwede na sa option 2 yung joy of life hehe... tried to add it to the options... pero di ko na machange
I know when I have a kid I will love him/her with all my heart...
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May 17th, 2005 07:27 PM #5I agree with them...mararamdaman mo na lang yan kapag me anak ka na...
as for me...even when I was still single, I was very fond of kids.....nagbo-volunteer pa nga ako sa kuya ko at that time na mag-alaga nung pamangkin ko eh.... but having your own kid is totally diff...it is God's gift...kahit anong pagod or kabwisitan ko sa trabaho, kapag umuwi ako at sumalubong yung mga tsikitings ko with their big smiles and lambing sa akin, tanggal lahat yon.....hehehehe tapos takbo kaagad yon para magdala ng sinelas ko....kasi kapag di ako nagpalit agad eh ang alam nila na aalis ulit ako papunta sa opis....hehehehe miss my kids already......hehehe
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May 17th, 2005 07:37 PM #6wala pa akong anak but when i get married sumday i want to have kids...ewan ko ba ang hilig ko sa mga bata...as in...sabi ng tita ko meron daw ako charisma sa bata...nakakawala kasi sila ng stress eh...
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May 17th, 2005 10:35 PM #7i luv kids. unless they get to be 8 yrs old and above. yoko na. Aahahahaha
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May 17th, 2005 11:59 PM #8Kids make you realize how wonderful life is. They brighten up your day, and on those not so bright days, they give you the strength and resolve to keep on going. You won't know what real love is until you have kids of your own.
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May 18th, 2005 12:15 AM #9di ba sa bibliya palang andyan na yang pagpapayabong ng tao sa mundo..?
tsaka walang challenge sa buhay pag walang anak..
tsaka ang panganganak ma kaakibat na responsibilidad bilang isang magulang..not the other way around..i mean, anak ng mga skwating nagkalat at namamalimos sa lansangan me pangtoma lang ang tatay o pangsugal ang nanay..:seeth:
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May 18th, 2005 02:10 AM #10Wala akong anak, but when I come home everyday from work I visit my nephew (since my bro and his wife lives with us), nakakawala din ng pagod lalo na pag linalaro ko.
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May 18th, 2005 12:37 PM #16why do i have kids?
of course...i am married.... di naman ako baog or something....
but frankly speaking, my wife and i are married for 11 years now and our kid is only 5 years old. ang tagal ko syang inintay.
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May 18th, 2005 12:41 PM #17I can't describe the feeling of having kids. Iba eh. It's better than any feeling I've had although sumasakit ang ulo ko sa kanila (makukulit eh) pero when I watch them play, sleep, eat, etc., I feel an unexplainable joy!!! I also love it pag buntis misis ko ipapakita yung tyan nyang malaki tapos gagalaw bigla grabe hehehehehehe......
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May 18th, 2005 12:43 PM #18You might still be enjoying your day to day life with your wife. Looks like love mo talaga wife mo. That is the only reason I can think of why you don't want to have kids for now. However, I suggest that at least have one immediately. Baka pag gusto mo na e ayaw ka bigyan ng diyos. Very short ang healthy life ng babae when it comes to giving birth. You put your wife and baby to more risk the older she gets. Warning lang, it is a possibility na magselos ka sa baby mo sa umpisa. Ganun ako. All my wife's attention was to the child. I missed the romantic days of going to the movies or having dinner together. But, once my child started interacting with me, it was all worth it.
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May 18th, 2005 12:46 PM #19minsan ang kukulit pero andyan padin un nakakatuwa minsan ang lambing!! :D lil sis ko yan ah.. same nadin un.. 3 yrsold pa naman eh
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May 18th, 2005 12:47 PM #20i agree children will make a couple stronger and happier. well so far from what ive seen with my brother, masaya talaga nung 1-10 yrs old pa..but when they start reaching the HS years...sakit na ng ulo mostly cos they have a mind of their own, not like pag bata pa parents nasusunod.
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