How do you feel right now?

[_Cathy_]

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I think you are right. He does hate it when I tease him about crush but he tolerates it. I guess when I told him I plan to make amends with crush, that was the straw that broke the camel's back

[sean-archer]

He knows I'm crazy and he tolerated me for 15 years. I don't know if he is less tolerant of me now because he likes me less or he likes me more.

He was not like that before na nagu unfriend or would go quiet on me. I am feeling guilty because last year when he unfriended me, when he finally called, I asked him why he did it and he told me he got hurt with what I said. 3 or 4 months din niya ko hindi kinausap and that was the longest we did not talk.

Sabi nga sa kanta

Break it to me gently, if you have to, then tell me lies..

Masakit kase makasakit..



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[thenightcrawler]

I don't know how I should feel about my SO. I told him I don't want to see him (I cancelled two days in advance) and that I will make amends with crush He should know that that was just one of my "episodes" He did not reply and I figured he would call me after a few days.

Today I checked FB and saw that he unfriended me! OMG! He did the same to me last year! This is so immature!!! He's in his 50s and will he unfriend me every time he gets mad at me!?! It's like I am in a relationship with a teenager.

Why the hell does he do this???

He knows you too well.. He knows you're going to react like that and soon end up making habol and lambing sa kanya.

I don't like to play your games! Haha talo ako sa ganyan.. Psychological Torture.





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[sean-archer]

He knows you too well.. He knows you're going to react like that and soon end up making habol and lambing sa kanya.

I don't like to play your games! Haha talo ako sa ganyan.. Psychological Torture.





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Iba pala interpretation mo dito. I thought SO did that weird thing because he got hurt.

What you're saying is in control pa rin si SO sa situation? He's still one step ahead with Ms cath?

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[_Cathy_]

He knows you too well.. He knows you're going to react like that and soon end up making habol and lambing sa kanya.

I don't like to play your games! Haha talo ako sa ganyan.. Psychological Torture.





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I never make habol with him that's whylast year when he unfriended me umabot 3 mos walang usap until he gave in hahaha.

I was supposed to text him last night, lambing lang, I had no idea na na affect pala siya as much as unfriending me again. Kasi naman if he called I might have changed my mind about cancelling.

This time I think it's really my fault

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[thenightcrawler]

I think you are right. He does hate it when I tease him about crush but he tolerates it. I guess when I told him I plan to make amends with crush, that was the straw that broke the camel's back

I was about to say nga sana, you're going hysterical maybe because you're somehow scared of "losing" him din for good.. You'll never know someone's value until they're gone or actually we do know they're value, we just didn't expect we'll lose it.

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[thenightcrawler]

Iba pala interpretation mo dito. I thought SO did that weird thing because he got hurt.

What you're saying is in control pa rin si SO sa situation? He's still one step ahead with Ms cath?

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I assumed kase their playing the same game for years kaya for me, it's just another episode din ni SO.



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[_Cathy_]

Sabi nga sa kanta

Break it to me gently, if you have to, then tell me lies..

Masakit kase makasakit..



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Sa dami ng masasakit na ginawa at sinabi ko sa kanya, di ko na alam what hurts him. It's his craziness and intensity that I find appealing but it seems like he is losing that by being so emotional

I was about to say nga sana, you're going hysterical maybe because you're somehow scared of "losing" him din for good.. You'll never know someone's value until they're gone or actually we do know they're value, we just didn't expect we'll lose it.

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I'm not hysterical Nagtataka lang ako why he reacts differently now.

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[Little Missy]

I never make habol with him that's whylast year when he unfriended me umabot 3 mos walang usap until he gave in hahaha.

I was supposed to text him last night, lambing lang, I had no idea na na affect pala siya as much as unfriending me again. Kasi naman if he called I might have changed my mind about cancelling.

This time I think it's really my fault

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Lambingin mo. [emoji4]

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[_Cathy_]

Lambingin mo. [emoji4]

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I will wait for him to text or call me na lang. But that might take months based on what he did the last time he unfriended me

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[sean-archer]

I have this crazy formula kase on how to treat people. Especially the ones who are significant. . I would treat them as if they will be gone or dying in 6 months. Masamang tao man o mabuti.

I know it's weird.


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[thenightcrawler]

I have this crazy formula kase on how to treat people. Especially the ones who are significant. . I would treat them as if they will be gone or dying in 6 months. Masamang tao man o mabuti.

I know it's weird.


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I appreciate this. This means you treasure every time you have left with significant people in your life.. You value time.

Now, applying this to those who are not nice to you.. Does it mean you forgive them easily?

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[sean-archer]

Now, applying this to those who are not nice to you.. Does it mean you forgive them easily?

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Not forgive. It just means I could move on easily from that person. How could you get angry with a dying person even if he's evil.


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[thenightcrawler]

Not forgive. It just means I could move on easily from that person. How could you get angry with a dying person even if he's evil.


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Forgiving is not for them naman.. It's actually for yourself so you can move on peacefully.



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[Little Missy]

It's his craziness and intensity that I find appealing but it seems like he is losing that by being so emotional.

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I dunno but something inside me gets switched on when they're being vulnerable. When he turns quiet like a little boy na parang iiyak, urgh I wanna hug him. [emoji21]


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[StockEngine]

why are you wasting time on SO and this crush? will they ever commit? men who will commit will chase after you. playing games is such a waste of youth. 2019 is around the corner...

[StockEngine]

Lambingin mo. [emoji4]

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does he even deserve her affection?

[sean-archer]

Forgiving is not for them naman.. It's actually for yourself so you can move on peacefully.



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Forgiving is not for them? Wow this is something new. This is a disadvantage for you. People will push you around if you see it like this.

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[travajante]

Some are just so into S&M.[emoji14]

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[thenightcrawler]

Forgiving is not for them? Wow this is something new. This is a disadvantage for you. People will push you around if you see it like this.

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People will push you around only if you let them.

I manage to choose the people who can affect or hurt me. Mostly those who mean the world to me and those who truly care about me.




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