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    I don't know how I should feel about my SO. I told him I don't want to see him (I cancelled two days in advance) and that I will make amends with crush He should know that that was just one of my "episodes" He did not reply and I figured he would call me after a few days.

    Today I checked FB and saw that he unfriended me! OMG! He did the same to me last year! This is so immature!!! He's in his 50s and will he unfriend me every time he gets mad at me!?! It's like I am in a relationship with a teenager.

    Why the hell does he do this???
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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    I don't know how I should feel about my SO. I told him I don't want to see him (I cancelled two days in advance) and that I will make amends with crush He should know that that was just one of my "episodes" He did not reply and I figured he would call me after a few days.

    Today I checked FB and saw that he unfriended me! OMG! He did the same to me last year! This is so immature!!! He's in his 50s and will he unfriend me every time he gets mad at me!?! It's like I am in a relationship with a teenager.

    Why the hell does he do this???
    People tend to go crazy when they are hurt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sean-archer View Post
    People tend to go crazy when they are hurt.

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    He knows I'm crazy and he tolerated me for 15 years. I don't know if he is less tolerant of me now because he likes me less or he likes me more.

    He was not like that before na nagu unfriend or would go quiet on me. I am feeling guilty because last year when he unfriended me, when he finally called, I asked him why he did it and he told me he got hurt with what I said. 3 or 4 months din niya ko hindi kinausap and that was the longest we did not talk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    He knows I'm crazy and he tolerated me for 15 years. I don't know if he is less tolerant of me now because he likes me less or he likes me more.

    He was not like that before na nagu unfriend or would go quiet on me. I am feeling guilty because last year when he unfriended me, when he finally called, I asked him why he did it and he told me he got hurt with what I said. 3 or 4 months din niya ko hindi kinausap and that was the longest we did not talk.
    Sabi nga sa kanta

    Break it to me gently, if you have to, then tell me lies..

    Masakit kase makasakit..



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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    Why the hell does he do this???
    This.[emoji45][emoji116]

    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    I told him I don't want to see him (I cancelled two days in advance) and that I will make amends with crush


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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Missy View Post
    This.[emoji45][emoji116]

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    I think you are right. He does hate it when I tease him about crush but he tolerates it. I guess when I told him I plan to make amends with crush, that was the straw that broke the camel's back

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    I think you are right. He does hate it when I tease him about crush but he tolerates it. I guess when I told him I plan to make amends with crush, that was the straw that broke the camel's back
    I was about to say nga sana, you're going hysterical maybe because you're somehow scared of "losing" him din for good.. You'll never know someone's value until they're gone or actually we do know they're value, we just didn't expect we'll lose it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sean-archer View Post
    Sabi nga sa kanta

    Break it to me gently, if you have to, then tell me lies..

    Masakit kase makasakit..



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    Sa dami ng masasakit na ginawa at sinabi ko sa kanya, di ko na alam what hurts him. It's his craziness and intensity that I find appealing but it seems like he is losing that by being so emotional
    Quote Originally Posted by thenightcrawler View Post
    I was about to say nga sana, you're going hysterical maybe because you're somehow scared of "losing" him din for good.. You'll never know someone's value until they're gone or actually we do know they're value, we just didn't expect we'll lose it.

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    I'm not hysterical Nagtataka lang ako why he reacts differently now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    It's his craziness and intensity that I find appealing but it seems like he is losing that by being so emotional.

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    I dunno but something inside me gets switched on when they're being vulnerable. When he turns quiet like a little boy na parang iiyak, urgh I wanna hug him. [emoji21]


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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    I don't know how I should feel about my SO. I told him I don't want to see him (I cancelled two days in advance) and that I will make amends with crush He should know that that was just one of my "episodes" He did not reply and I figured he would call me after a few days.

    Today I checked FB and saw that he unfriended me! OMG! He did the same to me last year! This is so immature!!! He's in his 50s and will he unfriend me every time he gets mad at me!?! It's like I am in a relationship with a teenager.

    Why the hell does he do this???
    He knows you too well.. He knows you're going to react like that and soon end up making habol and lambing sa kanya.

    I don't like to play your games! Haha talo ako sa ganyan.. Psychological Torture.





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    Quote Originally Posted by thenightcrawler View Post
    He knows you too well.. He knows you're going to react like that and soon end up making habol and lambing sa kanya.

    I don't like to play your games! Haha talo ako sa ganyan.. Psychological Torture.





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    Iba pala interpretation mo dito. I thought SO did that weird thing because he got hurt.

    What you're saying is in control pa rin si SO sa situation? He's still one step ahead with Ms cath?

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    Quote Originally Posted by sean-archer View Post
    Iba pala interpretation mo dito. I thought SO did that weird thing because he got hurt.

    What you're saying is in control pa rin si SO sa situation? He's still one step ahead with Ms cath?

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    I assumed kase their playing the same game for years kaya for me, it's just another episode din ni SO.



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    Quote Originally Posted by thenightcrawler View Post
    He knows you too well.. He knows you're going to react like that and soon end up making habol and lambing sa kanya.

    I don't like to play your games! Haha talo ako sa ganyan.. Psychological Torture.





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    I never make habol with him that's whylast year when he unfriended me umabot 3 mos walang usap until he gave in hahaha.

    I was supposed to text him last night, lambing lang, I had no idea na na affect pala siya as much as unfriending me again. Kasi naman if he called I might have changed my mind about cancelling.

    This time I think it's really my fault

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    I never make habol with him that's whylast year when he unfriended me umabot 3 mos walang usap until he gave in hahaha.

    I was supposed to text him last night, lambing lang, I had no idea na na affect pala siya as much as unfriending me again. Kasi naman if he called I might have changed my mind about cancelling.

    This time I think it's really my fault

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    Lambingin mo. [emoji4]

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Missy View Post
    Lambingin mo. [emoji4]

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    I will wait for him to text or call me na lang. But that might take months based on what he did the last time he unfriended me

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Cathy_ View Post
    I will wait for him to text or call me na lang. But that might take months based on what he did the last time he unfriended me

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    Nakakalungkot naman yun. If someone is significant to me kase hindi ko matitiis.. I don't want to waste time.

    Sorry if this is too personal.. Wala ba gf si SO? exclusively dating kayo?



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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Missy View Post
    Lambingin mo. [emoji4]

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    does he even deserve her affection?

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    Quote Originally Posted by StockEngine View Post
    does he even deserve her affection?
    It's not as if he just left her. She did something that might have pushed him away and she herself admitted that it's her fault and that's she's done it many times. Guys have feelings too and that to me sounded like a hurt guy. Guys who don't care won't get affected. If I care about how he feels, there's no shame in reaching out especially if it's my fault. If Cathy won't do it, it's fine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Missy View Post
    It's not as if he just left her. She did something that might have pushed him away and she herself admitted that it's her fault and that's she's done it many times. Guys have feelings too and that to me sounded like a hurt guy. Guys who don't care won't get affected. If I care about how he feels, there's no shame in reaching out especially if it's my fault. If Cathy won't do it, it's fine.

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    do you think he'll ever settle? isnt he a player?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Missy View Post
    It's not as if he just left her. She did something that might have pushed him away and she herself admitted that it's her fault and that's she's done it many times. Guys have feelings too and that to me sounded like a hurt guy. Guys who don't care won't get affected. If I care about how he feels, there's no shame in reaching out especially if it's my fault. If Cathy won't do it, it's fine.

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    lam ko mala christian grey yan LM. type nya yun ni-rereject. pwede na din siguro magsuot ng leather yan. request mo kay cathy, sya mag-drive one time sayo hihi

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