How do you feel right now?

[Egan101]

Gulo nga eh! Usapan namin nuon para sakin, pero after a few months, ginawang family nalang. Kaya I think my right ako.

If you bought it with your own money, maybe they would not force that on you. If your parents bought it for your use, they will always have a sense of dominion over things they bought. Is the car under your name?

[KingoftheNorth]

I'm devastated. Pinaparusahan na naman ako

What happened?

BTT:

Sh!tty. Colds, cough and equally bad tasting meds...

[_Cathy_]

What happened?

BTT:

Sh!tty. Colds, cough and equally bad tasting meds...

My only 2 friends in the company will both be gone by year end. I will be all alone (friendless) in the office by the start of 2019.

I used to look forward to Mondays because that meant spending time with my friends, we were 8 in the group then one by one my friends started leaving until only 3 of us were left in a span of 8 years.

Daya ng friends ko! I was supposed to leave at 2017, ang nangyari ako yung last man standing I can't help but think that this is a sign that I should resign and move to the US. Initially kasi I was only thinking of a sabbatical because I don't want to resign, but I can't imagine my life without my friends.

We talked nga about how we are a solid group because at a certain age and position it is hard to make new friends in the office, iba yung bond ng sabay sabay yung journey niyo sa career. And 8 years, I spent more time with them than my HS or College friends

[chronicle]

^
Just do it.

Sign yan na sa US muna dapat.

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[KingoftheNorth]

My only 2 friends in the company will both be gone by year end. I will be all alone (friendless) in the office by the start of 2019.

I used to look forward to Mondays because that meant spending time with my friends, we were 8 in the group then one by one my friends started leaving until only 3 of us were left in a span of 8 years.

Daya ng friends ko! I was supposed to leave at 2017, ang nangyari ako yung last man standing I can't help but think that this is a sign that I should resign and move to the US. Initially kasi I was only thinking of a sabbatical because I don't want to resign, but I can't imagine my life without my friends.

We talked nga about how we are a solid group because at a certain age and position it is hard to make new friends in the office, iba yung bond ng sabay sabay yung journey niyo sa career. And 8 years, I spent more time with them than my HS or College friends

They are not friends who leaving you Cath. They are friends who are merely moving office addresses.

You might gain new ones at work after all. And if you don't, take a sabbatical or go to the U.S. even. But know that they're still your friends.

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[chico020]

If you bought it with your own money, maybe they would not force that on you. If your parents bought it for your use, they will always have a sense of dominion over things they bought. Is the car under your name?

Wow! That's the problem now! The car is under the name of my father, but he and they said it was for me. Damn! hurting so! And they opened a convo to make that car as for us. They bought it for me not my own money. It is just a sad story when it based to their promises..

[_Cathy_]

^
Just do it.

Sign yan na sa US muna dapat.

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I really think it's a sign nga. And my Mom was not of any help because when I told her about my friends leaving and me being left alone, she blamed me for delaying my documents

They are not friends who leaving you Cath. They are friends who are merely moving office addresses.

You might gain new ones at work after all. And if you don't, take a sabbatical or go to the U.S. even. But know that they're still your friends.

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They assured me we will still viber. Pero iba pa rin yung presence, like my office buddy, he always goes with me to the grocery and to do my errands. And we have our traditional Friday lunch and dinner in a new restaurant. They both expressed concern about leaving me nga

About having new friends, malabo talaga. It's the age, position and "trip". All our new hires are fresh grads or 20 somethings. Very rare do we hire 30s and officer level. That's why when our group was nalalagas, walang dumadagdag. Even my office buddy said, we can't make barkada to our staff, bukod sa age, it's controversial.

Swerte yung mga barkada na walang nag resign na group nila

[_Cathy_]

Wow! That's the problem now! The car is under the name of my father, but he and they said it was for me. Damn! hurting so! And they opened a convo to make that car as for us. They bought it for me not my own money. It is just a sad story when it based to their promises..

My parents bought my car but it's under my name. EVEN SO, I will still ask their permission if I were to sell it - their money, their decision.

You should be thankful that your parents bought you a car. I'm sorry, but the entitlement is kinda strong here.

[Egan101]

Wow! That's the problem now! The car is under the name of my father, but he and they said it was for me. Damn! hurting so! And they opened a convo to make that car as for us. They bought it for me not my own money. It is just a sad story when it based to their promises..

Since it is under the name of your father and he spent for it, he has every right to tell who gets to use it or not. I assume he spends for gas and maintenance also. You are just being to use it for free.

Don't worry too much about it. At least, you have a car you can use without having to worry on the cost of its ownership.

[jut703]

Wow! That's the problem now! The car is under the name of my father, but he and they said it was for me. Damn! hurting so! And they opened a convo to make that car as for us. They bought it for me not my own money. It is just a sad story when it based to their promises..

It's his money, his rules. I agree that your rant reeks of so much entitlement. You should be grateful you have a car to use.

If you don't want anyone else deciding for you, you can always buy your own car with your own money.

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[StockEngine]

, she blamed me for delaying my documents

Your mom see it clearly. It being procrastination.

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[_Cathy_]

Your mom see it clearly. It being procrastination.

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Because I don't want to leave. That's why. But now I'm seriously considering it

It's just that I really like me job and my boss is one of a kind, nobody else like him in the planet.

[SpinCycle]

Just enjoy having the privilege of driving a nice car. It’s not like they gave you a clunker that strands you in the middle of Edsa. My first car was a Ford Escort that would die on the highway on a weekly basis. But I was still thankful my parents got me a car as I felt like it was a key to freedom.

Use the Civic RS as something to aspire and make you work harder to achieve it on your own.

When you finally get it, the satisfaction will be so much sweeter than if it was just given to you.




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[uls]

Cathy procrastinated coz her life is good here

pag punta siya states ano gagawin niya?

oo mag trabaho siya pero anong kompanya papayag na halos di siya pumapasok o kung pumasok hapon na tapos pupunta pa sa mall

and sa states lahat ng housework sarili

dito senyorita siya pati tubig may taga abot

[uls]

Cathy ung mga nagsasabi punta ka ng states

di nila alam gaano kasarap buhay mo dito

kahit madami ka reklamo (puro 1st world problems naman)

dito sa pinas 1st class citizen ka

kahit saan ka magpunta vip treatment

makukuha mo ba yan sa states?

[uls]

oo nandyan ung trapik and incompetent 3rd world govt

pero sa society na ginagalawan mo ok naman

you're pretty much insulated from problems encountered by the lower and middle classes

[chronicle]

Kuntento na kaya sya na maging first class citizen? Or interested syang matuto mabuhay on her own?

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[KingoftheNorth]

Wow! That's the problem now! The car is under the name of my father, but he and they said it was for me. Damn! hurting so! And they opened a convo to make that car as for us. They bought it for me not my own money. It is just a sad story when it based to their promises..

Baka naman all your parents promised you was that they'd buy you a car for your/your family's use.

If you want your Civic RS and you have your own money, then buy it. But, don't use what your parents' bought with their money for it.

[dreamur]

Ford Ranger. For family kasi.. lolz..

Akala ko ba puro mazda ang cars mo? Nagpaparami ka naman ng clicks no? [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]

Need help 300-400k budget

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[uls]

Kuntento na kaya sya na maging first class citizen? Or interested syang matuto mabuhay on her own?

knowing Cathy, it's not exactly her goal to be independent and achieve something like become a star trader in a major investment bank

Cathy was bred to be the wife of a deserving man

well-educated, classy, someone rich parents will want to have as daughter-in-law

there's a chinese term Tai tai (太太) which means wife of rich man... doesn't have to work, enjoys a life of leisure

that's what Cathy's bred for