Bakit ka badtrip today?

[dr. d]

same boat also, why do you get married so may katuwang ka

at kung malasin...
you might just marry another set of problems.

don't hunt for one. just be yourself.

[shadow]

Youre to emotionally attached to your current job. Pag tuloy mo pa Yan. Before your know it, you're too old to transfer to a new company,

Go where the money is. Yan lang advice ko sayo. In the end baka magsisi ka


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[minicarph]

Magtipid na lang kayo sa pagkain para pumayat kayo. Pag payat sobra tipid, pede ka magsuot ng bench shirts, bagay pa din. Di gano kelangan ng gano chemical sa katawan like lotion kasi di ka mag-mantika, di kelangan ng maintenance meds, vitamins, shots. Di kelangan ng malaki kotse, malaki bahay, malaking sabon panligo at pamlaba




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If you are wrong, turn right.
If you are right, turn left.

[MR_BIG18]

at kung malasin...
you might just marry another set of problems.

don't hunt for one. just be yourself.

yun nga lang, buti teamate kami ni misis...sa lahat pati pag laba

[MR_BIG18]

But it's hard to impose on your better half to share in your responsibilities to your family. I personally think it's unfair to her or him.


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sorry, i know what i said was broad, my wifes parents divorced are still strong both with their own families, my father in law still has a toddler, my mother is still doing zumba, still in the peak of health..and also our neighboor..stone throw away. unlike miss cathy, i have a wife and daughter, and when i grow old and i can only bench 200lbs, iba kasi yung may kakampi..

[Turbo Diesel]

Been looking for my phone for days. It is still ringing but I cannot locate it. I either lost it somewhere or the dog hid it somewhere around the house [emoji17]


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[dreamur]

Magtipid na lang kayo sa pagkain para pumayat kayo. Pag payat sobra tipid, pede ka magsuot ng bench shirts, bagay pa din. Di gano kelangan ng gano chemical sa katawan like lotion kasi di ka mag-mantika, di kelangan ng maintenance meds, vitamins, shots. Di kelangan ng malaki kotse, malaki bahay, malaking sabon panligo at pamlaba




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If you are wrong, turn right.
If you are right, turn left.

U ok OB or did you miss a dose again.

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[dreamur]

Been looking for my phone for days. It is still ringing but I cannot locate it. I either lost it somewhere or the dog hid it somewhere around the house [emoji17]


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Did you check under or behind the furnitures?

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[_Cathy_]

same boat also, why do you get married so may katuwang ka

That's what everyone says. Dati kasi I never felt the rush to get married even when I turned 30. I only realised its importance when my my family started having health issues. It does not help that my Mom had me in her late 30s. Last year when one of my family got hospitalized, I had to do everything on my own. Walang pwede magbantay kasi mga senior (bawal long stay sa hospital) so I was absent from work for a whole week. I was back and forth from home and the hospital. I had to ask our trusted neighbor's care taker to stay in the hospital. That experience really traumatized me and made me wish I had brothers or sisters na kahalili, and yes I did realise maybe things would have been easier if I had a husband. All of my Mom's family are in the US. My Dad naman small family, yung cousin ko only child lang so he has to look over his senior parents too.

BUT just like what dr d said, pwedeng problema din ang dala. One reason why I have so much resentment for my ex of 5 years was his lack of responsibility. During the time when my Mom got sick I never really felt his sympathy. I told him dadaanan din niya pinagdadaaanan ko when his parents are older. And you know what he said? He has a brother and sisters, unlike me who is alone. WOW! THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR RUBBING IT IN. Sometimes I really really HATE him. If I married him, I would not expect him to be of much help.

Maybe the reason why you're still getting a low salary is because of those "perks" that you enjoy? Management not confronting you about your flexi time doesn't mean it's okay with the company. It just means they don't have the balls to call you out and they're taking it out on you through other non-confrontational methods such as keeping you under a low pay grade or assigning you somewhere else.

We all have our personal burdens to carry but it's unfair for the company we work for to adjust to our needs.

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My AVP did say that his only issue with me is my tardiness and I am not being a good role model to others. My salary is low because I have reached the ceiling for my position, the only way I can get an increase is through promotion. But it is so hard to get a promotion in our company. My friend got promoted 2 yrs ago and she literally had nose bleeding from overwork and stress.

[Turbo Diesel]

Did you check under or behind the furnitures?

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Yes sir, I have also checked all cars. If it is ringing even days after I lost it, surely no one has taken it? That is my hopeful presumption.

[CVT]

And now, they have center diggings on the eastbound lane of Dr. A. Santos Ave. (Sucat Rd).... This means heavy traffic just like the westbound lane with diggings all the way...

[dreamur]

Yes sir, I have also checked all cars. If it is ringing even days after I lost it, surely no one has taken it? That is my hopeful presumption.

I hope so too but it is also possible that somebody is hiding it from you and is just waiting for the battery to run out before retrieving it. If it is a smart phone try to lock it remotely.

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[WallyWest]

Yes sir, I have also checked all cars. If it is ringing even days after I lost it, surely no one has taken it? That is my hopeful presumption.

Don't you have any kind of anti-theft app on your phone? If it's Android, there's Android Device Manager. I haven't tried it myself but it's supposed to be able to pinpoint your phone's location under certain conditions (I think it needs to have wifi or data access and logged in to Google). If it is indeed stolen, you can at least erase or lock it.

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[dreamur]

That's what everyone says. Dati kasi I never felt the rush to get married even when I turned 30. I only realised its importance when my my family started having health issues. It does not help that my Mom had me in her late 30s. Last year when one of my family got hospitalized, I had to do everything on my own. Walang pwede magbantay kasi mga senior (bawal long stay sa hospital) so I was absent from work for a whole week. I was back and forth from home and the hospital. I had to ask our trusted neighbor's care taker to stay in the hospital. That experience really traumatized me and made me wish I had brothers or sisters na kahalili, and yes I did realise maybe things would have been easier if I had a husband. All of my Mom's family are in the US. My Dad naman small family, yung cousin ko only child lang so he has to look over his senior parents too.

BUT just like what dr d said, pwedeng problema din ang dala. One reason why I have so much resentment for my ex of 5 years was his lack of responsibility. During the time when my Mom got sick I never really felt his sympathy. I told him dadaanan din niya pinagdadaaanan ko when his parents are older. And you know what he said? He has a brother and sisters, unlike me who is alone. WOW! THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR RUBBING IT IN. Sometimes I really really HATE him. If I married him, I would not expect him to be of much help.



My AVP did say that his only issue with me is my tardiness and I am not being a good role model to others. My salary is low because I have reached the ceiling for my position, the only way I can get an increase is through promotion. But it is so hard to get a promotion in our company. My friend got promoted 2 yrs ago and she literally had nose bleeding from overwork and stress.

My senior admin is in the same boat. She has tardiness issue but she is passionate about her job. She wants to go up the next salary bracket as she is stuck at the high end of her current rank. My advise to her is to transfer to another department where there is more opportunities for rotation and promotion. Lately I heard she is taking my advice seriously and is now looking for a job elsewhere.

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[WallyWest]

^
Applicable din sa ating mga employees ang Law of Diminishing Returns.

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[dreamur]

^
Applicable din sa ating mga employees ang Law of Diminishing Returns.

Tapatalked

True. Kaya nga hindi na ako basta makaalis sa present employer ko. But I am not unhappy at all kasi the pay is good and very close to home. Probably my retirement job.

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[chronicle]

Makikisingit lang. Why not apply to another company. (Of course with due diligence in research) and if the price is right, accept it.

More or less, a counter will be offered since you are tenured already. But if not, at least you already negotiated your terms to your new company.

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[shadow]

True. Kaya nga hindi na ako basta makaalis sa present employer ko. But I am not unhappy at all kasi the pay is good and very close to home. Probably my retirement job.

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Rule of thumb, basta Meron higher offer,
Go for it! If one is gonna be miserable sa job niya, it's better to be miserable na mataas sweldo. [emoji857]
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My point is if one's current employer can't pay you the market compensation. **** them!



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[shadow]

Rule of thumb, basta Meron higher offer,
Go for it! If one is gonna be miserable sa job niya, it's better to be miserable na mataas sweldo. [emoji857]
https://media0.giphy.com/media/9HQRIttS5C4Za/100.gif

My point is if one's current employer can't pay you the market compensation. **** them!

Kung puro lateral lang ang movement. Sa kanila na yun "family" kuno. [emoji23]


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[shadow]

Cathy. That's the sign. Ikaw na nagssabi. Naiwanan ka na ng mga kabayan mo. It's time to move on. Unless Sabihin ng boss mong Hinde mo maiwanan na i-cover niya yun difference ng sweldo mo sa market price ngayon.

I really hate to see ganyan. It's like the company is taking advantage sa Tao kung hinde nila nabayaran sa market price yun employees nila.


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