Usapang UTANG

**Flagg** · October 29th, 2007 05:24 PM

Originally Posted by jedi

update lang po sa mga naikwento ko...

nakakalungkot na pangyayari... few days ago... my friend, my kumpare passed away...

Condolence po sa inyo, bossman.

Change really has to come from within.

**_Qwerty_** · October 29th, 2007 05:29 PM

*Memphis - kung maganda na naman kita nung kaibigan mo.. dapat ay sinasabihan mo na syang mag move out.. mahirap yang ganyan..

**Hanren** · October 29th, 2007 05:31 PM

Boss Jedi there's a lesson to be learned from this experience..its just sad that you are virtually helpless when it comes to these situations...my condolences too..

Isa lang masasabi ko pagdating sa mga utang utang:

Lend money to a bad debtor and he will hate you forever.

**Memphis Raines** · October 29th, 2007 05:42 PM

Originally Posted by _Qwerty_

*Memphis - kung maganda na naman kita nung kaibigan mo.. dapat ay sinasabihan mo na syang mag move out.. mahirap yang ganyan..

Nice point. He has already bought a piece of land for himself after his first few salaries but has not even put up a fence for it and it appears that he has no intention of putting up their own place there. Maybe it's because that the location of his new land is not as accessible as mine, no telephones or cable T.V. connections daw hehe.

He spends his money on things of no value like his Evo 5, a V8 SUV, expensive pets, etc. The wifey hasn't even thought of investing their fortune on a business.

**Memphis Raines** · October 29th, 2007 05:48 PM

Originally Posted by Flagg

OK na 1 hectare para pagawa ka townhouses dun, tapos ibenta mo sa kanya.

Or, kung gusto mong di offensive yung approach, ask mo sya kung gusto nya mag-partner sa venture... hihihi.

:lolabove: nice suggestion there

pero baka mag-backfire din at sabihin nyang Yes...hindi pa naman sya marunong mag cash management hehe.

Townhouses are fine but I plan to put up some bodegas nalang para minimal ang maintenance.

**_Qwerty_** · October 29th, 2007 06:11 PM

maganda siguro.. settle your obligation to him.. then after that.. tell him na since may source of income na naman sya.. ehh gagawin mo nang pormal yung pagtigil nila sa lot mo.. so papa rent mo na sa kanya.. kung ok lang sa kanya.. kung hindi naman eh may iba kamo kasing mag re rent.. para mapilitang mag rent or mag move out na kung ayaw nya..

**Flagg** · October 29th, 2007 06:17 PM

Originally Posted by Memphis Raines

:lolabove: nice suggestion there

pero baka mag-backfire din at sabihin nyang Yes...hindi pa naman sya marunong mag cash management hehe.

Townhouses are fine but I plan to put up some bodegas nalang para minimal ang maintenance.

Ah, ok lang kung yes & bodegas ang gawa. Basta all management responsibilities sayo, 75% stock sayo 25% sa kanya, para quorum is yours. Mwehehe.

Kumbaga, say mo sa kanya, "Pre, parang don ka, I will make your money work for you." Ok diba?

For all you know, you'll be doing him a favor kasi mukhang headed for nowhere sya, fast. At least, later on, pag ubos na sya, he can rely on dividends from his investment with you.

Sa totoo lang, I'm thinking up a similar kind of scheme for a very close friend of mine na sobra gumastos. Kawawa eh, right now suportado sya ng parents nya, pero matanda na sila. Pag wala na sila, pano na inaanak ko (anak ng friend ko)? I'm sure yung mamanahin nya, ubos agad. Mas maganda naman ang dividends kesa hand-outs, diba?

Evo 5 and no house of their own? Tsk tsk.

**redorange** · October 29th, 2007 06:33 PM

Originally Posted by Memphis Raines

You have the same thoughts as my wife. Her concern is also the location of the portion that they are living on, it's becoming kinda prime since it is nearer the main hi-way.

Although I did tell him before that he can stay for as long as he wants, I didn't mean FOREVER

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You told him he could stay there indefinitely which could be FOREVER. You should have put a time frame and not made it for as long as he wants.

**NightWinger** · October 30th, 2007 07:44 PM

Boss Memphis Raines. Lahat po ay may hangang. Palagay ko tama na po yun tulong nyo sa inyo kaibigan.

**Memphis Raines** · October 30th, 2007 08:10 PM

Originally Posted by Flagg

Ah, ok lang kung yes & bodegas ang gawa. Basta all management responsibilities sayo, 75% stock sayo 25% sa kanya, para quorum is yours. Mwehehe.

Kumbaga, say mo sa kanya, "Pre, parang don ka, I will make your money work for you." Ok diba?

For all you know, you'll be doing him a favor kasi mukhang headed for nowhere sya, fast. At least, later on, pag ubos na sya, he can rely on dividends from his investment with you.

Sa totoo lang, I'm thinking up a similar kind of scheme for a very close friend of mine na sobra gumastos. Kawawa eh, right now suportado sya ng parents nya, pero matanda na sila. Pag wala na sila, pano na inaanak ko (anak ng friend ko)? I'm sure yung mamanahin nya, ubos agad. Mas maganda naman ang dividends kesa hand-outs, diba?

Evo 5 and no house of their own? Tsk tsk.

Not a bad idea indeed! Then maybe as time goes by I can offer to buy his shares hehe. Honga eh, nice rides. I think it is influenced by the wifey who is a social climber, wants to impress her friends with expensive stuff. Minsan nga she makes me feel like napakalaki ng "utang" ko with the way na umasta sya when we do get to talk. In the first place hindi ko naman inutang yun di ba?

Originally Posted by redorange

You told him he could stay there indefinitely which could be FOREVER. You should have put a time frame and not made it for as long as he wants.

Well for his part, he did acknowledge the fact that they will have to get their own place because baka nga raw gagamitin ko na. So I guess that he is riding on my "utang" to him. Very sad talaga.

Originally Posted by NightWinger

Boss Memphis Raines. Lahat po ay may hangang. Palagay ko tama na po yun tulong nyo sa inyo kaibigan.

Noted po sir. It's gotta end sometime nga di ba? I just hope it won't be the end of a good friendship.