What's on this guy's mind?

[_Cathy_]

Magkatabing nakahiga sa kama, oks lang iyun, depende kung meron pang ibang ginawa. Baka nag-re-relax lang. Pero halik sa shoulder, kahit 1nanosecond lang, may malisya na iyun.

pero ibig sabihin nasa loob sila ng kwarto, Hindi ba bawal magsama sa isang room ang mag BF and GF. I never thought na may malisya yung halik sa shoulder kasi siya lang naman gumagawa nun sa friend ko saka parang no reaction naman yung ibang barkada nila. Touchy feely kasi yung guy.

[_Cathy_]

Yeah but you're doing a bad job at it.

In another thread, you mentioned that someone recently stole a kiss from you. Then you made this thread.

Just don't use that friend thing again because it looks like you're trying to tell us we're idiots and that we'll never know... we accept you for who you are naman e.

Ang suplado mo naman. I am not trying to make you guys look like idiots.

This is exactly the reason why I am so glad that I remain anonymous in this forum. Kasi if you said that to me in person, you would have made me cry. Sheesh.

[_Cathy_]

Sir uls, do you fix your own car?

baka pwede mo i fix yung kay Miss Cath?

Niye bakit napunta kay ULS. hehehe.

[ab_initio]

Niye bakit napunta kay ULS. hehehe.

may prediction si Madam Abby na maging bagay kayooooo...wehehehe.

sa bait mo na yan, bagay kayo ni Sir uls...wehehehe

[woohoo]

pero ibig sabihin nasa loob sila ng kwarto, Hindi ba bawal magsama sa isang room ang mag BF and GF. I never thought na may malisya yung halik sa shoulder kasi siya lang naman gumagawa nun sa friend ko saka parang no reaction naman yung ibang barkada nila. Touchy feely kasi yung guy.

Yo, Cathy: We were discussing a man kissing a girl's shoulder and I said (and I paraphrase and get to my point) a man doesn't do that (nang walang malisya) to a girl who's *not* his GF. Heck, kung sa GF niya ginagawa, may malisya pa rin. hehe.

So nung sinabi ko na nagpa-picture nang magkatabi sa kama, that was also in the same context: hindi sila mag-ON. Friends lang.

No matter how touchy-feely yung guy, and no matter how liberated their culture is, for me, a man kissing his female friend's shoulder, whether in the presence of their friends or not, is still a no-no.

[_Cathy_]

Jaded na ko. hehe.

[_Cathy_]

Yo, Cathy: We were discussing a man kissing a girl's shoulder and I said (and I paraphrase and get to my point) a man doesn't do that (nang walang malisya) to a girl who's *not* his GF. Heck, kung sa GF niya ginagawa, may malisya pa rin. hehe.

So nung sinabi ko na nagpa-picture nang magkatabi sa kama, that was also in the same context: hindi sila mag-ON. Friends lang.

Oh kasi ang ibig sabihin ko mag BF GF kasi before that statement I said na may mga nagpapa picture french kissing each other so ang assumption eh mag BF GF. Kasi you seem to be very conservative kaya kinwento ko lang kung gano na ka liberated ang mga bata ngayon.

Ako kasi kinikiss shoulders/upper arm ko ng family ko kaya I never took it with malice. Dina ganun pag nanggigigil ka sa bata?

Di ko alam kung bakit pinagtutulungan ako dito. Hay. Bakit mo ko inaaway, we're supposed to be friends diba?

[woohoo]

Oh kasi ang ibig sabihin ko mag BF GF kasi before that statement I said na may mga nagpapa picture french kissing each other so ang assumption eh mag BF GF. Kasi you seem to be very conservative kaya kinwento ko lang kung gano na ka liberated ang mga bata ngayon.

Ako kasi kinikiss shoulders/upper arm ko ng family ko kaya I never took it with malice. Dina ganun pag nanggigigil ka sa bata?

Di ko alam kung bakit pinagtutulungan ako dito. Hay. Bakit mo ko inaaway, we're supposed to be friends diba?

OIC.

But we're not ganging up on you... hehehe... :smiley:

Inaaway na ba kita niyan? I was just airing out my convictions.

Iba kung family member ang nanghahalik sa shoulder. Iba rin kung friends lang kayo. Di mo pa rin ba ako ma-gets?

Summarize ko na lang: pag humahalik ang isang lalake sa balikat ng isang babae na hindi naman niya kamag-anak o siyota, ito ay hindi tama. Para mo na ring ni-lips-to-lips ang hindi mo siyota. I hope hindi na malabo ang conviction ko.

[ab_initio]

Jaded na ko. hehe.

don't be...just think of those moments when you were happy. from there think again that those will come to you in thousand fold...pathetic naman kung palagi sad ang buhay. minsan naging masaya tayo...tama na yun. smile! hopefully, the universe will smile at you again. good luck po! happy hearts' day, Miss Cath!!!

[_Cathy_]

OIC.

But we're not ganging up on you... hehehe... :smiley:

Inaaway na ba kita niyan? I was just airing out my convictions.

Yeah. Parang harsh na kasi yung tone.

Iba kung family member ang nanghahalik sa shoulder. Iba rin kung friends lang kayo. Di mo pa rin ba ako ma-gets?

I still can't. I'm so stupid kasi. kidding. I understand now.

[woohoo]

Yeah. Parang harsh na kasi yung tone.



I still can't. I'm so stupid kasi. kidding. I understand now.

Sorry kung medyo harsh na pala ang tone ko sa iyo. Story of my life. Sheesh. :sad:

I think my posts lacked the requisite smileys para kontrahin ang pagka-harsh.

Pero believe it or not, I wasn't being harsh. Neutral lang talaga. Maybe you felt that way about my posts dahil kababasa mo pa lang nung entries ng iba na medyo on the harsh side, considering your position.

Anyway, kahit naman friends, minsan di maiwasan mag-away. Pero di tayo nag-away, ha. Serious discussion lang. :cheekkiss:

[ab_initio]

^^ganito na lang...responsibilidad po natin yung mga post natin at ang thread that we initiated...so expected po na meron kokontra, so i guess it is just fair that we're gonna defend our position to the last drop of our blood. at the end of the day,the humdrum nature of one's all too predictable day has become a lot less boring because of tsikot...hehehe... kumbaga, sabi ng fox sa Little Prince, you become responsible to the one you tamed for...(paraphrasing lang...kakaiyak tong part na to e)

IMO lang, i can always argue my point without getting hurt...ganito na lang Miss Cath, mas masaya pag may maraming pumapatol. heheheh...

[shadow]

Not really. It's just that I don't like airing out my dirty laundry in public that's why I don't tell stories about myself. I've never really met anyone in Tsikot but when the time comes that I have to, I wouldn't be too embarrassed about him knowing so much about me diba.

but you just told us your experience, oo nga pala it was your friend's experience...hehehe

[_Cathy_]

, mas masaya pag may maraming pumapatol. heheheh...

naku that's the last thing I want to happen. very non-confrontational ako na tao and I hate getting into debates/arguments. hehehe.

[ab_initio]

naku that's the last thing I want to happen. very non-confrontational ako na tao and I hate getting into debates/arguments. hehehe.

di po natin maiiwasan yan sa forum e...meron talagang devil's advocate. we'll just welcome it and politely explain our stand. minsan di rin natin maiwasan na binabara tayo, pero ok lang talaga yun...sa forum naman if you choose to speak then be ready to defend it, but if you choose naman not to defend it, ignore na lang...i guess some of my well respected forumers here, did just that.

so happy posting, Miss Cath!!! mahal ka naman talaga nina HP and woo!!! and i guess you just continue to amaze us...kasi kung hindi, dini deadma ko yung thread mo. wehehehe

[_Cathy_]

I understand woohoo now. I guess I need to refrain from starting threads here at Pitstop. Some people are just too hostile.

[_Cathy_]

Horsepower, I am so sorry if I make you want to puke.

[ab_initio]

^^sanayan lang iyan, Miss Cath...masasanay ka rin...isipin mo na lang, real world din ito...pero mas malayo dito yung buhay sa kalye...blessed ka pa rin di mo nakikita mga taong nasaktan ka. malayo yan sa totoong sakit ng buhay. wehehehe....practice here. be more assertive. we can't be lukewarm at all times, we need to make a stand. so okey lang yan...masaya naman ako sa thread mo. pero mas masaya kung sariling experience mo ibabahagi mo. kung di ka matanggap ng tao, e ano ngayon? mabubuhay ka pa rin kahit wala kami...pero mas masaya kung andiyan sina woo, hp,uls, at lahat ng mga tsikoteers...

as i have been saying you can't avoid conflict, that's part of human diversity. you embrace the fact that in several instances may ka conflict ka. the challenge is, how and what are you gonna do about it.

[_Cathy_]

I'm really not used to being around mean people. I guess this is what my Mommy tells me that there will always be people who would try to make my life difficult. The last person who made my life difficult was my boss, so instead of confronting her I just resigned (I was with the company for 4 years). But I'm happy I didn't confront her kasi now she's still friendly with me. She just has no idea how many times she made me cry. Babae at matanda kaya di talaga pwede sumagot. Iba kasi pag lalaki nagsasabi ng masakit na salita eh.

[woohoo]

I'm really not used to being around mean people. I guess this is what my Mommy tells me that there will always be people who would try to make my life difficult. The last person who made my life difficult was my boss, so instead of confronting her I just resigned (I was with the company for 4 years). But I'm happy I didn't confront her kasi now she's still friendly with me. She just has no idea how many times she made me cry. Babae at matanda kaya di talaga pwede sumagot. Iba kasi pag lalaki nagsasabi ng masakit na salita eh.

Cathy,

Labs ka namin nina HP... sabi nga niya, levelheaded lang ang post niya. Kaya huwag ka nang ma-offend, please... :smiley:

Yung comment naman niya sa SB about making him puke, it wasn't you who makes him want to puke, it was the idea of a MUCH OLDER guy together with a young girl. Iba siguro ang na-conjure niyang images about the guy being as old as your dad, lalo na't may bago siyang "target". Baka ang pumasok sa isip niya ay uugod-ugod na matanda tapos iyung babaeng naiisip niya ay yung bago niyang love interest sa Sorsogon, kaya kinailangan niya ng PLASIL.

Cheer up! Remember, labs ka namin dito!